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writes:How I can get rid of unwanted desire? I am female married in my 50s. Maybe when I was 16 and had never seen an erect penis desire developed to see. From early till now I never desired for intercourse sex. I married and have a good husband, first time in my life I saw his erected and we enjoyed. My husband cooperated with me and we may have or not intercourse but almost every night I(hope both of us)enjoy to my entire satisfaction playing with his penis etc. My madness has not gone yet, till now I desire by any chance or by any accident to see any one's erect penis and doesn't want it known to any one. I feel shame to have such desire and believe a woman should never desire. None even my husband don't know my mad desire. Please suggest how I can get rid of this habit. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Miamine. You are absolutely right. I appreciate your beliefs and your suggestion/comments. It will also help many others.
Just to be more clear I want to say that I have born and brought up in a culture and beleive a woman is only for her husband. I not only beleive it rather it is a true fact marrying makes two persons one. A very strong trust string together make them one. In my case what ever, we both never thouught of any thing less in our sexual life as well as any other matter. In my desire case, apart from sin I never wanted to touch or having any sort of sex with any other's penis I just desire only to see and same time I never want oposite person to know it. Otherwise it is very easy to manage. Just to add I have found it very easy when ever I see a horse I will make some reasons to stay and wait for possible show of erect penis.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 You are married.. in the eyes of your god and the eyes of the law, your husbands body is their for you to enjoy. Men and women get pleasure from sex, we get pleasure from the body, that's why we keep having sex and having babies..This is all normal.. When we are young, sex is difficult. We are told good women do not enjoy it. But this is a lie. Sex is not only for men, it is also for women. Women can have pleasure as well. You are a wife, this is your husband. When you married, two people became one person. His body belongs to you and your body belongs to him, you do nothing wrong.As women get older, we like sex more, we feel more free, and we are less shy. This is normal. You can talk to your husband, but if this is difficult, then you are allowed to touch him and you are allowed to look.. He is your husband and you like to touch him and this is good.You come from Pakistan, if you are Muslim, the Koran says that a wife should be able to find pleasure in sex. All holy books say this, a husband and wife should like each other and enjoy each other's bodies. The Christian bible has the Songs of Solomon, this is all about sex between woman and man... the Hindu books have sexy statutes, and their goddess and gods are united in body.Have fun... hahahahaha.. you are a wife who loves her husband's body, you have no problems.. :)
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 Why be ashamed of it? There is nothing to be ashamed of unless you're going around to random guys asking to see their penis. I'm sure your husband loves your sex drive. I've never found a girl who can keep up with mine, so I'd embrace this if I was with you.
Women can have desire. There is nothing wrong with that. Some cultures try to remove it from their women, but that is not right to do. Women are sexual creatures too. That is healthy. There is nothing wrong with you and I hope you will be able to see that someday.
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