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writes:Im sixteen years old and am going out with this guy i really like, he has already fingered me, and hes amazing, but i feel like i should do something for him. The problem is that i have zero experience and dont know what to do or how to go about it. Any tips or advice you can give me would be greatly appreciated :) Reply to this Question
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever-  +, writes (30 May 2009):
 When me and my boyfriend first started doing things, we just started with the basics. I think that's where you should start too.
Maybe you could tell him you have a surprise for him or something and when you next see him, either wait until he starts to finger you or unzip his trousers and put your hand inside his pants. By this time he probably knows what's coming and he's likely to have a boner if he's never recieved anything before.
Then just toss away. If you want any tips or anything on doing that, send me an email.
But obviously if you wanted to you could always do the other thing, I just wouldn't advise it.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): why dont you talk to him ? (the greatest tip in the world) about he would like.
he will want everything - so just go for reciprocation using your hands for now for a while.
Star.x.
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reader, LizaA +, writes (30 May 2009):
Does he know that you have no experiance? Speak to him about it, find out what he wants and what you are comfortable doing, he will appreciate the honesty and you can learn together what to do.
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