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*issmchief
writes:I've just started a relationship with an older guy (25) and I know that he's been circumcised. I've been with a few guys before and have no complaints but they've all been uncircumcised. I'm just a little unsure as to how to make foreplay good. I don't want to hurt him. I can't see exactly how I would give him a good handjob since the usual technique is all about rubbing his skin/foreskin over the head to make friction :/ I'm sure I will be able to ask him what he likes once sex is a regular thing but I don't want to look a complete amateur and have him need to give me instructions all the way through, hardly a turn on. I want it to be memorable for all the right reasons, not because it was uncomfortable and awkward for him! Would love to hear a guys point of view. x
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (9 February 2009):
 The only difference is that you will need to use some sort of lubricant to keep from excessive friction causing irritation.
However, stay away from petrolium products if you intend to have sexual intercourse following masturbation because it can cause you problems. In this case you need to use a water soluable lubricant. There are many products available over the counter for just this purpose, even those which are flavored or even heat up when you blow on them.
For example these that are made in the states:
http://www.kimmieshouseofpleasure.com/content-product_info/product_id-2748/emotion_lotion_6_pack.html
Or one listed for your locality:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Emotion-Lotion-Pumpkin-Pie/dp/B000UQE3E8
If you plan only on pleasuring him, almost any lubricant will do. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): hmmm. Ive never been with an uncircumsized guy, in america mostly every guy is circumsized. You dont really have to worry about hurting him, just do the same as usual but use your hand instead of his skin.
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reader, Tomas +, writes (9 February 2009):
One thing you don't have to worry about - there is still plenty of "slack" to move the skin relative to the shaft of the penis. You're right that there isn't as much skin to move over the head of the penis ... it will sort of just go over the ridge of the glans (head). Most of the motion will be on the shaft, and the most sensitive area is actually just below the head on the bottom; your motion will cover this.If you want to add a little more, most guys like gentle (gentle!) fondling of their balls. If you have lubrication, you can also lubricate the penis and then, instead of sliding the skin against the shaft, you can slide your hands against the skin (the skin doesn't stay in fixed contact with your hands). This may feel even better, and you can move over the head itself, but it is messier. (And for completeness sake, unlubricated you can also kiss or lick around the exposed head while stroking - but then it's not strictly a handjob anymore.)Any of it will feel terrific, no worries, he'll love it. Only things that don't feel good are (a) excessive bending and (b) fiddling around inside the opening at the end.
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