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Why does it hurt when he fingers me?

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Question - (10 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

It never really feels good when my boyfriend fingers me, it feels great when he rubs/plays with my clit but no feelings but pain with the fingering, (pain cuz i'm really tight). Is something wrong with me?

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A male reader, Livelife United States +, writes (10 July 2009):

Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you. It just may take a while to get used to, make sure he takes things slowly and be sure to tell him what you're feeling. If you want to do that you should make sure it's enjoyable, otherwise what's the point? :) I hope you get things figured out, if you need anything else I'm sure you can message anyone on here for more advice. Good luck!

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A female reader, betty_black United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2009):

betty_black agony auntIm guessing your still a virgin? Its bound to hurt at first, wait til you go the full hog! Your vagina needs well lubricating and you need to go slow. Maybe stick with the clit for now.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (10 July 2009):

Honeypie agony auntThen don't let him finger you. If it doesn't DO anything but pain for you then don't do it.

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntWell it says that you're 13-15 so I'm guessing its because you're both inexperienced! He's probably going to fast and too deep! You're probably tight and you may not be lubricated properly! Have a chat with him and tell him to slow down! Maybe use some lubrication! X

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