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I think I've had an orgasm but not sure

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Question - (14 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *harchar17 writes:

hey im 17 and well ive had my fair share of boys... imature ones lol

buti just need help with wat and orgasum actually feels like ? because i think i have but im not sure .. i got all shakey.

also can anyone give me some advice ...

im still inlove with my ex but hs got a new girls friend and well im going to this party and hes going and he sed to me .. if gem(his new girlfriend) dont gooo ill have you ! so my question is .. do i have a chance or isw he just using me ? xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009):

I think your ex is being quite cheeky by saying that he'll have you (in what way does he mean???) if his girlfriend does not go to this party. I think he is just using you, both of you actually, if this is his attitude. He doesn't sound very respectful. It is your choice if you decide to get involved with him again, but just be very cautious and try not to get your hopes up too high, incase you get hurt.

As for whether you had an orgasm or not, it depends. Was the feeling pleasurable for you? I think some people describe it as intense pleasure, like waves going through them, and that there is no mistaking it when it happens. But some people don't get them like that, and instead feel a gentle, warm sort of pleasant feeling. I think it can vary from person to person.

As long as it was nice though, then I wouldn't worry too much about it! x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009):

im a 23 female...ive had my share of bf and the ex bf's that talk like that is just using you....if he has a girlfriend i would stay far away from him....put yourself in her shoes...u wouldnt want your bf to cheat on you with another girl right?...and if this guy is going to cheat on her with you then hes not even worth the time trying to be with....he seems to me like he is a cheater and once a cheater always a cheater...girl dont put your heart on the line for any guy...it wont be worth it in the end i promise...find you a new man that isnt going to cheat on you...i know its hard but there out there..take care..feel free to pm with any questions

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009):

you cant really describe what having an orgasm is like exactly becuase its different for everyone tbh but it sounds like you have had one from becoming shakey or whatever. to me it feels like my stomach is being pulled downwarsd if that makes sense and you may have screamed / shouted out.

in regards to the other question it hink you should be carefull it sounds like your being made second best but to make sure you should talk to him about and make sure that sint what he wants (:

message me if you want to chat x

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A female reader, BethyBoo Australia +, writes (14 May 2009):

BethyBoo agony auntThis guy is cruel. Yes he is using you, and Gem aswell. Imagine if you were Gem.

Onto the orgasm, i can't be sure if you have experienced one or not but i feel the same way. I think I have by what people have described but Im not quite sure. It sounds, to me, like you have orgasmed.

xx

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