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writes: I'm 20 years old and as of the last two years (or maybe a bit less) my libido has gone down, down, DOWN!!!!I no longer get any tingly sensations, maybe VERY mild ones. Sometimes, when I'm with my boyfriend... but it's not him, it's me.Well I was a virgin before I met him, not much experience you see, mostly making out with other guys. And I used to be so horny all the time. And when we started dating I was always so horny and he got me off so fast.I used to watch porn and instantly get turned on. I used to check out guys like there was no tomorrow! I used to have sexual dreams often, now I never have them any more!Now it's all gone. Nothing. And I've become uptight too! Now I dislike porn. And I get nothing out of watching or checking out guys. I fantasise and NOTHING happens. I can orgasm, ONLY if I try hard, and I get "aroused" in the process, not prior to. And it's not satisfying. I guess I just masturbate out of habit, or to see that I'm not totally dysfunctional... but I guess I could go months, or years, without masturbating.HELP!!! What's this? It's not a "phase" since this has been going on for like 2 years!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): There is such a thing as FSD, Female Sexual Dysfunction
the opposite or equivilent to ED the male eretile dysfuncion copy the link below to your browser & have a look hope it helps.
http://www.urologychannel.com/fsd/index.shtml
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (10 July 2009):
 Go see your doctor and talk to him. At the age of 20 your libido shouldn't go down like that with out a reason.
It could definitely be hormonal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): I went through the same thing and I never questioned if I was a lesbian like the woman who answered prior. I'm twenty also and I shocked myself when I no longer had a desire to have sex. This was a couple of months ago when I was very anxious, stressed, and clinically depressed. Be sure to take care of yourself; don't feel guilty for not having a desire to have sex -- it will come back once you start taking care of YOU,
Worked for me.
Be blessed
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): Hm, no advice - same problem- just checking out others answers. Here's something to think about: I've been having the same deal pretty much EXACTLY even the whole, months or years without lol.... Recently I have befriended a lesbian (out of curiousity mostly) I am not sexually attracted to her- but I can talk to her more, and be myself more around her than I have ever been around any guy. I don't really think I'm a lesbian, but she sure is a nice girl. lol- just something to think about when hot guys dont turn ya on anymore. Haha or maybe I'm just a weirdo- but I will be watching this question to see if it helps me too! Thanks for asking it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): Have you gone on the pill/changed pills around 2 years ago, or even since? The changes it has on your hormones can completely change your libido. If you have changed pills, I say go and try a different one! If not I'm not sure...
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (10 July 2009):
 See a doctor maybe? Are you depressed? Are you tired? Are you on any antidepressants?
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