What's love got to do with it

A female age 51-59, misswalston writes:

Hello readers...... I am going to give you a how to on when you know it is the right time or not to have sex. This is especially for the young readers. The one thing that we as women want to know that someone we are in a serious relationship with feels the same way we do,however, a lot of times they tell us what they feel we need to hear in order to get sex from us. One way of knowing you are ready is when you don't flinch as much when he tries to take off your clothes, kiss you or touch you. There will still be some nervousness seeing that it is your first time,but if he knows how to relax you and not be like an octupus, it should go very smoothly......Another how to know is when you don't second guess yourself so much. If you are constantly saying things like should i shouldn't i, ok today is the day, no not today, yes i am ready, no i am not ready. Chances are if you are doing a lot of back and forth, you are not ready....Never Ever let anybody rush you because it will turn out to be a terrible experience instead of it being a beautiful experience. Last but not least your heart will get fluttery everytime you are around this person and it will be a good feeling not a nervous feeling. Whenever it does happen, relax, release, inhale, exhale, flow with the flow and you will be just fine.........Good Luck!!!!!

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