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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I confront my partner about his cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my partner for over 7 yrs. He has cheated on me once, early in the relationship when it was not 'exclusive' but it hurt me a lot. About 6 months after that I went through his phone and found lots of intimate messages between him and several female friends, inc ... (360 words)

Does he still have something for me or is it because he saw I'm a model?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to like this guy a year ago. I could tell he liked me too cuz his body language said a lot. Then I went to a party and hooked up with some guy he never talked to me I guess he was heartbroken.. Then online for months I would write him messages and he'll never repl... (157 words)

Her daughter is standing in the way of us taking it to the next level!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age - Need opinions please. I’m a 47yr old male in great 3.5yr relationship with 50yr woman. The woman lives with her 27yr old daughter and I do not. The daughter smokes pot daily (moms more of a friend than a mom) has dead end job, never has had a car and has to use moms car 6 ... (146 words)

Is she lying? She didn't bleed when we first did it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, my question is my gf said that she was a virigin before me, but wouldn't that mean that when we first had sex that she would bleed? Or is she lying about me being the only one? I do trust her but Im not sure because she didnt bleed when we had first done it.... (59 words)

I get too wet during sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i come to fast and get wet to much why?... (11 words)

How can I stop liking someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you stop liking someone? Because I cant stop liking this guy and its getting on my nerves because I know what he's like and he can be nasty.... (30 words)

Do I have a good reason to be angry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I hace been talking to a guy for 2 weeks now and he has a gf. I didnt know that for a while but then when i found out i was furious. I know we arent together but he says hes comfortable in this relaionship and doesnt like the girl shes been pushing him to be in a realationship ... (104 words)

Here we are saying we'll wait for each other... What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im going to just let everything out because I want an answer. First off... I can't believe im writing on a site like this.. but from the answers ive seen.. i want to. About 2 years ago.. i randomly added this girl, who lives in germany, she was beautiful and thats what i d... (709 words)

Can a wedding be our first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age - I have been chatting online and on the telephone with a very nice gentleman--lives in my hometown, which is in another state. I am going to an out of town wedding about halfway between us--will be an overnight. He has offered to drive up to meet me there because it will be an ... (83 words)

How do I handle swimming, without tampons or pads? How does that work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am going on holiday in 2weeks and my period is due for the last 5 days of my holiday, and I don't really have a problem with that, but I don't use tampons so I wont be able to swim. Some people have said to me they still go swimming on their period even without tampons, but I ... (107 words)

What we did felt like more than "just friends," but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a school trip for 12 days recently. I ended getting to be really close friends with a guy I have fancied for a couple of months. On the night I was slightly tipsy and we ended up cuddled on the sofa but were interupted. Then, on the plane home, I sat next to him and ... (214 words)

We stayed together after her affair, but she's not happy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife had an affair last year. We are still together as I was desperate to keep things together. The thing is, she doesn't seem very happy. I'm certain she's not seeing this chap anymore but she seems so miserable all the time and cry's whenever we have sex. Is it po... (109 words)

All I want is to find a girl and develop a relationship like most normal people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Just looking for some advice. I am 23 years old and i seem to be having a real problem with finding girls. When i was youner i was often described as a "player" and often messed girls around. I then found a girl who was perfect for me. We went out for 3 years and ... (332 words)

How do I show my girlfriend I love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend 3 yrs and she recently asked if i loved her. i was quite angered by this as she knows i do. what things should i be doing to let her know how much i love her other than the occasional flowers, chocolates etc?... (49 words)

My husband is too shy in the bedroom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is a little shy in some ways in the bedroom. I know what i want and i have talked to him about having a desire to fulfill his fantasies as well as he fulfill mine, but he seems to intimidated, and doesn't. Sex is really good, but its not as elaborate and leaves m... (223 words)

Ways to deal with my aggressive mother...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm bisexual and have been in a relationship with a guy for eight months now. I spend weekends at his, and make up excuses to my parents who are conservative and petrified/repulsed by homosexuals. To the point that any defence of homosexuality is immediately suspicious. Besides ... (294 words)

