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Archived questions from: 7 August, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Want to have sex with my cousin, need advice??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - hi my age is 18. I am male. I want to have sex with my cousin, she is also 18. Just 1 month elder than me. Plz tell me how to seduce her....

Found out he's looking at porn, feeling very insecure. what to do??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I found out my boyfriend looked at younger women in porn and now I'm embarrassed to be naked in front of him. This is the first relationship I've been in where I actually felt GREAT about sex. I was excited by the sight of him and initiated re...

Should older women stop taking birth control pills??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I think I want to start having kids by beginning of next year. Me and my boyfriend have talked about it. I am currently on birth control and I am 30yrs old. Had a convo with girlfriends who told me I have to stop taking such pills at this age. This ...

Should I just get over him, and how do I do that??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - So....my problem is men related! Nothing new there then! Haha! I'll keep it (try to) as brief as possible. But basically I think I'm being blown out and lost guy I think was right for me. I met him 4 months ago, he told me from first date didn't do ...

Am I asking for too much or what??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - We turned a year last sunday and I only received one phone call and he was too tires to talk anyways... Here is the story: We met through a mutual friend a year ago. Although it was long distance, he seemed like a good guy so I gave it a chanc...

Ladies, I am attracted to her, think she is to me, what do I do now, we work together??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm after some female advice. I really like a girl who works on same floor but in different department. I've told her that I liked her. I kind of decided last year not to pursue anything as I thought it would interfere with work. Not s...

He wants to be tied up, I need a confidence booster, help me please??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Hi. Me and my boyfriend are 17, we have been together 6 months now and recently we’ve been getting a lot more intimate. We havnt had sex, Im not quite ready yet so he has promised we’ll wait until I am but he does finger me and I give him handjobs ...

We broke up, I'm miserable, want him back, any suggestions??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Me and my bf of 6 months broke up 2months ago and im still madly inlove with him i cant get him out my head im absolutely crazy about him He wont talk to me at all im running after him like a puppy dog text after text etc i know i shouldnt but i ca...

Long distance bf, hooked-up, nothing since, what to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Hi Me and my bf of 2 years were in LDR for the past 1 year. Recently i came back to my place and we hooked up yesterday. We did have sex for the first time in 1 year and it was great. He said a lot of romantic things like he never met a girl like ...

Fell in love, not returned, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - i m 28 year i m fall in love with my cousin sister but she never love me iwant to sex her she is very sexy she is 20 how can i attract for sex in the past when she was 15 whenever i tried to tuch her boaby she irretate ...

Had unprotected sex, have an issue now, please help??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Hey everyone Ok i had unprotected sex 2nights ago and since yesterday morning iv had a little bit of thrush :-/ I obviously did wash well after intercorse etc as you do but im a little bit worried not about sti's coz thats not an issue but can an...

Information on speed dating appreciated, good or bad??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - just wondering if speed dating is any good? seems like fun. anyone done it?...

Ex bf still in picture, what can one do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - I have a girlfriend who I have a kid with and we've been together for 3.5 yrs. Our daughters 2.5 yrs old. Coming into the relationship she had kids with a prior bf and a relationship lasting 13 yrs. She swears up and down shes over him and has no ...

I'm very apprehensive about a job I applied for!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some advice...I'm so confused re the job offer. I am absolutely broke and I have been looking for a job for 3 months now and I've been offered a manager role at a company. Ok salary, enough to pay bills and although company isn't dream ...

I still love him. He's ignoring me. He's going in 2 days. what Can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I feel im going mad with my ex. We split a few months back because he joined the army and is about to be posted abroad for 8 months. But we still keep in touch, text, chat and flirt because I still love him and he says he still has feelings for me. ...

Am I being overly concerned that my current relationship will be adversely affected by a past crush of mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I'm 22 years old i am in a loving relationship with my partner who i've been with for over a year 15 months today actually. But before i found my partner now i did like a friend whom i thought felt possibly the same towards me as things happ...

Is he still loyal to me? Or is he besotted with this girl at his work who looks like a porn star?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - i am distrustful of my boyfriend so logged into his computer without him knowing. i searched through his internet history and found that he had found porn star images that look exactly like a girl who he works. And I know that girl at his work likes ...

Considering our misunderstandings do I have a chance still?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - well, i met a very sweet girl n she was so friendly that i couldn't even imagine at all. after 3 times meeting accidentally, we got share of our cell nos n we became very good friends. after we got to meet many times, i got fallen in love with her...

I'm gay, but no one knows...how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - I have a big problem about fitting in but not the type Im weird fitting in. The problem is that I'm gay but know one knows about me except for a few friends at school. I feel that no one should know about me unless you ask or figure it out yourself. ...

Could I be gay? Watching girl porn excites my husband AND me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I got married last dec. and my husband and i started watching porn just a few months ago for ideas. we have been watching a lot of girl on girl action and it has turned me on to the point that we have thought about asking another woman to join us. ...

What do high self esteem women care about V low self esteem women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - Is it generally true that low self esteem women care more about the status/popularity/what everyone else thinks of the men they choose to be with, i.e. the more popular the better, and that high self esteem women don't particularly care about status ...

Is a Divorce the only way to fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - I cant help but feel that a divorce is the only way to fix our relationship. My wife and i have been married for almost 4 years now and things are starting to get all messed up. we have always had little fights that seemed big but we always w...

Why don't women with low self-esteem stay loyal to emotionally strong men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - Why don't low self esteem women choose to be loyal to emotionally strong, masculine men, who are good to them? (a generalization)...

Am afraid of telling the elderly people I work with that I am leaving my job...how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Hi just a quick question. Hope you can help. This is not relationship question. It is regarding my work. I work in the community, have done so for 6 years and over the years, i have built up some good friendships. But due to the attitudes of th...