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writes:So, I finally told my boyfriend who has put me through a lot in the 5years from trying to choke me twice the last incident was 2years ago..that I don't want to have a baby by him. I have 2boys who aren't his and he has a daughter which he see's every other weekend and a boy who he thinks might be his but doesn't have it on paper. Go figure, I told him he had too much baggage and why would he want another kid and he said cuz he's not raising them cuz they live with their mother's.. He has been telling me that he has nothing with me as in a family! Mind you I'm still with him after the cheating and the lies..just recently he went on a trip to Dominican republic with a friend which he lied about and I found out about it when he was vacationing..I'm lucky that my kids never witnessed any of this. I don't what draws me to him..I mean when he's not upset he's like the sweetest person then but I've noticed that when I'm around him I try not to argue unless I'm on the phone and I'll start yelling.Then he has the nerve to tell me that what I won't give him another woman would..that if I come across an opportunity I should take it..Why is it so difficult to move on out of this crazy relationship?
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reader, jazzie1 +, writes (29 December 2010):
jazzie1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, I will look into the site. Enjoy ur holidays.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): You're going through everything that i am going through. Iv been with my man for 8 years, and have been through everything, and i put up with it untill recently. I told him i can't be happy here, and that id rather end my life than spend another second here. Im still living with him, but not on romantic terms. right now its pretty much just me trying to be quiet, and not give him a reason to flip out on me. Its more him not wanting to move on, because he keeps me here pretty much against my will. No one can make the decision to leave but you. I bet you wish someone could just kidnap you, take you away from it without the chance to second guess yourself. I wish the same... But my mother always tells me, you'll know when the time is right. If he's violent, you may have to just run away. If he'll follow you, you may just have to bide your time untill you can get out saftley. Theres a website called "SafeAtHome", its a program you can use that keeps all future steps you take annonymous, check it out.
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