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*adie30
writes:I need some help and advice,I have posted on here before with regards to my partner who is a heroin addict, we have both agreed to go our separate ways on a good note as what we have been through together has become too much and causes us fights all the time, i just cant move on from all the hurt, lies and deceit...Well when i was going through all this mess i found a weird friendship coming form an ex-boyfriend, nothing physical happened between us it was more just me talking and him listening, He always made it clear that he wished we never separated and he has never stopped loving me. He never put on any pressure as he knew i was going through a really hard time. Well it all came to a head when my current partner found out we were in contact and made me change my mobile number and tell him it was over. It hurt like hell but i just did to save any more fights. Well now that my partner is moving out i have been increasingly thinking about my ex. The question is, do i call him and leave a message with my number saying i want his friendship, and leave it too see if he contacts me, or.... or should i just forget about them both and completly move on?Any advice will be thought about.Thank you so much in advance.xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): Hi hun! Ask oldersister is totally right. It's over! You're free, and you are "allowed" to do whatever you would like. Try ringing your ex, even if you just want to talk or hang out.
Having someone to relate to is just as important as having a boyfriend.
Good luck on that hun!
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