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writes:I think I may be in Love with someone, but i don't know about it because Years ago I let go of most of my emotions. I think i may like her, i know she likes me, but there is another problem as well. She is only 15 or 16 i think and im not that kind of person im really not.I need to know what love feels like? Also what i should do if it is Love? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt isn't sexual at all, at least it isn't for me i can not say what she thinks but i do believe i love her. THNKS for the answers.
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reader, Kassi (Nova)  +, writes (13 February 2010):
 The age difference isn't terrible, but the time in her life when it might be. She's in her mid-teens, and she will change a lot as a person in the next few years. She needs the time and the space to become whoever she's going to turn out to be without the pressure of having to figure all of that out right now.
She's got school, and a developing mind and body to be all kinds of freaked out about. If you are leaving high school and entering into adulthood, that world may still be too complicated for you to expect her to understand. You, yourself, may find yourself less attracted to girls her age, now, because they can't relate to the struggles of an independent adult in the post-school world.
If it meshes, and it isn't entirely sexual, it might work for you. But these are all serious things to consider.
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reader, Cowboy255 +, writes (13 February 2010):
Hey man there's some pretty good examples of love by some of these folks and yeah it does seem different sometimes but if she likes you and you like her really you can't get into any trouble as long as you refrain from sex like your already thinking about it like it's not really wrong any of it yeah she's young it's not like it hasn't happened b4 but it's not really a huge age gap my grandparents were 11 years apart bro and my pap was the youngest like that's a big age gap and then at that time a guy dating an older women that was just weird but he did cuz that's love don't worry about other people when u care so much about opinions stuff like that but my experience with love is you'd do anything for that person you have there back and they have yours everyone worries about what everyone else thinks prime example I'm try to date this girl we went out last night had a good time so I told my bestfriend about it when he asked what's up and she did have a kid like her babies I think 2 she gave the kid up for open adoption it's not she didn't want the kid it's that she couldn't give her baby the life she needs but my friend called her a whore my friend and we used to get into fights with other ppl together like were always up to something but he said that and I just told him to shut the f$$$ up and he asked me why she's had a kid she also date a guy like 6yrs older than her and I said Dude I like this girl she nice funny and seems to be alot like me and I told him why's it matter who I date as long as I'm happy with it and he shut up and agreed with me but he was quick to judge
Man don't worry about being judged or what kind of person there's no type of person we are all different shapes sizes beleifs flaws talents all that man but you need to look inside yourself more maybe take her out bowling or something hang out a little try and feel your emotions out yourself try and learn what love is yourself isn't when you find someone it's special but If I've never felt it yet I don't wanna know I wanna figure it out on my own I figure in a way it's kind of like being high on life it's special and that feeling you just need to figure it out I'm trying the best I can basically u got my opinion and the way I feel kinda I really hope I helped man I know how you feel
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you with the answers given so far but the second question is only half answered so i will rephrase it,
The girl i am speaking of is 16 if not soon to be, and i dont know what i should do because i will not be labeled a bad person. So what should i do?
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reader, Kassi (Nova) +, writes (12 February 2010):
For the most part, when you really fall in love, you just know. It changes you, intrinsically. Your belief systems change.
I read a quote once, and it was the most accurate description of love I've ever heard:
"Truly falling in love is doing things you swore you'd never do."
Don't rush it. It's a double-edged blade. It'll feel amazing, but damn can it ever hurt like hell.
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reader, Cowboy255 +, writes (12 February 2010):
There is no specific definition man it's like comparing different drugs to thee highs every situations different but my definition is when you'd do anything for that person meaning if it was u or them life or death you take the spot and embrace the fact she's safe cuz or ur decision shit like that when your more concerned about the other person than urself
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reader, AntPain  +, writes (12 February 2010):
I was in exactly the same boat a few months ago so i think i can help dude.
Being in love is like nothing else youll have ever felt and to be honest its not even an emotion.
The person will stray into your thoughts when you least expect it, when your not concentrating or even if your just reminded by the tiniest thing.
You'll notice little things about them that you'll think are great even though loads of other people might have them aswell.
You'll probably bring them up in conversation even when they aren't there, you'll find the silliest things adorable...maybe her sneezes, her hiccups anything.
Trust me, when you're in love with someone and i mean really in love you'll know about it :)
As for doing something, dont let your head rule over your hear. Don't let others decide what to do and definetly take the chance if its there.
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