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Archived questions from: 26 August, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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I'm broke and in debt, and have been offered money for sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I've been talking to a friend of a friend. He is 19 (I am 18) and we've never physically met. Recently he offered me £1000 to give him anal sex for two months. I REALLY need the money. I am broke and have a lot of debt to pay off. I've tried g...

How can I tell my parents? I don't know what to say. I feel depressed and I'm scared about not getting the grades to get into University.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

26 August 2011 (?) - My feels have taken a nosedive over my grades. I've just sat my A level exams this summer. I didn't quite get the grades I was hoping for nor did I get my predicted grades... I got BDD. I know, I'm stupid right? When I do study it will mean I a...

He's in jail for life, and he's telling me to cut contact. How can I deal with my strong feelings for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a man who is incarcerated. I met him through a pen pal service which asks for people on the outside, like myself to write to prisoners. To be on the safe side, I picked a man who was doing life without the possibility of p...

Why will he not kiss me? The whole classroom is bugging him to kiss me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - okay so, my boyfrined and I have know each other for like 3 monthes and we've been going out for like 2 weeks but there's just one little problem: he won't kiss me! Well it's not totally his fault like the whole classroom knows and they all bug us a...

I want to propose to her soon. So what do I do about my fear that she is seeing someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - Mod Note: The Aunts and Uncles may need a following please on what are the signs you are seeing indicating that she might be seeing someone else. I've been dating my girlfriend for over 2 years. We had a little rough patch a a few months ago. I h...

I love the attention of my BFF and feel bad when he has a girlfriend. What does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - How can i know if i'm in a emotionnal affair with my male bff (i've known him for one year)? I adore my boyfriend but i like the attention i get from my bff he listens to me and notices me more than my bf it seems. I'm addicted to it I think like a ...

Should I give up on him? He hurt me in the past. Now he refuses to do what he promised as a condition of coming back to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - My ex and i have have been trying to work things out since April. he came back begging for another chance. we have been broken up now for almost a year, but since we started working things out it has been going great. we have been able to get past...

At a low point in my life. how can I get out of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Hi all, I guess i don't know exactly how to explain how i feel in any other phrase but low, incredibley low. The guy i was interested in, screwed me over and thanks to all my attention being for him i messed up my a levels real bad an have only just ...

Can a man grow a backbone? Or should I move on? He believes others over me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - So I had met this guy a few times, and thought he was cute, so I asked my girlfriend about him and she said he was great, that they were just friends and so she gave him my number. So we get together, and right away, I could tell we are really hitt...

Does him getting in a huff about me seeing my ex mean he has feelings for me or just cant he commit?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - ok, little back story... I was dating this guy for 8 months but he was a rebound relationship after my first used me and dumped me for someone else. I could never get over my first relation while I was with him so after my 3 time trying to contact ...

How can I deal with this emotionally dead girl who I seem to want more from?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - A few weeks ago, I discovered routines and methods of being able to approach girls who would be rated say a 9 out of 10 so to speak and who reject any male that gives them attention. Anyway, I approached one girl etc and got through her usua...

Does she like me or is she just 'tolerating' me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - At work, there is a woman whom I am very attracted to, although I dont know whether she likes me or is just 'tolerating' me. I'm starting to think that she doesnt, based on the following: -When we didnt see each other very often, working i...

Why is she acting awkward? I only told my best friend about my crush on this girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - i had this best friend for many months now, and she never fail to cheer me up whenever im down. we could tell each other everything. however just recently, i started to develop feelings for her. everyday it got stronger and stronger and i guess it ...

It is normal to embrace having a phobia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - I have just found that I suffer from a phobia known as Philophobia which is the fear of falling in love. Now I do not have all the side symptoms such as nausea, sweating and such but the problem here is I like having this phobia. I see all the time ...

Spring V Autumn. Does she like me? she's 19.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - There is this girl, she's 19 i'm 57. she always calls me sweetie when she sees me. The other day at the gas station she called out at me to get my attention. Does she like me or am i just thinking this?...

My man will live in my basement, but not move upstairs with me, WHY???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my partner for almost 5 years we live in the same house for just over 3 years . We have great sex in bed lots of passion, but he only sleeps with me on weekends. He lives in my basement, I have asked him to move up ...

This long distance is killing me. What shall I do?? My friends say stay with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - hi... ive been in two serious relationships in this past year with two different guys... i was with a guy who i had a crush on for 4 yrs for 6 months and it was long distance because i moved to here three yrs ago. well me and him had a lot of trus...

How do I act around him? I do not want to deal with him. would be rude to ignore him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Ok so last year there was this guy who really liked me. I would catch him staring when I talked to other guys and about 15 people (some of whom I didn't even know. They knew my name though) told me he liked me. I was asked various questions like "do ...

He's hugged me. But how do I start having a conversation with him? And about what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Ok so im Very shy and quite but i reeeeeeallllllyyyy like this guy and i'm wearing his football jersey tomorrow and we talk ALL the time, but we barely talk at school. we can't ever hangout because i have work and he has football practice so when...

My boy friend is getting testy. Should I aim to do well in this job and miss the holiday we have booked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Am I a terrible person for doing this? He's making me feel like an absolute bi*ch. I work two jobs, and live with my boyfriend. One job is a day job to pay rent and bills and the second job is a non-paying internship to help further my ca...

Have I made a huge mistake - allowed my BF to have sex with my BF???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 4yrs on and off again just cheated on me with my best friend last week. we have 2 kids and i think i want to try and work past this, but here is the issue, my friend has wanted a child for a long time now, so 3 weeks a go we mad a ...

I want to prove this can work. But can it? Even if we were raised differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4633 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 years. Within this long period of time we have not progressed. I was brought up in a family where we were pushed to further our education and strive for the best. I've always came from a stab...

Is it even worth taking holidays with my BF when he will not allow me enough relaxation time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Every holiday I take with my boyfriend barely feels like a holiday for me. He always insists we get up very early and go do activities despite the fact that whilst on holiday I may like the occasional lie in or a relaxing day. I usually go alon...

As a relationship, how can I make this work? Is she just humoring me or being genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - me and my ex just started seeing each other not even a week ago when my therapist called her to see if she would come in for a session. She called me and we met up. Then hooked up and it was great. We still fought almost the whole time (just...

He truly doesn't turn me on sexually anymore. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and it feels like I've lost my interest in him sexually. We went hard and heavy the first 2 years but it went downhill from there. We have been going through problems which I think has some...

She is so pushy. How do you deal with this friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I have this friend, lets call her N, who is very pushy. For example, we were making plans to hang out and we were going to walk around our neighborhoods, as they are next to each other. She texted me saying her parents were leaving and she was ...

Am I right to be uneasy about his request that I strip on cam for him? .

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - well. i have know this guy as a good friends more than 2 years. he always compliment me on my hair and says you look good plus he keep saying don't cut them off. he lives far from me so finally i asked him to catch up soon on cam. I was surpr...

Why is he pursuing me so relentlessly, despite my attitude? He has a partner already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I am currently involved with a long distance relationship/friendship that's puzzling. This person claims they are "in a relationship", yet has been pursuing me relentlessly. I have received flowers, money, clothing, letters, cards and other gift...