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Can't get over a break up from last year

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I don't know why I can't get over an old "FWB"/casual relationship. We were "together" on and off for almost a year, and it ended about a year ago. It was emotional torture for the entire time because he would tell me how much he liked me, then b...

Who is this strange boy and what do these dreams mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (?) - I have been having strange dreams about a boy I do not know. He is tall with brown hair and tanned white skin. Why do I have these dreams? As I have said before I like my next door neighbor but his boy is well.... Very handsome. I don't know him and ...

How do I change where we are in our relationship right now and how do I make things better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating a man for almost 2 years now. I am 20 years old and he is 30. He is one of the most serious relationships ive been in. i dated in school but nothing serious and i wasnt sexually active with any of them. And then when i graduated i ...

How can I leave more of an impact on people when I first meet them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - I am 19 and my problem is that i dont leave much impact on people when i first meet them. i mean they dont really remember me much. I am not at all shy but i never talk much to new people. i dont know what to talk about, even with my friends i dont ...

Why does it take people so long to get over someone and why do they hang around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Why does it take people so long to get over someone and why do they hang around? Especially when they know the end isn't going to be pretty, or their isn't anything there.Nothing. I'm asking this from both prospectives. For example, there...

Could my lacking in these areas be caused by the way she treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - My ex girl friend used to criticize, put me down, feel her way was always right, from the way i drove the car to the way I made love. She would say i was not affectionate enough, did not give enough complements and that I was not romantic to her....

What else can I try to get rid of these stretchmarks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I have really bad strech marks on the backs of my legs, thighs, hips, bum and breasts, what can i do to get rid of them? I've tried loads :( please help...

How can I be happy... I hate life just now!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - hi this year has been pretty messed up for me. i got suspended this year for slapping a girl in my school, my father cheats and has a child with another woman, my mum knows but just tolerates him and even defends him for our sake so that we may have ...

Why has this happened to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I have a very tragic life story. Please give me some consolation,that I'm not alone. In my whole life,I tried to do my best,but the chain of partly unexplained unfortunate events,the whole thing became a nightmare. None of the things ,what happened, ...

I've stuck by him despite what he did to me. Now he won't talk to me because I slapped him when I was drunk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I slapped the man I adore to death this weekend when I was drunk, well we were both drunk. He now doesn't want to speak or talk to me. I clearly don't want this, what should I do? A bit of back round on us. Him and I have been on and of...

I feel I have to change myself to look like these pornstars he looks at daily......

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - hi im 25 and live with my partner of 6years,we have two children,together..we have a great sex life,we watch porn together sometimes and i know he also watches it a lot online by checking history. I dont mind him watching as I know all men do its n...

Can anyone advise me on the pros and cons of owning your own business?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I have this dream of owning my own business. If anyone who does is reading this post, I'd love to hear what the advantages and disadvantages are. I have lots of options. I'm qualified with two diplomas i.e. media and computer studies. I'm lo...

How do women deal with former lovers who were better?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - How hard, or dissapointing is it for you women to go from a guy who is very well hung and mind blowing in bed to a guy who is just average in both the size and skill departments. Let's say that the well hung guy was great in bed, and you were only ...

I know I should just stay away, but I'm finding that very hard to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - I don't know what to do about this. One of my former students (we had a very close relationship) is now a teacher at the same school. I thought it would be awkward, because we haven't seen each other in a few years, but we fell right back into our ...

Am I a sucker if I take her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - It is a long story but i think its important to say what happened leading up to today. My girlfriend and i have been in a relationship for 4 years this past august. She came to me last week and said she needed space and and it came to a shock...

I woke up naked in bed with my girlfriend's sister and I had not even been drinking! Should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - i woke up naked in bed with my girlfriend's sister.i got no memories on how this happened.all can remember is that i was invited to her birtday party.by her sister i had two soft drinks and thats it.should i tell my girlfriend about it or should i ...

Afraid of driving alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I passed my driving test 2 weeks ago and my parents bought me a car but here's the problem... I'm scared of driving . I was keen to get my licence to have freedom and it took me several attempts to pass but now I have it I feel like I can't dri...

Should I keep it going because I love him so much and am afraid to be without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - our relationship has lasted almost two months... in the beggining he was so great i thought i could find nothing better then this and this was all i ever dreamed of in a guy but then exactly after a month hit we started arguing over the silliest...

My boyfriend's father is standing in the way of us getting married and the whole situation is really hurting my boyfriend....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating with my boyfriend for few months now and he wants us to get married. The fact is they had their onw conflict with his father before we even meet. Now he is asking his father to go to my family for marriage negotiations but...

My ex has tracked me down after all these years, but she is married! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I had a wonderful/fantastic relationship with an ex (Sophie),we even talked about marriage. We were always 100% honest with each other.Anyway we split some time ago as I was working abroad and she couldnt handle a LDR. She recently tracked ...

I dunno, but is he interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - There's a guy at work who I've recently developed feelings for and I'm wondering if he's starting to return them. He teases me a little bit more than the other girls at work, often in a more childish way, like knocking what I'm working on over or ...

Is dating my mom's new boyfriend's son wrong (even though we started crushing before our parents hooked up)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - ok i sort of have the a dilemma, my mom and "step" dad were secretly dating when i started high school, well i met this guy and he was so amazing! he was cute and knew just what to say to make me laugh but one noght my dad said he was bringing his ...

How can I figure out what it is about me that is driving people away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I am in my late 20s. I have been with three men in my life, for about a year or so each. The first two I didn't even have sex with; just foreplay and oral. It has now been three years since I had any kind of intimate physical contact with anyo...

I want to go to university in Paris! How do I tell my parents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

10 September 2010 (?) - I'm a junior in high school and I found this really really good college in Paris, it's pretty much perfect for me. The problem is I don't know how to tell my parents, because I would be really far away from them (I live in the US) and the cost would ...