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Are there different stages of erectile dysfunction? Please help us.

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Question - (9 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I was wondering if theres different stages of ed? My man has had a problem all his life and thought it was just normal for him to get just erect enough to have sex. The problem is.. hes getting erect enough to have sex just not getting erect to his full potential? Is this ed? and also, doesnt matter how horny he is...he could be very horny and he goes soft for no reason. I want to get him help, to help both of us. Its not that he has a problem where he NEVER gets erect. Its when he does...it not getting erect as much as its suppose to. it just gets erect enough for him to "put it in" so to speak. and alot of times, he goes soft for no reason.he not uncomfortable. we have a good relationship. it just stops being erect even though hes very horny. the poor guy, i really do feel bad for him and want tohelp him and us. he thought ... his erections were his full potential and they r not. I know for a fact hes suppose to get harder than that. Like rock hard and hes not and he says he never has gotten rock hard. so, pls answer this and help us to find an answer or what to do when we go to the doctor. thank you

So: How hard is a man suppose to get? And if hes not getting hard as he should what is the problem?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009):

I have heard of this just once.

My partner had a boy friend who was 22 years old. She reports that when they made out he would take his penis out his pants and it would be semi hard. She denied having intercourse with him.

He later married someone else and they had three kids. I must assume that he was the father. His marriage wasn't good I gather.

When he was about 35 years old he had a brief affair with my partner. He undertook an 8 hour journey by road to lie with her for an hour or so, on two occasions.

Again she reports that he was only hard enough to get it in a way,but couldn't perform and he didn't deliver his load.

I posted a question on this site asking whether anyone had experience of this. Most readers held me in derision. I don't think they understood the question.He is not around to give answers.

This happened before the days of Viagra.

If I understand your situation correctly he needs to find out firstly whether he has any physical problems causing this or are there any psychological issues? You haven't told us how old he is.I gather he can come in you?

If all is well in those areas something like viagra works very well.

I would be glad if you would mail me.

I would like to hear what the doctor says about this, and yes, I am also trying to underdstand why my pertner's friend could not deliver his load into her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009):

Does he have a wieght problem? I lost 30 pounds and the problem corrected itself.

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