How do I avoid this feeling of anger?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i'm afraid that my boyfriend doesn't appereciate me enough,he doesn't communicate enough and i'm afraid that i also get angry too fast...how do i avoid this feeling of anger?... (32 words)

I'm 14 is that to young to be in love?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so im 14 and recently I've been wondering if I can truly be IN love, because I think I might be. There was this guy and I liked him for quite a few years but nothing happened between us and I was beginning to think I'd never get over him, but this new guy I just can't stop ... (100 words)

I don't want to ruin anyone's life, so where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am working away from home at the summer job and ended up falling head over heels for this guy i'm working with, he is also in the same boat as me, except he is newly engaged. It is so confusing because we both fell in love with each other, without wanting for it to happen ... (148 words)

Is it possible to put your baby in temp. foster care and then claim it back at a more convenient time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 and i just found out i was pregnant. i know my options, abortion, adoption, or keeping it. i don't want to give my baby up for adoption because i dont think i could handle carrying it for 9 months and then giving it away but if i abort it then i will feel extremely ... (128 words)

What is love really - I just don't want to be hurt again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just wonder if most of what we call attraction is just our animal instincts to mate, and we call it love? Does anyone know what love is? I've heard it labelled so many things, anyways, I think I've found a girl im in love with but I am so afraid of being hurt again I don't ... (76 words)

Is there a way I can completely get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi - I need help in getting over this guy. I have had an on and off crush on him for ages. Some of the time I feel like he's amazing and would so be the right person for me - but then other times he just infuriates me (he doesn't deliberately do anything mean or anything like ... (381 words)

We had a great relationship until he said that I wasn't the one he would marry.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I need some advice. I have been in a relationship for about a year and a half...its actually been a year and four months. Anyways we were doing great... everyting was perfect but I had a bad feeling and when we were drunk I asked if he was happy and he told ... (482 words)

Question: do women tell their friends everything about their sex lives?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Exactly how much do women talk about their sex lives with their girlfriends? I know that everyone has a different personality and of course that would dictate what they would tell their friends about their privage moments with their significant other but do girls generally tell ... (51 words)

I fell in love with my bestfriends girl, now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl have been friends for a while and her boyfriend and I have been friends for even longer. I am talking many years and I would consider him my best friend. Anyway one day she starts to touch my arm so I start to do it back. This escalates over the next while a... (741 words)

5 years later and I'm still crushing on her - Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry for those that hate reading long questions but I feel that I need to do so in order for you to be able to accurately and seriously give me a proper answer that I NEED, you will need to know the full or relatively full properties of my situation. So Please don’t pester me ... (926 words)

Women- what do you do after an unromantic proposal, and Men- why do you do it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Anyone, who got a proposal of marriage, which wasn't special in anyway and to be honest, very disappointing, but still said yes to it (because you are certain that he is the one)? How do you deal with it? Women, what do you do after the engagement, which wasn't the way you wher... (159 words)

How do I satisfy him without sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I have been with my bf for about 4 months we haven't had sex because i'm just not ready and however corny this sounds i want my first time to be special and i think he understands that but he never seems fully satisfied with the physical side of our relationship. He ... (87 words)

I turned him down and now he's threatening me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy recently who i thought i could be good friends with. i thought he was nice at the time but when i told him i didn't want to date him after he asked me to go out with him he changed. He started saying things like he was looking for sex and was desperate for sex ... (118 words)

He says he flirts with other girls to feel better about himself, could this be true?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

- Ok, guys i been with my mate for a few years now. like more than 4. Lately he will do anything to get another female attention, or like he need some type of validation from another female. He recently admitted to me that he have low self esteem and is insecure about himself and ... (152 words)

He cheated, how do I regain the trust needed to get over the betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i neeeed soo much help... ive never asked for help but i need help... he recently cheated on me but realised he made the biggest mistake in his life and we have been tryna work things out ever since... the thing is i dont trust him and though i know its a long road in a way i ... (230 words)

Puzzled over break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Where do i begin. I met this girl on a mates stag do last July in Barcelona. We were both single and not out looking for a relationship. But on that night are eyes met and that was it. Exchanged numbers at end of night with a kiss. Came home and the following fortnight we went ... (636 words)

Do you think she'll cheat and be with another guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months. She is on holiday at the moment in Italy with her aunt, but she has gone camping, and has her own tent. For some reason, I keep thinking she is going to cheat on me, depsite the fact that she tells me that loves me and ... (192 words)

Why is life so hard when you've found your soulmate?

