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writes:I'm 19 and to be honest...really horny. I masturbate probably too much (it may not hurt you but there is a point when its addiction for some people). I've always really wanted to have sex. I'm a virgin. I've tried going out with girls with no results and I've actually never found any girl to be "worth my time". I'm not even sure if I believe that anymore. I'm pretty introverted. You know...the nerdy, pale kid who likes talking about his "epic match" in Call of Duty. I'm smart and kinda cynical and pessimistic. I'm kinda emo/punk I guess. I do wear a lot of that shit and listen to a ton of punk music and rock. My problem is that I'm not sure anymore. I want sex but I actually get scared and back away from opportunities. Not that I've had a lot or get a lot, but still. I'm so horny though but I'm scared of getting sex and then either wanting more or being too attached to someone. I don't think I can handle it. So the cycle has started over. I'm going with this girl that I actually have real feelings for. I actually think that I would want to have sex with her if we got that far. But the problems I've stated above keep coming to mind. She a pretty wild girl. Always talking about doing the next thing. Extroverted, has had sex a lot, and hangs out with a ton of guys. To be honest...I'm not really sure we will still be talking come January.I'm not really sure what I'm trying to get advice on. I think I just wanted to say that but...what do you think of my attachment issue. Is that bad? Casual sex is OK but I don't think our world has to be so impersonal. Any thoughts? I think I'm just over analyzing this. haha.
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (30 November 2009):
Don't forget to use a condom!
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (30 November 2009):
 Okay sounds like this girl just wants sex from you, if your hamppy to just bump her then go for it!
one thing is if u do have sex with her dont expect anything else of this girl (sounds like shes not the attachable type)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2009): Dude, just have sex with this girl already. Look at the facts:
1- You actually care about her
2- You want to lose your virginity
3- She is a wild girl who wants to have sex
The only logical conclusion here is for you to have sex. I think you pretty much answered your own question when you said you are over analyzing this. You will get the experience out of it, and best of all, you will be having sex with somebody who knows what they are doing.
Have fun!
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