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female
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36-40,
*ferm
writes:Me and my bf ended last wednesday. Things happend a couple of weeks before, and he said that i had been accusing him and checking up on him, and these are the things his ex used to do and she really hurt him. He said he didnt want to get hurt again so he thought it would be best to go our seperate ways. I explained that i wasnt accusing him or checking up on him, but thats how he sees it and he said he doesnt think he can give me a second chance coz he doesnt do that anymore due to being hurt so many times. Im finding this break up really hard coz i dont feel ive done anything wrong, its just coz he has issues hes thinking im doing the same as his ex. Ive tried to talk him round but he doesnt want to know, well he just saids it isnt going to work. We havent even given it a chance to work. Ive fallen in love with him and he saids he stil likes me, he just doesnt want to get hurt. Is there anything i can do to try and convince him or shall i just accept its over????
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (25 September 2007):
 unfortunatley not. your insecurities and his trust issues clash and he doesn't feel like he can handle another relationship of constant reasurrance and things.
you're hurting now but it will pass and get better, and then you will see that this is for the best.
good luck
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