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writes:okay so, my boyfrined and I have know each other for like 3 monthes and we've been going out for like 2 weeks but there's just one little problem: he won't kiss me! Well it's not totally his fault like the whole classroom knows and they all bug us about not kissing eachother. I don't know what to do. How should I tell him that i want to kiss him? How should I tell everyone to leave us alone?
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reader, Rebeccaa  +, writes (29 August 2011):
 Lol i have been in that suituation before, when your young and at school, people act like that and want to see you kiss, its totally normal, as you get older you will notice it eventually fades away.
As for you wanting to kiss him, maybe he doesnt want to kiss you infront of everyone. Tell him when you are on your own with him, or maybe just wth a few friends. Maybe you wont even have to tell him he might make the first move. If he doesnt and you are slightly nervous about talking about it you could just lean and see what happens.
Or maybe you just need to spent sometime with him on your own and he will eventually make the first move if you dont want too.
I hope this helped good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011): I have been in that situation before. Some boys are just nervous about kissing. Do you know if he has kissed any one before. It could be his first kiss. But do the little things like kiss his neck. His Cheeks. Maybe he will give in to temptation and kiss you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011): try talking to him about it. i did that with my boyfriend i would ask him things like ideas such as: "what would you do if i kissed you but it was just a small quick kiss" etc. it took awhile but after a few weeks he moved me toward the wall hugged me and kissed me. my boyfriend tells me thanks for the ideas cause it actually gave him courage to kiss me. just give him time he will come around to it. give him light cheek kisses occasionally move a little closer to his lips as a little hint. you can even touch your lips with your fingers and put your fingers on his lips i did that a few times too. hope this helps :)
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