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*ara'93
writes:my sister is 2 years younger than me and she has a bf the same age as me. They've gone out 4r a year! She's lost her virginity with him and has told me that he is the one and that she loves him. And she isn't messing, she takes love very seriously! But a week ago her bf said that he loved me and then tried 2 kiss me! But i rejected because i love my bf, but since then he has been touching my arms when he passes me and tries to find reasons to touch 'lower parts' of my body. I don't know weather to tell my sister and hurt her feelings or to keep it to myself! Can you help me? X Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Don't tell your sister. Tell her boyfriend to leave you alone.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (29 December 2010):
 Yeah, you should tell her. But understand, she may not believe you at first. In fact, she may be mad at you for "trying to ruin her relationship" or something like that. It won't be easy for her to hear but in the end she should be with a guy like that anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): I would say to him firmly that if he carryings on like this you will tell your sister. There is a chance that if you just tell your sister straight out, he will deny it leaving you looking stupid. So give him the chance to just stop. Beyond that I would leave your sisters relationship up to her.
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reader, dont understand men +, writes (29 December 2010):
I would not tell her . It may ruin your relationship with your sister, but find other ways around to put him down . Myabe he is also interested in other women - point that out to her
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reader, xanthic +, writes (29 December 2010):
 Yes, tell her. It's better for her to find out now, she deserves to know what kind of person she's with. It'll be a painful thing to hear but if you were in her shoes, wouldn't you want to know the truth?
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reader, soon567 +, writes (29 December 2010):
Yes he's groping you and I would invite him to dinner with the whole family then ask him about his action. Ask him direct questions and be blunt.
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