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Archived questions from: 21 September, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Am I weak or I am I just really cursed with bad luck?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - There is everything wrong in this moment in my life. At the last 10 years was an unstoppable downward spiral. What destroyed me greatly.I m unable to give all details, because, its too easy to recognise them. I can tell you generally. Every...

My girlfriend doesn't say I love you anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - I think my gilfriend is scared. She's acting cold on the phone and not saying I love you anymore, she used to say it 10 times a day for months :). She just moved to my country to be with me for the winter but shes studying in a town thats not too ...

My wife decieved me about having an abortion and an STD in the past, and now I am struggling to forgive and forget.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - When my wife and I were still dating she told me she had been with lots of guys. I asked her if she had ever had a STD or been pregnant before, she said no. Two weeks later the told me she had herpes, one week later she found out she was pregnant. ...

I don't have feelings for my ex anymore but I feel like we should give things another go for the sake of our child....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Hey guys, my problems a little hard.... Basically, I have a child, a 5 month old boy, with my ex. We werent together very long when i fell pregnant and split when i was pregnant. But he still provides for our son and is an excellent father...

I feel bored to tears with everything in my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - I need some advice. Have you ever felt bored to tears with everything in your life? Interacting with the kids, my professional life, dinner parties with friends, playing poker with the boys, going on a trip to see a big NFL game - and worse of ...

Why do men in relationships watch porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - why do men in relationships have to look at porn sites of women and women as well as men and women and watch sites with other men jerking off?...

Caught in the middle of a love triangle: My partner is in love with me and the mother of his children!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Dear readers, I'm presently caught in the mids of a love triangle. the guy that I'm in love with is in love with two women. This was not suppose to happen because she is his long time family friend from childhood. They both got married to other...

Is it all women, or just my wife that have boring sexual fantasies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - So, my wife really gets off on hearing about my sexual fantasies. She often asks me to tell her, " what were you thinking about last time you masturbated.". Then I will tell her, WHATEVER it was, be it having sex with our next door neighbor, the ...

On average, how often does a woman in her mid-40's want to orgasm per week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - What is the average, or "normal" amount of times a woman in her mid-40's would want to orgasm? I know for me, the " poisons have to leave the building" at least 3 times per week - whether with my wife's help or solo if need be. Do women have a ...

Help! Is he still in love with his ex wife?

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21 September 2010 (F) - I was dating a single man who has 3 children 21 yrs, 19 yrs and 16 yrs. After about 6 mths of dating. The ex wife decided to visit their family house often because the children live with their father and refuses to visit the mother because she left...

How to know if he loves you?

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21 September 2010 (F) - How to know if he loves you ...

Should I go ahead and have sex with this guy when he doesn't want a serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I'm stuck and need advice, I have never had a proper boyfriend and I am in my late 20s, I just never feel attracted to anyone or if I do they never feel the same. I feel for someone at work and he said he was interested in me but doesn't want...

I am gay but about to marry a woman, does anyone have any advice on how to make my marriage work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - hi, im jay 28 yrs old gay and dont have any feeling for girls. but i have too marry a girl very soon, i have already stopped my gay activities and want to live like other married couples and i have heared that many gays are married and have kids ...

How do I deal with my sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - Well Hi I've got a messy situation I need some help to fix! Let's start at the beginning, At The end of April I just had this dream that basically a big sign I was gay I woke up wondering just thinking it over if o was gay then I typed 'Gay K...

We broke up years ago but I still miss him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - We've known each other since we were 9 and 10 years old. He was my first boyfriend when I was 13. I didn't even think of sex then but he gave me my first kiss and we showed PDA. I moved to another city and lost touch. When I was in college at 19 he ...

Any aunts specializing in domestic abuse questions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Are there any Aunts who specialize in answering domestic abuse questions? I ask because I'd like to write in private rather than post on a public board. ...

Is it normal to miss your ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Iv been in a relationship for 5 months now and never been happier. But recently i have found myself thinking and somwtimes dreaming about my ex alot. Not thoughts of wanting to be back with him, but kind of happy memories and times we spent t...

I am married but still in love with my ex fiance.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Let me tell you by ive been married for bout nine months....but before me and my husband got married.. i was previously engaged to my ex and dated him for four years before we split... weve been split up for two years and through those two years he ...

Is it just my hormones that are making me feel this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - hi im 15, well basically ive been sort of anxious and annoyed, about my sexuality because ive always liked girls from a young age and always want a girlfriend, but i noticed by accident(lol honestly) i managed to get on gay porn when i was looking ...

I want more than comfortable and friendship in my marriage!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I've been married for 17 years. The last few years have seemed more a friendship than relationship. Nothing has changed except me, I want more. He is still the same a great friend, great dad, and a comfortable relationship. Sex is the same, but I ...