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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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He has a big problem! Is my husband cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - I have been married for just over a year but in the same relationship for 16 years. This sounds crazy but my husband and I have just stopped having sex - initially I just put it down to stressful jobs (investment banking)and the associated fatigue ...

I have been in a secret relationship with a man 15 years older than me for almost a year.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - I have been in a secret relationship with a man 15 years older than me for almost a year. It has all happened under the cover of a professional relationship, but with this intense undercurrent of attraction and innuendo. We never had sex or even ...

I have trouble being faithful in a relationship, how can I stop being this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - hi... I wondered if you could help me? I have trouble with being faithful in a relationship. Every time I'm in a relationship i always destroy it by cheating and lying I wondered if you can tell me the best way to stop this? ...

Now I'm 22, is a relationship with my one time Spanish teacher legal, or is it frowned upon??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 October 2008 (M - I'm a 22 year old male, in a decent job, with a good social life. I often go out drinking with friends. One time when I went down the pub, I saw my old Spanish teacher. She was 27 when I was 16 doing my GCSE's. We had fun reminiscing about old...

She's a rape victim - how do I help her and get our sex life back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 October 2008 (M - My girlfriend was raped when she was 14. She is 27 now and we have been dating for 2 years. Our sex life was wonderful until she bumped into the rapist at a bar almost a year ago. Since then we have made love 5 times and 4 times we stopped ...

How do I find a way to love my sister-in-law in an appropriate way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

6 October 2008 (M - I am struggling with my relationship with my wife's sister. I have been with my wife for ten years. We are happily married, in that we love and support one another and are united in our goals and hopes. We have some minor disagreements and ...

Should I pursue my profession or stay here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - pls will anyone help me to enlighten my mind with the situation im into right now? im living with my boyfriend right now in an apartment, for the reason that my family hates me for loving him especially my father, because he wanted me to marry an...

I suffer from really bad anxiety attacks, can anyone help me???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - I am a 'survivor' I suppose you would say...but when do you stop trying and give up? Hope is all that has kept me going. I suffer from anxiety; have done for 20 years. This takes the form of panic attacks, sometimes agoraphobia. I have deep seated f...

I am in love with a younger guy, we got married, using a false age for him, if this is discovered, would the marriage be nullified and the guy punished?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - Dear Sir, I am in love with a boy who is younger to me. By manipulating the age certificate we got our marriage registered. If the actual date of birth of the boy is proved now can the registration become null and void? Is the boy who has ...

Shall I give him time, or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - I started a relationship earlier this year. Personally I went through a very bad marriage for a while and he went through a terrible relationship couple years ago. I got recovered from the divorce and slowly started dating and I met him. I had t...

I just turned 30, but I look very much younger, so people think I am a "kid", I am attracted to an older man, maybe in his 40's, trouble is, I don't know how to approach him, what would be your advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - So I just reached the dreadful age of 30. I feel real weird because I know technically I have reached the age where I am supposed to be an adult. And granted I have the whole house/car/business thing so I am responsible in that end. But maturity ...

How can I best talk to my girlfriend about "oral"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (M - How can I bring up the topic of oral with my girlfriend. I've been touching her for months and she's started touching me lately. I just recently started giving her oral but she hasn't made any move to try it on me. I don't want to make it sound like ...

How would he afford these things on Military wages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - Alright here it goes, my boyfriend of a year and a half wants 2 go into the army, he told me that when he gets back from basic training he wants 2 get engaged, and i started thinking abt it. you dont get paid all too much during basic training, but ...

I started giving her oral then realized I really had no idea what I was doing....please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (M - My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now. I've been touching her for well over a month and just a week ago she began touching me. I really have two problems here. For one, when she touches me it feels really good but I just can'...

Would these bad habits affect my baby if I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - I'm only 18 years old, and I've been having unprotective sex for almost 3 months trying to get pregnant with my b/f. I used to smoke constantly for a couple months, a few months ago, then quit, but I smoked a couple cigarettes every now and then...

I'm afraid of females, please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (M - I'm a 34 year old man, i want to live with a honest female but i'm afraid of females, specialy sex relation, i can have sex but i never do. I can't make any girl friend because i'm afraid of females. Guide me that what i do? ...

I really didn't mean to upset her.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

6 October 2008 (? - My wife and me have been fighting a lot lately. We had another fight, it got so bad. I yelled out 'I WANT A DIVORCE'! I upset her so much she stayed at a hotel (she didn't tell me which one.) I honestly didn't mean it. She won't answer my call...

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