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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm still tormented after being sexually abused as a child 7 years ago...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - As a child I was sexually abused. It started from the age of 12 I think and what happened to me as a child has most definitely affected me as an adult. I find it difficult to make friends and find it hard to talk to people. I don't really know if ...

I need married men's advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I need married men advice( and wifes also) Ive got people saying(with my last question i am too "motherly" to my husband and that is why he takes me for granted and never shows me any respect. I stay at home with the kids and keep up with all the ...

Is there any way of telling when you are truly in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hey This is just a quick question but it is one i have been wondering about for quite a while now. Is there anyway of telling when you are truly in love ? Thanks x...

Should I stop paying the mortgage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - My Ex-partner lives in the house we own jointly. I have moved out into another property and now pay 2 mortgages. She refuses to pay her half of mortgage and expects me to pick up her tab. I have asked that house be auctioned she refuses; the house ...

Would I ruin everything if I told him I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Iv been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months now and I have to say that I am totally in love with him, im 28 and have never felt this way before. He is such an amazing person and is so nice to me, my family and friends, I can hardly beleive that iv ...

I'm attracted to a man who's as old as my dad. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I have started a new job with a great position, I think my boss is a wonderful person he has an amazing charisma, strong and powerful but he is 26 years older than I am married with kids:( I'm so confused I admit I like him, I know it is totally ...

'They're not together but spending time together' - what does he mean by that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone im new to this posting stuff so bear with me, Basically around 2 weeks ago i split with with my guy over the fact he couldnt gt over his ex he always had to see her because of the child they have together, anyway he said we can still be...

Does he have a right to be jealous of my guy friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - This guy and I have been hooking up for 8 months. He knows that I have feelings for him, but he said that he doesn't have feelings for me and is still in love with his ex. When he saw me walking/talking with my ex-boyfriend and other guy friends, he ...

Does hanging out with more than one guy make me a bad woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - hi..i have recently just hang out with three guys.we all had a drink together.i was told to hang with more girls than guys.but before i hang out with them i told them that I wasn't a hoe or a slut.they accepted that but i kinda felt left out at ...

How can I manage the practicalities of my long-distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I have an 18-year-old girlfriend (I'm 17) who lives in England, and I live in Nevada. I love her with all my heart; I truly know I'm in love with her and I can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with her. The problem is, even though I ...

I told my girlfriends secrets to my friends, and she's furious!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (Im almost 18 and shes 17) made me promise not to tell that she stuffs her bra and wants breast implants when she finishes high school. To make a long story short, I was hanging out with my friends (most of them are girls who hate m...

Want to reassure my autistic boyfriend of my ongoing love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I'm a seventeen year old with an autistic boyfriend. We've been dating for nine months and I've fallen head over heels, there's just one problem. Lately I've been having a hard time relating to him. He hasn't ever really talked about being autstic ...

Prob. saying no

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I have a small issue, there are quite a few guys that like me but i really don't date i prefer being single but with so many school dances and the like, the guys are pestering me to go with them, but i don't attend school dances. It's too loud and ...

In College and confused about my sexuality!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - So for as long as I can remember I haven't ever really thought a guy was, "cute," "hot," or anything like that, but I have always thought girls are pretty. I went all through out high school without a boyfriend, and didn't think anything of it. Now ...

Everyone wants me to divorce him, but I love him so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid , My name is Randee, I married a 42 year old man when i was only 18, and everybody wants me to get divorced. But i love him too much, we also had a baby together. He also did drugs. What should i do?...

I'm confused and I really need you to help me decide what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend sometimes seems like when were not hanging out, it seems like he doesn't like me. Like when we talk on the computer (I know sometimes you can't really tell how people mean to say things) but on the computer, he seems mad at me or like ...