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My husband never comes to bed with me unless he wants sex

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Question - (30 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2009)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi,just wanted to know if anyone could give me some advice.i am married with two children and pregnant at the moment my husband never comes to bed with me unless we are going to have sex .he has always had an interest in porn and one particular pornstar for the last year the other night i woke up to find him masturbating whilst watching her and needless to say i flipped the last time i was pregnant we had similar problems i know i'm not as physically attractive but really feel crap and jealous of the pornstar who is ten years younger and the complete opposite of how i look.the trouble is i feel like i cant trust him with the porn and feel hurt and disgusted some advice on how to deal with this thanks

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A female reader, Libra1963  +, writes (31 May 2009):

Libra1963 agony auntHi There

I can understand how you feel. when you are pregnant you do tend to feel unattractive. Most women actually glow and look there best.

You can still have sex while you are pregnant. Why don't you watch a film with him and try to do something different. Or book a night in a hotel. Buy a sexie nightie. Although you are pregnant, there is nothing stopping you. Just be gentle.

You should be thankful that he is not having actual sex with someone else. He clearly needs you.

Have fun!

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