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writes:Im 18 and I have never had a boyfriend before.I have no idea what im doing wrong. I go to college, I am physically attractive (Guys look at me all the time), and I definately have a nice personality (I make friends easily and keep them. Sometimes I feel that im ugly, but people say I am beautiful all the time. Sometimes I feel that im dumb, but why would I have gotten into a prestegious college?Sometimes I feel that I have a boring or mean personality but I make friends easily and people generally tend to want to be around me. I don't know. It seems like every time I get close to a guy who I know definately likes me and I definately like him, something happens and its like all of a sudden he goes away. I don't change my personality, I am the same from the first day I find out he likes me.It's weird.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): O.K
so yeahh i am only 14 but trust me on this.
there are LOADS of guys out there, and if people really do tell you your beautiful all the time - beleive them! Guys like confidance.
the next guy that shows an interest in you, or looks at you in the club. go up to him!! ask him to get you a drink, just have a good timee.. guys have the same problems you know! they get shy,
but i know i could go outside on the street, without my makeup or hair done, and find atleast 10 guys willing to have sex.
its not hard to find some desperate guy, but listen..
you shouldnt rush yourself, dont do it because you have the oppertunity, do it because you feel you are ready, and trust me. being with someone you love is 1000 times better than being with someone just because.
there isnt anything wrong with you.. people just have boyfriends at different ages, i started going out with boys young. and many times i wish i hadnt.
i think good 4you. and dont worry you will find the perfect guy soon xx
Hope i Helpd x
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reader, Sir.Byron  +, writes (26 September 2007):
From what I have read, you don't have to worry that you're not good enough. If the guys can't see how wonderful you are it's their loss. Someday you'll meet a nice guy so don't worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): You are young free and single. What is wrong with you!!?? Don't be in too much of a hurry to meet someone, you will when the time is right. My friend was 21 before she went out with a bloke for the first time. It isnt a race, just enjoy what you have, and be grateful to have your health. FREEDOM!!!
Take care.
xx
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reader, penta +, writes (25 September 2007):
 Confidence is sexy. Be okay with who you are and don't worry about the guys. They'll come once you don't need them, lol.
Every time I have been desperate for a boyfriend it's like they could smell the neediness on me and the ran for the hills. But when I was okay being alone, confident that everything was fine, suddenly the guys came out of the woodwork and were everywhere.
Be approachable. Look guys you like directly in the eyes and smile. Talk to them while making eye contact.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): You have thought of all the negative reasoning I notice.
Ever thought that you might be one of those girls that are so lovely, that they seem too good to be true?
That every guy that does like you, thinks you are so gorgeous you are bound to knock them back?
That you may be giving out the impression that you are taken?
Im sure that you are kind and gentle and clever and pretty etc and I know for sure that 18 is no age to be worrying about never having a boyfriend, if you were 50 maybe. Enjoy it while it lasts x
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