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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i was recently really uncomfortable with my boyfriend spending time alone with one of his friends who happens to be a girl. she constantly asks him out, and he always has to be alone when he sees her, either watching romance movies, going out late at night, parks etc which i believe, is inappropriate and all of them to be things that you should do with your girlfriend, especially since he would not be comfortable with me doing that with my guy friends alone either. she does not seem to respect me at all and she finds it somewhat funny that i get upset when they spend time alone together.my boyfriend has now agreed to stop this, but now i feel incredibly guilty for asking this of him. my friends, guys and girls disagree as they think that i had every right to be upset as their behaviour was getting inappropriate and should stop if it upset me this much. i dont need to feel guilty about this...right? Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (7 October 2009):
 I dont think you should. There's nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex, and normally I would say its a bad move trying to come between it. And even a tad possesive. But having friends of the opposite sex also means it should be ok to include your partner in going out together and if thats not happening, then alarm bells would be ringing to me. x
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