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writes:my and my wife were trying to save our marrige so she left her bf for me, a week later she back with him after i walked in on them.she will not talk to me about it 5 days later, all she has said is that she loves me but not in the way i want as she feels more happy with her ex but we only tried for a week and have 8 yrs history her and her bf have only been going out 5 weeks and i think she may move him in, what do i as i love her so much and think she wants to try but her friend is pushing her back to her ex
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut the thing is we have a 19 mth old son all i want is for us to be a family her mum wants me to give her time.she only went back to him as she had gone out on the town with her friend the same day she handed in her notice to quit her flat to move back in with us.i have a court order all ready for my son but am now going for full custard becouse she told me she had been doing drugs with him.she see' me useing my son as a pown in all of this but how can i let her take him if she lies about what was going on the main person that is going to get hurt is my son .but she can not see that i know she will wake up one and will know she has lost every thing over acting like this
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reader, rcn  +, writes (26 September 2007):
 Tell the friend to get lost.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (25 September 2007):
 it seems like her mind is made up unfortunately regardless of what her friend is telling her.
if she has cheated on you or wrse, got a boyfriend, you need to try and accept your marriage is over. she appears to want different things and she wants a new relationship which coul go wrong and she'll run back to you but you need to be storng and assertive and do not take her back because although she says you could work things out she has no respect or love for you if she is setting up home with someone she has been back with for 5 weeks.
you need to remember that things are sent to try us, if you can get over this, you'll accomplish anything. it's going to be hard but believe me, there will be other women howver much you love yuor wife, to make a relationship work you need love, honesty and trust not to mention mutual respect, all of which she doesn't have.
you deserve better.
best of luck
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