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writes:hi I sometimes, whilst masturbating, fantasize over men stripping me, does this make me gay? i mean its not that i have anything against gays or bisexuals, but i dont really want to be one! i still do fantazize over women, but when i fantasize over men stripping me my orgasm comes alot quicker. i never get horny over mens six packs or penises but i do over men stripping me. does this make me gay?
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reader, HarryFlashman +, writes (13 February 2010):
No, it doesn't make you gay, or even bisexual. Lots of folks fantasize about things they would dislike if they were to happen in real life. Fantasy is... fantasy. For some, it incorporates things that push the bounds _because_ they push the bounds, rather than out of intrinsic interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): No. Sexual fantasy is just that. It is the place in our mind that we can visualize anything that is sexual, full of sexual energy that fuels our passion, most would never dream of doing all the things they think about when having sex....it is just the funny way the human mind works, aren't we lucky to be able to conjure a little movie in our own brains viewed only by us.
Stop worrying.
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