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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I just want to be happy and have an easy carefree mind and life. Will I ever get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - (PREVIOUS QUESTION) I recently posted about a situation where 5 years ago i got drunk and naked and everyone took photos of me and passed it round my home town and they still haunt me today-everyone that i meet gets shown them and while i didn't w...

Should I just shut up and put up, mind my own business or should I go out on my own and discover what pleasures me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I've been married for 15 years, child-free by choice and am in great shape for my age. My husband and I get along pretty well, share same interests, have good discussions and laugh a lot. From the outside, it looks like we have the perfect ...

She only ever gives me oral, and has stopped penetrative sex...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I have an issue with my girl, as the title says she will give me oral all the time but we will not have sex. She will let me give her oral as well but nothing else. She just says she is not in the mood, and has been like this for over 8 month...

He's 18. I'm 15. Does anyone think this is bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi I really like this guy but he's 18 and I am only 15. He is 19 in December, which makes it worse, but he doesn't want anything to happen until I'm 16, but I am not going to be16 until April. Does anyone think this bad ?...

The only place I feel I fit in is at home with my mam and dad. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Well this is a bit stupid to be honest. I just don’t feel I fit anywhere, I think, would people notice if I wasn’t here? (I’m not suicidal or anything like that). I do get involved with friends but I always feel like I’m the odd one out. I’m quiet ...

If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia, what could happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia what could happen?...

My best friend's involved with the married women, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (?) - My best friend involved emotionaly with the married women, who is working in his own office. they were having a gud relationship from last 4 years and he was protecting her from every bad thing just like her husband do. from last eight months they...

It's been over 2 months and I'm yet to hear from him. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - hi..i've recently had a sort of breakup...this guy whom i know since over a year and a half...whom i die for...has removed me frm everything...we've had up's and downs.. and we've had some real good time too. he was sure he liked me well, but ...

Is she really over me, or guilt ridden with what shes done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I have a girl, soon to be ex girl I guess, who Ive been with for about 5.5 years. We've had up and down romance for the entire time, I cheated on her about two years ago which she found out, and left me then took off to the other side of the ...

I'm confused about my sexuality - do these feelings make me gay, bi or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm a 15 years old girl who's a little scared and confused about her sexuality! I'm attracted to guys by their appearance and personality. But, I'm attracted to girls sexually, appearance, and personality! Does this make me gay/bi or what?!...

It's like we say "I love you' out of habit now. I don't want to hurt her - which is worse, staying in this comfortable but sparkless relationship or leaving?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Ok so here goes. I've been in a relationship for the past 8 years with a wonderful woman. She is sweet, kind, funny, smart, all the things you could possibly want in a mate, but for some reason the spark is all but gone. I'm just not physically ...

My daily hobby is checking out charming women - is this normal or a vice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I feel pleasure in looking at beautiful women every day,it's become a daily routinue just like food and water. If a charming lady is sighted on that day I feel comfortable, otherwise I feel something is missing. That is my recreation and hobby since ...

I feel very alone and unwanted, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - i dont know what to do im 18 i have very frew friends cant seem to find a girlfriend i hardly ever talk 2 my mum or dad we can sit in same room without speaking 4 days i feel very alone and unwanted i dont no what to do any help...

Is it normal for a boyfriend to forbid his girlfriend to make new friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - tottaly dig this girl but she chose to remain in her current relationship. All is fine , I found peace with her decision as i do have a crush. Tho , I would like to know her and hang around as friends, not that strange feeling right ? I don't de...

How do I help my family deal with the loss of my gran?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - My gran passed away last week and I'm just a complete wreck right now. Her death is affecting so many people in such a big way and I havent even began to grieve myself because I'm so worried about everyone else. My mum is a complete mess - she'...

Are guys ever nice to girls they arent attracted to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - There is this guy who I sit next to in class and he is super sweet to me. We dont really know each other that well but we do talk a lot, he always asks me what i did/what im going to do. Today, he offered to give me a ride to my house. I know he is ...

People said he abused me when he didn't! Is he going to jail?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i got into a fight? We were yelling outside and i guess people thought he was physcially abusing me because he was trying to stop me from walking. The police arrested him and im 17 he is 18 but he really didnt hit me. BUT everybod...