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Would you ask the guy to get circumsized? Would you pay for it?

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Question - (9 February 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2009)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Girls you really like this guy you have gone out with for a couple of mouths, he decided he wants to have sex with you and he is not circumcsied,would you ask him if he would go and get cut because you only like men cut and if he does would you pay for it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009):

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I have heard about people that have done this that is why I asked this question.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009):

My girlfriend read that the Amazon women circumcised their male slaves to identify them as well as for their sexual pleasure. (The exposed knob gets harder around the edge.) Because I was also having medical problems with my foreskin, I decided to do it. It was painful and is still uncomfortable, but she is very proud to show me off when we go to nude beaches in Europe. She didn't just pay for it, she did it. (She's a doctor.)

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2009):

it's disgusting. the thought that someone out there would do that. those sorts of people don't deserve to have bf's. asking someone to go through pain just for their selfish reasons is so awful and so wrong.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009):

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I would not ask a guy to go and get cut, I just wanted to know what others thought on the topic.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009):

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I would not ask a guy to do this also. I just wanted thoughts from others.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2009):

HELL NO!

what are you thinking?!? you want this poor guy to go and be circumcsied just because you don't like uncut men! are you for real. do you really think a guy would put himself through all that pain just to keep you happy. i would never dream of telling a guy to get himself cut to make me feel happy. to me uncut,cut they are all the bloody same! it's still a penis. as long as they are clean what's the big deal?!

if you can't handle him having a foreskin then you are pretty shallow and sad, especially if you want him to do it just for you. talk about selfish. how would you feel if he turned around and said "oh i don't like small boobs, can you get them made bigger for me" i doubt you would be happy. i can't believe some people! it makes me feel sick! i feel sorry for him. he could do better!

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A female reader, Annieapple United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2009):

What? How would you feel if they guy said he didn’t like the way that your vagina looks and asked you to have surgery on it? I for one wouldn’t like it!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (9 February 2009):

Honeypie agony auntWow no. Would you have implants - lets say, size triple E cause he likes big boobs?

Or would you have a hysterectomy cause he likes to be 100% sure you don't get pregnant?

If you can not have sex with him, because he isn't cut then he isn't for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009):

I agree with Didda123.

Why on Earth should he get circumcised because you only like circumsised men?

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A female reader, didda123 United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2009):

didda123 agony auntI would certainly not mention it and i can't see him agreeing to this anyway just to satisfy your needs, if you are feeling like this then this guy is not for you.

What man is going to put himself through that sort of pain and suffering just for your pleasure if it was for medical reasons i could understand it but i'm sure it is fine the way it is it is your problem not his.

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