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*oungmum89
writes:hello.will my boyfriend ever stray? were together a year now we see each other nearly every day. will he get bored of me? i dont want him to i love him to bits it just worries me sometimes. is it just me been paranoid? we get on great were always laughing and joking, were going to be moving in together in a few months. are we moving to fast? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 Does the progression of your relationship make either of you uncomfortable? Only you two know whether or not this relationship is moving too fast for you.
You have nothing to worry about. Remember that there are couples out there that stay loving and loyal for their entire lives. It has been done for thousands of years. So you tell me. Do you truly think it would be that easy for your boyfriend to 'grow bored' of you? People do not grow bored of other people, they can grow hateful, they can become more loving towards others but you cannot 'grow bored' of someone. It just does not work that way.
I hope that helps.
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reader, toomuch stress  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 I have lived with my boyfriend a year, and i would tell you to just do it with caution. Only you guys can truely tell if you are ready for that step in your relationship, time can't. I do recommend this though. I know how you feel about caring so much about him that you want to spend all your time with him, but after awhile he may get tired of that. My boyfriend and I had problem with that until i realized i was smothering him. Just make sure to keep a life outside of each other. I'm not saying don't share everything with each other, but do things without each other so you stil have things to talk about and time to miss each other. A good idea, to have a girls night and have him go hang out with the boys. That way you are both out and nobody is stuck at home missing the either.
Good luck! you will figure it out. It's just trial and error
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