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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Where can a single parent find a job where they don't get ripped off?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I've taken this job that was advertised in the job centre as 15-20 hours a week. Minimum wage of £5.73 per hour. So i take it, after being on Income Support for the last 8 yrs. 16 hours is what it takes to be able to claim tax credits. Im a single ...

I'm being blamed for something I didn't do, so should I feel bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Ok my feelings are hurt and I want to know if I could have done anything differently. My friend of 5 years who I talk to off and on is pregnant, newly married and just finally got her own place. I had been asking for a few months when we could ha...

Why do I still feel uncomfortable telling people I'm gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - I am gay and have a boyfriend of about 2 and a half years now, and we are moving in together. my friends and family know, but why do i still feel uncomfortable telling people that i'm gay? thanx. jpmcveigh xx...

I'm just so confused...do I stick it out or forget it? Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I'm 30 my partner 35 we have been together for a year. Basically I've been living with my parents which hasn't been ideal and not in a position to move out. I'm at my partner's most days and asked about living together, he said he wasn't ready this ...

My 14 yr old friends are planning to have sex....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - One of my friends and his g/f are going to have sex on Sunday. They are both 14, and they are only going to use a condom... how can i stop them from doing it?...

Is what I'm doing illegal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and i are both 14, and we often just lie together snogging, and sometimes i put my hand in her bra... is this illegal?...

I'm in a mess, and don't know what to do, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hey I need help. I know that this is going to be kinda confusing but keep in mind I'm really confused anyway. I love my boyfriend to death... or at least I did when we started going out. Please don't think bad of me, but we hadn't gone out for a ...

I'm a 28 yr old woman for goodness sake! What's going on? Am I in denial of something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - My best guy friend, George* and I have been best friends for about fifteen years, and we have actually been living together for close to six months (to save on rent). Recently, I've caught him staring at me a few times and then as soon as I DO catch ...

Does his behaviour mean he's afraid of me knowing how he really feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (?) - Okay, so I have a problem. I really like this guy, he's a bit older, he's married, and I know that I never, ever have a chance with him, just let's get that straight, I'm not looking to be with him AT ALL. The problem is that he has flirted in the p...

Can you help me curb my hunger for food? Would hypnosis help me with my problem of always wanting to eat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hiya, I know this isn’t a relationship question but I know that everyone could possibly help me with my problem. I don’t want to go to my doctor and ask because its not really serious and I think id be wasting his time. I went on the mini pill 3 y...

He really hurt me 'down there', how can I stop him from doing this again next time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I really like my new boyfriend, and hes one of the best kissers i've ever been with, but last night when we were together, he started fingering me really hard and rough. It was much too painful to be enjoyable, and today i'm bruised and swollen ...

I personally don't believe in breaks, only break-ups. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants to take a break and have his space. I personally don't believe in breaks, only break-ups. He keeps texting me saying he loves me. Do I ignore or respond? Please help...

I cried on my 18th because I wasn't 17 anymore! So how can I get over my fear of growing older?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - On my 18th birthday I cried because I wasn't seven anymore. I've always been scared of getting older, one - 'cause it means I'll have less life, and two - 'cause I'm scared of losing my abilities. I work hard and I've heard that when you become fort...

We love each other, but I feel like the world is against us. Will he miss me and come back to me in time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - I will try to cram it all in here! so bare with me. I'm 20, gay and have had 2 serious relationships, this being my second. The first one left me pretty bruised and torn up, but I came out alive. My current (ex) B/F I have been with for 2 years...

How does one 'pretend' to be happy in a marriage where the love has faded?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Looking for tools. I come to the realisation that if my husband and I hadnt got married we wouldve have parted a long time ago. We've made our bed and now have to lie in it. We used to be very passionatly in love, but love isnt enough. Is is ...

I'm so freakin' confused right now. Is this guy for real?! I mean WOW, I don't even know what I'm asking anymore after re-reading this!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Ok where to start. I met this really great guy, and everyday I learn something new about him. I kind of had an idea in the beginning something wasn't right with him. But you know the old saying you try not to judge the book by its cover. Well he ...

What is the point of watching porn during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four years. Everytime a conversation came up about porn he would say he that he wasnt into it at all, and thay they are all sluts, blah blah blah. Well we are living together now, and sometimes he wants to watc...

Should I just forget about them both and completely move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I need some help and advice, I have posted on here before with regards to my partner who is a heroin addict, we have both agreed to go our separate ways on a good note as what we have been through together has become too much and causes us fights a...

Is it possible that we could end up bi or lesbians if we keep doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - hi, i have a question that is too awkward to ask anybody that i know. it involves me and my bestfriend. we are both girls, 15 years old and have been best friends since we were small. some in our family say we are cousins, but we aren't really. ...

...but if I move on, I risk being alone forever, and hurting him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We were planning on getting married and having kids, etc. He is a great guy, and he loves me a lot. I love him to, but I think no more as a friend. He is just too passive. And don't say I should h...

I am very upset by the amount of women that cheat in the world...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - I'm surprised to find out that women do cheat more than men in a relationship! Men do cheat more technically but in general these are men who don't get themselves into a stong relationship. I'm talking about mature couples in mature relatio...

Help,should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - help! my ex boyfriend stole from me 2 times and they where very valuble things to me.the first time i gave him another chance,thn he did it again,so i ended are 8mth relationship changed my number and reported it to the police.its been 2mth now and ...

He says that it's not cheating because it is his ex-wife!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I recently found out that my boyfriend of seven years has been sleeping with his ex-wife. He says that it was the only way to get her to act right, meaning seeing his children and lowering child support. He actually wants me to accept her and the ...

Should I suggest meeting for a coffee, or continue to wait for him to initiate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I wrote a few weeks ago about a guy I had met at the end of july. We met out one night and then began dating, during this time his mum was very ill and she eventually died in september. As I didnt know him very well we muddled through this and I su...

I'm beginning to resent him, as he doesn't see himself settling for marriage and a family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hi all, I have a concern that maybe some of you can help me with. I've been with my boyfriend for four years, but it's weird because he tells me he doesn't see himself getting married or raising a family. the problem is I do, and I had been hopi...

Do many guys lie about cumming?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2605 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I had unprotected sex about 3 days ago (Oct 21) and I start my period at the end of the month. So anyday now it should come. Anyhow, He said that he didnt come in me during sex but I am sure that he lied because he did jurk some and couldnt get up r...