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writes:[Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together]Question 1I'm a mother of a 4 month old girl, and am still with her father but only as bf/gf. Well he wants to get married, but I don't. He's madly in love with me, I'm not. And I'm no longer attracted to him the same. I find his once cute flaws repulsive and he's always been immature but now it sends me into a mental rage. We have the same wants for our future as far as materials, and we have a lot in common. A family feud is also in the equation. He finally got a job a very well paying one. BUT....I don't think I'm in love with him, but I want this 'family' to work.Is it wrong that I'm still with him?Question 2Overall I am happy with my boyfriend and our relationship together, our life has me satisfied for the most part. We have a baby. And yes I do love him.But why am I having that desire for men that single women have?You know, where you dress nice to just get some milk and bread, hoping to impress or bump into your soul mate.. so to speak.I find myself doing all the things I normally did when I was single and looking.Why?!
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reader, gcruz +, writes (13 February 2010):
 Me and you are in the exact same boat... I have my son nd I live with his dad but neither am I attracted to him anymore and I have been caught textin other guys nd such bc I'm sooo bored with him now I find him annoying now. But he's getting out in march yay lol
But my advice to you since I see that we are in the age group I can say its not too late for you to date someone else. You're young so you get bored easily (I know I do) so instead of staying with him and down the road you end up hating him or better yet cheating on him every chance u get .. Just take a break and see how it works for you and how you like it without him for a short while. Maybe you're dying for a new face
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