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Archived questions from: 3 August, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Shy and no faith in my self

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3 August 2011 (M) - so hears my problem, regarding my shyness i have always been shy and quiet as far back as i can remember i have always been the same i am shy, quiet and low in self esteem. all through school i would get very anxious when having to do presentations ...

Would a guy date a person like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I think i have a really high sex drive. This in itself is not a problem but im just wondering if it is normal to have one as high i as i believe i have. I get myself off at least once a day and on some days it can be up to 5 or 6 times. I don't h...

The Art Of Communcation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

3 August 2011 (M) - Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Your ability to connect with your partner verbally or non-verbally (body language) can show whether your relationship has the potential of moving forward, or if it's headed for disaster. ...

Could this technique help people to keep that 'honeymoon' feeling forever?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, i've read loads of great advice on here about the 'honeymoon phase' of relationships, and how this fades in time in all relationships, and it leaves me wondering why we stay in long term relationships then? The honeymoon phase is great ...

How does the plan B pill work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I saw a commercial for the Plan B pill today--how does it work? Can you take it after any time you had sex just to be safe or no? Not planning on having sex at all just curious. ...

Is it an out of body experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - is it true that the big jumpy feeling you get when you're asleep, like you're falling, is reallly your body trying to keep your soul from leaving your body? like an out of body experience? ...

Am I wrong to be jealous or does my boyfriend like this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - We work together. We've been together for 4 months. The girl has worked there for 3 months... she started a month after he and I began talking and dating... Two days after she started, she had his number. Bc she and I were walking to the hap...

Is this just nostalgia? Was my ex really the love of my life? Or am I looking at it through rose tinted glasses?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Does anyone else in Long Term relationships sometimes wonder what life could have been like if you were with someone else? My example.. I was with my Ex for 5 years then I met my boyfriend as things wern't working out with my Ex as he was always...

So many regrets.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I was in Paris the last 6 weeks. There I broke up with my boyfriend because I felt bad. I was doing things he would never do. We are muslims. And I was drinking making out with guys... In the last week I invited an old friend to come to visit me...

Is this a red flag or is it me just being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Ok I complained of twitter before that he tweets a lot but majority said it does not really matter. Now it is an ex he, my man is tweeting "Night night lil mama. Hit me up". I know majority would say it is just twitter but this is how it starts and ...

Is this cheating?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Is it cheating to make a profile on a dating site and chat to singles,with the intent of meeting? I cought my gf doing this and she said it was just to pass time, because she is at home all day doing nothing (I'm the only one that works). What...

I've developed feelings for my friend's 16 year old son, how can I make this go away?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Well here goes : i'm just 40 (look about 30-32-so i'm told)n seem to be having a mid-life crisis!! I've lost over 6 stone and feel great. Background: I'm married with 2 young children and a lovely caring husband who is the same age. Problem: ...

Insecure about his definition of cheating.....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I'm very interested to know from men how they perceive this man's logic, but also to hear in general from anybody his/her thoughts on this. The other day I spoke with my one year bf and he told me about his ex's. I asked him if he was cheating...

Should I meet him in real life? I'm not sure if he is the kind of guy I want.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm new here and I really want to thank you in advance for your advices. I'm kinda in a big problem because of my confused feelings. I'm sorry if this story is too long, I'm trying to shorten it as much as I can. I met this guy (DB) on ...

Do I give up a life that has already been planned out for a man who gives me butterflies and makes my head spin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (?) - Been with a guy for over 5 years. Recently moved in together. Smooth sailing, no big issues, no big fights. Planning on having a baby in the next few years. He's a man you can trust. I know he's there for me and he's been showing me nothing but ...

Why does my manager always pick on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Why does my manager always picks on me? does she just not like me? Am new at my work. Am a temp. But I've been there for 8weeks now. I like my work. I love what I do. But my manager is always picking on me. She gives me the hard task and wat...

How do I explain to my daughter that the man she thought was her dad actually wasnt her father, and he died 3 years ago?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

3 August 2011 (?) - I have a 5 year old daughter. From the time she was born till she was 2 my best friend Craig was always there for her and I. My daughter called him daddy, even though he really wasn't her dad. Craig died when my daughter was 2 and ever since he...

Why arent women hardwired to accept porn if all men are hardwired to watch it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - If all men are "hardwired" to look at porn and women other than their girlfriends or wives then why aren't all women hardwired to be understanding and accepting of this? ...

What's wrong with me? Am I unapproachable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I am 29 years old and female. I have been in one really serious relationship where I was in love with the boy and he was not in love with me until we broke up. After we broke up I met someone and was completely and fully in love. To the max, as ...

How do I meet a woman that is worth my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (M) - So in this past year of self reflection and detoxing myself from the dating world of getting a hook up and a crappy gf I have learned a few things. The ultimate thing it comes down to is that I am the fixer upper. I take on women with problems and ...

Is he flirting with me or just being a pest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I have an employee who sits across from me at work. He peeks at my cubicle several times a day. I ignore him because I am way too busy. Then, he manages to come to my cubicle to ask me a question. However, he sits down and starts a conversation, ...

Why is marriage old news in UK now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Why is marriage old news in UK now?? All the americans that have blogs online all seem to be married like real young (20s) and I swear hardly any people marry in the UK anymore. I actually feel like migrating to USA just because marriage is more ...