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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is there a cure for shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Hello, my question is how can I cure my shyness? I am very shy and, my main problem is I just don't know what to talk about. I know it seems weird, but when I see someone I just say hello and I'm really stressed about what I should say next. I kee...

What should I do to make this a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I am basically don't know what i am wanting, but i have been seeing a guy for almost a month, i don't even know if we a in a relationship or is just the sex, whenever we see each other, we either just french kiss and then have sex.. I wanted to make ...

Do I drop a great relationship to sow wild oats?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I've been tossing myself back and forth lately about making a decision about a wonderful relationship I'm currently in. Just a little background about myself first -- I was an extremely "dorky" and awkward teeneager growing up. School was such ...

Do men mean it when they say "I love you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - While we were laying in bed the other night, he told me he had something he wanted to tell me. I got nervous and thought it was something bad, but it wasn't he said I love you. And I believe he meant it because men don't say the three words if they ...

He says he connects with me emotionally but not mentally. What does he mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - The same guy I have been dating said he hasn't connected with another girl emotionally since 6 years ago with the girl he was going to marry. He told me that he connects with me emotionally but not mentally and he wants to. How should I take that ...

I would love to sing and dance professionally, but is it too late...I'm 38...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (?) - When I was younger, I dreamed of being a singer/dancer/actor. But this was back in the 70's and 80's and my parents considered it to be a poor career choice and wouldn't send me to drama school. I was told at my own school that I had talent but as t...

I'M SO CONFUSED!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My question is, I don't understand whether I love him [still] OR/AND why I'm feeling this way? Here is my story: When I moved [Beginning of school] , I obviously didn't know anyone but i got close to this guy [ill call him batman] who sits beside ...

We kissed and now I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - well, my friend and i are really close. one night we stayed up and then we fell asleep. then i woke up an hour later and he was watching me sleep and was closer than ever, he was in my personal space. then he asked if we could cuddle. i was like i ...

Why am I the secret girlfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm in my early 20s and dating a guy in his late 40s for about 3 months. We're both successful and have a great time together. There's one problem though, he tries to hide me from everyone in his life. There are very few mutual friends that know ...

How do I get more comfortable with sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I am in a new relationship...about 3 months old and my boyfriend is ready to have sex but im not sure that i am ready. I am a virgin...well he penetrated one time and there was some blood but he didnt penetrate again because I was nervous. I can ...

What do you make out of this, is it selfishness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My husband left the house 5 months ago, stating "you don't care about me and I don't care about you" you didn't make me feel loved too much has gone on in the past, and he feels can't get past that. During this time we have gotten to gather many ...

Confused and in Love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with this man. We are about 6 years apart in age difference. We've known each other since about 9 years now. He says he never wants a relationship with anyone. Yet he says he loves me, and he knows I love him. He does not want me to get ...

How can I be happier with the size of my chest?? Should I get implants..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi all...I know that this isnt a relationship question, but i just wanted to know if this would be a good choice. I am a twenty year old female and my breast have grown..but they havent even grown off of my chest. I am considering getting breast ...

Why do I fall for the girls with a past and something going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - First off, im a pretty good lookin dude, i could have alot of different girls and i get along with everyone. Ive had a good past with girls but recently its been pretty crappy. So about a year ago I moved to this new school and started going ou...

Am I still a virgin? We had anal sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I'm a freshman in at a catholic school college and I am catholic. I want to save myself for marriage, but one night me and this girl (we were both drunk) went to my room and started making out. One thing led to another and our cloths were off. I ...

I have little or no interest in things- is this temporary or will it persist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I have a psychotic mental disorder that had me very busy in delusional thinking until just recently when I finally found the right medication at age 30. My life isn't a disaster, but I managed to make mistakes and mess it up temporarily. I've...