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writes:Hey my bf wants to try anal and he wants me to swallow his cum and videotape it all im cool with the videotaping part though. i just need to know how to give him the most pleasure in anal and how to recieve anal, also i need to know how to give a blowjob? help plz lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): Anal: Use lube, use more lube than you think you need. Get a butt plug and plug it in for an hour before you let his cock near your bum-hole.
Video: DONT DO IT!!! He may show his friends or upload it to the net. I work with lot's of guys who like nothing more than showing their home made vids to everyone.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 Don't record it unless you're comfortable with the video being available on the internet and being seen by your friends. Because that is often what happens to these types of tape. Do you trust him enough that, after you have broken up, he won't want to show it to his friends? And do you trust his friends enough for one of them to not copy it and upload it?
To me it sounds like your boyfriend has been watching porn and wants to re-live some of his favourite moments. You might be about to get used. Pietry's advice below is very good. Sex should come with intimacy, love and respect. Are you getting this from your boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): First of all, sex is way more important to men than women, so the things he wants might seem like no big deal to you, but they are very important to him. Here's some tips from a man:
1. Never ever deny him sex.
2. You can use sex to manipulate your man - as long as it's in the form of giving him sex and not withholding sex. A guy will do almost anything for you if sex is the reward, but try withholding sex and he'll get it somewhere else.
3. As long as you are willing to try it, do what ever he wants to try out.
4. You initiate sex. Be more than just willing to have sex with him - be the aggressor.
5. For a BJ, do the following...
a. Take your top off and your bra off while you do it.
b. Jack him off with your mouth.
c. Don't use teeth.
d. Swallow...
e. Moan occasionally, as if you are enjoying it.
f. It's all about him. Don't expect any real pleasure from giving him a blowjob, but know that your are fulfilling an emotional need of his.
g. Every guy is different, so do what he asks you to do.
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reader, pietry  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 Just my 2 cents: whatever you do with your boyfriend is all right as long as you both agree to it and you like. If you are sure you really want to do this then go ahead but make sure your boyfriend treats you right as you are and respects you. Maybe you should consider your self respect before trying these kind of sexual contacts and what your boyfriend will think about you. Also, intimacy is usually private so the videotaping part is quite weird. If your boyfriend loves you then why taping this kind of moments? If it's for himself then aren't the nice memories well enough? Or if you are beside him he can live the moments again? Or he just wants to have such a tape that he can use later on for god knows what. Make sure your boyfriend is really for you and not for him or somebody else...
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