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How can I get out of this mess?

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Question - (29 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *___x writes:

I just really do not know what to do now! Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year.. We were both in relationships when we had a one night stand which lead to our relationship but ended them. For the first few months it was a brilliant relationship. He helped me through alot. Did everything for me.. Ill admit.. I slept about and did drugs. I smoked and drank alot more than i could handle. I dropped out of college and become a bum! I was awful. But ive sorted myself. He helped me out. He got me clean. I dont drink often now. Ive only slept with him and have learnt so much from my mistakes! Im qualified and working as a care assistant and have a flat with him. But hes a cunt. Sorry for the vile word.. But hes vile! I fell pregnant in july and misscarried. I was distraut.. Our relationship suffered alot. And ever since, hes been awful. He screams abuse at me. He doesnt let me wear what i want. Stops me eating. Checks my phone. He kicks me, punches me, bites me. He tells me he hates me. Tells me i deserved to loose my baby and i should've died. I told my ex about him (who im quite close to) and he wanted to kill him. Which went down like a lead balloon! I just carnt turn to anyone. I dont see or speak to my mum. My best friend warned me about him... I cant feel like im stuck with him.. I physically carnt take anymore! If i run away he'll find me! I dont know why he suddenly become angry! How can i get out of this mess! Sorry i just didnt know what else to do! Please help x

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A female reader, chocoholicforever United States +, writes (29 December 2010):

Please do an internet search for a local domestic violence hotline in your area and call them! they can help walk you through what to do and give you local resources. Another option is to look up battered women's shelters in your area, they provide safe haven for abuse victims who need a place to stay. You may also need a restraining order...whatever you do, good for you for realizing you are in an abusive relationship and for having the strength to decide to leave. Now it's just a matter of figuring out HOW to do it. Please google for and call your local domestic violence hotline or women's shelter. good luck!

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