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He wants to marry me... but won't leave the wife!!!

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Question - (29 December 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2010)
A female Zimbabwe age 30-35, anonymous writes:

He is married, says the wife and him are having problems but he cannot leave his wife and he says he wants to marry me. he knows my family but he is too possessive. why?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010):

How/ what does it feel like being paraded by this married man. What are your thoughts as you go out in public with him. Do u spare any thoughts for his WIFE .

Have you no concerns that you are sleeping with a married man, another womans husband? To add insult to you, he says he will not leave her for you. So the big question is: why do you stay with a MM who disrespects you so. You may love the attention and you may love being seen with him but really if he doesn't want to leave his wife he is basically saying, look world, this is my wh*re, to parade in public.

Confusing, isn't it?

LoveGirl

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010):

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I know i should leave him,but he says if he wasn't serious about me,he wouldnt have introduced me to his family.wat confuses me is he introduces me as his future wife.if there are functions at work,i go with him.he knows my family and acts like i am his wife.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010):

Give him an ultimatum. he may be on the fence or just too cowardly to proceed with a divorce. If he still doesn't leave his wife then you're just wasting your time with him. Tell him goodbye and to not contact you unless and until he's divorced.

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A female reader, pancakes rule Ireland +, writes (29 December 2010):

pancakes rule agony auntA lot of married men who have affairs actually do love their wives. They tell the person they're sleeping with whatever they want just to keep them sleeping with them. I'd say you should dump him. If he really did love you, he'd probably speed things up with separating from his wife.

Good Luck

xx

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A male reader, Kilcardy United States +, writes (29 December 2010):

Don't hold your breath waiting for that ring. It ain't gonna happen. Drop this married man, and start dating available men. You will be a lot happier for it. Otherwise, you're wasting precious time on men who can't be there for you, and won't be there for you ultimately.

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