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anonymous
writes: I just recently had sex with this guy that i really liked and i thought he liked me but one night i came over his house and we had sex and now we barely talk at all. Did he use me or what? I need help!!!!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): hi well maybe this guy did use you for sex mainly because when ypu went over to his house you had sex with him and after that he never spoke to you from what your telling me is that he either used you for sex or maybe he didnt enjoyed the sex and became bored.no offense to you of course and if your not totally sure ask him yourself ask him what has happen between you guys relationship. remember go talk to him if your not sure and talk to him .good luck hope i helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): I'm sorry, my dear. That is exactly what he did.
Don't be surprised if he makes another booty call to you when he gets lonesome. Next time, don't allow yourself to be used. Make a point to always be "busy" when he wants to hook up....eventually, he'll get the message.
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reader, MutantKitten  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 You had a one night stand.
Often people don't talk after that.
If you want to rekindle his interest, seductively brush him off. Make him chase you, girle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): Ask him what happend. Ask him how's he's been, maybe he's just busy. Don't just jump to conclusions. It could be anything. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): Hard to tell right yet. guys usally have a three day rule thing, but if after that he dose not talk to you or trying to avoid you, i'm sorry I would have to say you were just a good time to him. Don't beat yourself up. I just recently did this myself. The best revenge is to act like it dose not bother you at all. cause he is gonna think it dose and if you show it dosent it will put him down a noch! hey we all make mistakes and we all learn from them. good luck to ya! other fish in the sea thats for sure!
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 Yes, he used you. Unfortunately, sex for guys is not emotional like it is for girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): If he ignored you just write him off and keep the memory of great sex a guy will always show interest by the way he treats dont call eighther
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