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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

My heart is smashed into a million little pieces...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago, my heart has literally been smashed into a million tiny pieces and it hurts so much. It hurts this much mainly because it was a sudden breakup and that I wasn't expecting it. What's even worse is ...

I am an idiot!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I am currently engaged to a beautiful woman with 2 kids, the story is as follows. Beautiful woman was with self centered and controlling man that liked to see her bang other guys, she did not like this went though 10 years of this to stay married....

Horny for my brother in law!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi I am a 31 year old married guy. Successful carreer, beautiful loving wife and gorgeous 2 kids - whatever I do circles around them. I have known my wife since we were 15 - we were each other's first love and no one ever got between us. However, I ...

Should I send him the gifts after his cold response?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - This guy I like is in Afghanistan and he's coming home for Xmas. I asked him if I could send him a box with things before he comes home. By his reply that it was a cold one, I decided not to, but I told him I would anyway. Read the conversation: ...

My husband has a problem with sexting...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My husband has a problem with sexting... This is the 3rd time I've found out. It's heart breaking. Some argue it's not cheating, but to me it is. And after 3 times I see it's not gonna stop, and it will lead to something else if it hasn't ...

The person I love is jealous of me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - So I really have feelings for my colleague, I hardly know him but I'm so attracted to him; he's good looking, intelligent, we potentially have loads in common, and I have no doubt he is aware that we could be great friends if nothing more. He only ...

How to know if you're gay, bi, bi-curious, confused or straight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi I'm a 21 years old male I'm here for help with some issues that I'm trying to deal with but don't know so please take your time to read my story and help me or give me some advice. This is me, a straight male who had never been or slept ...

I'm attracted to transsexuals, but I'm afraid that my interest might be considered insulting

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi there, I'm a young woman, I look feminine and pretty, in a girl-next-door way. Everyone who doesn't know better is mistaking me for "straight". But I've got a secret, and I don't know who to talk to. I'm known to be bisexual, but if I am re...

Another baby with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - ok so i have a son from a previous 4 year relationship. My son's dad and i are no longer together but he has regular contact with my son and we are both on good terms. He has now asked me to have another baby with him. I was completely thrown by the ...

Was my boyfriend's behaviour appropriate?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is in real estate. He went to a closing with his female agent. even though she lives closer to the closing site, she drove back to the office to meet y boyfriend so they can go together. I had no problem with that but after the ...

Should I meet up with my holiday fling? The whole situation is so complicated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I worked for some friends abroad for a year. and while I was there i got involved with my mothers friends husband (Im 18, he's 34) The affair was short and I expected to go home at the end of my work and forget all about it. Problem is I just cant!! ...

Fiancee and confusion! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] hey guys this is long story but ill try to make it as small possibleee i could do well with some ''outside'' advice so im going out with this girl... its been 11 months.. but in the beggining it was really...

Falling in love with my brother in law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - i'm 38 years old and i fell in love with my brother in law who moved with us recently, my husband is always travelling and doesn't have much time for me or my kids, who became really attached to their uncle, he is much younger than me and passing ...

How a crush destroyed my marriage.....what is your opinion?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

28 September 2010 (?) - The excerpt below is a series of narratives I wrote 2 years ago after I developed a life-changing crush on a woman. Since then, this woman moved away, I lost touch with her, I fell away from my wife and had an affair (with a different woman), my ...

We are thinking about marriage but I have a few problems, can anyone advise me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - hello to all, this story is quite long. but please read it and advice. i am 16 currently. i am in a relation with someone. the problem is that i feel he is opposing too much on me though he loves me very much. am actually the 3rd girl in his life...

How do I find the strength to leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I really hope you can help me. I have been in a relationship for close to three years now and for the duration of it I believe my partner has been cheating on me with different women. Back in March something wasnt right so b...

Is a second chance possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Me and this girl have known each other for 8 years now through contact over the internet. Earlier this year we found out our mutual love for each other, we were in regular contact and loved just taking to each other. After I graduated I decided to ...

How I can get rid of unwanted desire?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - How I can get rid of unwanted desire? I am female married in my 50s. Maybe when I was 16 and had never seen an erect penis desire developed to see. From early till now I never desired for intercourse sex. I married and have a good husband, first ...

I lied about my age when we first started talking, and now I need to tell him the truth but I don't know how....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I'm 16 years old, I've been meeting up with someone who I like very much for about a year now, and it's just been meeting and hanging out a bit in the past but now it's starting to be more like it could really go somewhere despite obstacles. which ...

Ugly duckling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - heyy well im 13 gunna be 14 years old and well i feel sooo ugly. ive always been the "ugly duckling" i was always teased about my hair and weight.. my friends say im ugly and wen my family say im pretty i think theyre on sumthing.. i fear i will ...

What to do when you feel burned out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I'm at a point in my life where I have no clue what to do and I literally have no inspiration whatsoever. I compensated for being a fluke in high school by trying extra hard in college. Right now I'm getting my bachelor, but lately it just s...

Can't I just be casual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - So, with my first and only question I encountered a lot of people who didn't believe my intentions (that I just want fun, didn't say what they thought about what the guy actually said (or rather typed), and then told me that what he said was a lie ...

I have two sexual fantasies that people seem to find disgusting and a turn off.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I have two sexual fantasies that people seem to find disgusting and a turn off. I see loads of evidence of them on the internet but have never met anyone who admits to liking them. Firstly I have a real love for Feet, i find them very sexually ...