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writes:I'm 15 and old friend just started talking to me again. Me and him had sex yesterday, he's 19 going on 20. I don't know what to do, I have known him for a long time, he doesn't want to hurt me. Can someone help me, please Reply to this Question |
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reader, q1605 +, writes (30 May 2009):
 You should have asked before you had sex. You are immersed in all the emotions and confusion that sex brings on, and you are too young to deal with it. But sometimes sex is about sex. And if this is all you take from this, then it is all you take from this. Go easy on him, and go easy on yourself. You are a bit too young for him. It's done and it's done. You don't have to have sex with him again, and if you do you may want to think about the emotions you are having now before you do it again. But for now, relax. This will wash you out to sea only if you let it. You are OK. He is OK. I want to tell you to not go here for another couple of years, but that may not be realistic. I don't know what to tell you about the way to deal with him because I don't know him. I lean towards letting him set the tone of what happens next except if he crowds you to have sex again. Then I would assert myself and either not do it, or do it on my own terms. You have what the guy wants. It's not always the other way round
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reader, craven white +, writes (30 May 2009):
just relax your getting carried away he just doesn't want everyone to know what he did.your young so he's kinda scared someone will know give him time and if that doesn't work when you see just speak say hi or something to put him at ease with the situation.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (30 May 2009):
 Just be friends if you don't want to get into a relationship. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): If he has just started to talk to you again, and yous have already have had sex, because of your age just becareful that hes not just using you because he finds you "easy". I think you should be "friends" for a while the now, lay off the sex, and if he still sticks around after you "not giving him any" then you will know that he truly likes you for you and is not using you. Just stay strong and try and fight it and hopfull he will turn out to be nice :)
hope this is useful x
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