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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Does anyone out there believe in Soulmates???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - This is more of asking your opinions... does anyone believe in soulmates? and if yes how do you know when your find your soulmate? Thanks....

The anxiety is ruining my relationship and my life, help please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - hello everyone, I have a problem that at this point in my life I don't know how to address, I have allways been a very logical, analytical but very very anxious person, recently I am starting to realize that my anxiety is taking a turn that is ...

Was I being overly possessive in defining boundaries with his ex this early?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - I met a guy that works at the same company as me only in a different division (but in the same town). We actually met through an online dating site (one of the sites where THEY match you based on your values, etc, and you can’t search for matches on ...

Is everything fair in love and war?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - how many people out there actually believe everything is fair in love and war? what are your reasons? do you believe in fate? destiny? my boyrfriend he said fate interfered and brought me to him. things are complicated though, shoul...

Should I be angry at my husband? He sent a nude pic of someone else's wife to a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - Ok, so my husband and I are both military he is away in training and was using another man's phone (Joe) when he came across pics of that man's wife naked. He then sent them to another one of his friends (Bob). That friend then turned around and ...

Should I choose the good boy? Or the bad boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - i posted this on yahoo, so the 3 bottom paragraphs are in response to questions. that is why they are phrased strangely. they are pertinent info though so i left them Went home for my cousins wedding, met a boy, hung out with boy, liked boy, boy...

How to build a family if my husband is too focused on his son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - We started dating almost a year ago and are going to marry. i Love my future husband and have promised him that i will never leave him, because he has been much too scared that i could leave him like others did. I want to follow my words and stay ...

Do you think there is something wrong with him?

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8 October 2008 (F - Hi guys I was just wondeing if you think this situation is normal. I have been dating a guy for 3 months who is 32. I just found out im his first girlfriend EVER. This explains why the sex was lousey at the start (he was a virgin but never told me, ...

My wife is pregnant after 4 miscarriages, but the baby might have brain damage. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

8 October 2008 (M - Me and my wife have been trying for a baby for over 3 and a 1/2 years now. In that time we have had 4 miscarriages. We are delighted to know that my wife is pregnant, but we have just found out that this child has a 94% chance of being brain ...

My new boyfriend's grandfather died. He distant now. How can I support and comfort him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost three months now, but before then we were total strangers. we are both students in the same university, but different campuses; we don't really spend time together, so there's still alot we don't know ...

I'm stuck with my abusive, dependant partner. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - Hi Iam a mother of 3 kids 2 daugters from previous marrage age 16 and 17 I was engage for 15 years I broke the engagement 6 months ago I have a son of 4 years with this man While I was still engage with him I met this man it's about 7 months ago he ...

My 43yo boyfriend has no ambition or drive, and won't attempt to change. What's wrong with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (? - My boyfriend drives me nuts. He is so lazy. He is a decent man, caring and loving but he is 43 years old and doesn't have a career and has no drive. I have spoken to him about this so many times but he is content to do nothing all day apart from b...

I had light diarrhoea after eating spicy food, will this effect the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - Hi I would just like to confirm something. On Saturday i had sex with my fi. I had eaten abit of spicy food and i took my pill in the night. However due to the spicy food, i had a slight but of diarrhoea (abt half an hour of taking the pill)...

I'm trying to fight my inferiority complex. How can I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

8 October 2008 (M - Hi all, This will be a long question, as I need to rant. I have been fighting against inferiority complex for years now, as I grew up in an abusive family. My dad did nothing much else (other than earning money) but abuse me and my mum. So I ha...

Should I emigrate with him? He has shown his cruel and cold side to me, but I want this to work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - Following good advice before i have recently spent some time with my boyfriend who emigrated away from me and life in the UK 18 months ago to be in Melbourne, Oz. During my stay I tried to live as if I was living there - not doing tourist things etc ...

I want her back more then anything in this world, even after shes hurt me like this!

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8 October 2008 (M - K so where to begin.... me and my ex dated for a while and we were both in love and she truely was and so was i but i didnt show it enough, and one day we got in a huge fight and i said really mean shit , that i didnt mean. anyways we broke up for...

I have images of g/f's past haunting me, and I can't stand it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (M - Please help me. My gf’s past is haunting me. I have images of it everyhour everyday and its killing me inside! We are in a long distance relationship but I go see her every three months. From the start, my gf has been very honest with her past. Sh...

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