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age - What do I do???? I am 45 and in a relationship with an 18 yearold!!! Where do I begin? Well for nearly a 10 months I have been seeing a woman/girl whos is nearly 27 years my junior!!! at first we knew each other as we live close and saw each other at parties etc, but we just ... (646 words)

I just ended an abusive relationship. I'm scared of what my ex might do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody So I finally got the courage to leave my abusive (mix of verbal, physical and sexual) boyfriend this week. I ended up having to do it online because after talking with some friends they suggested doing it in person would be too dangerous as he has an unpredic... (250 words)

Which guy should I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for more than 4 years now. He is my first love and my best friend. We had our share of problems but amidst all that we managed to survive. My mom loves him like he's her own son and his family and my family are really great friends. We started having ... (303 words)

Is being a 'Nice Guy' a bad thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls keep calling me a nice guy. Is this a bad thing? Something definitely isn't working because I've never had a real relationship. I never really get close with girls, or talk to them like close friends. I'm "friends" with a lot of girls, but it's no where near the same ... (265 words)

My ex forced me to have sex with him! How do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me.. Last april i had an abortion because i was only fifteen and my current boyfriend was allot older, i was scared he could of got done by the police so we both decided to have an abortion. It was really hard and i was very upset. Last august my ex boyfriend ... (225 words)

How can I make him commit to marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfrien for 3 years now...he says he wants to het married but has not made a commitment... how do i make him commit to marrieage... i'm almost in my mid 30's and he's 6 years younger than me.... please help!... (45 words)

I've tried to trust but just can't. I don't want to be alone forever!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was sexually abused when i was a child so i have very little trust in men as i've got older the guys i've dated have been abusive and cheated on me. Now i'm at the stage where i just can't trust, i've finally met a guy who treats me like a princess, so loyal to me and not ... (122 words)

I am desperate for help and need a way out of this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been struggling with a situation for months now and recently things came to a head I just couldnt bear it anymore. I'll try to be as brief as I can about a complex situation... I'm gay and have a partner but she and I have had ups and downs and these last few years mo... (693 words)

Should I go or stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Iam 30 yrs old and married to a wonderful, extremely caring, gentle and patient guy for the last 4 years and we share a common passion for holidays, food, wine, countryside etc. which we enjoy doing together. I couldnt ask for a better husband, there are however two big issues ... (220 words)

If she says I'm perfect for her, why is she still with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I've met a girl at work, I really like her and she seems to like me too. We sometimes chat to each on MSN to 5/6am some nights and what is shes is nice :) But, there's one problem. She's still currently in a relationship with another who we have both di... (147 words)

Do I ignore him and give him space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off since December 2007, it began as a long distance relationship but he moved nearer, to manchester which is about 25 miles from where I live to see me more often. However, this year the realtionship has hit the rocks. We're both to ... (464 words)

He chats to other girls when we're online - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is always flirting with other girls. i know it's his nature, because before we were just really good friends and he would also flirt with me and my other friends. we've been together for almost a year now. i've always had a slight problem with his flirting. also, ... (167 words)

He hasn't met me yet, so why is he making assumptions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this man through a dating website he lives in my city, I asked him to be friends with me so he said yes. He told me he has a disabilty his left hand has a nerve problem so its not easy for him to type and he even stopped to drive. We went all well for 2 weeks i told him ... (167 words)

I am not going to continue rewarding abusive behavior! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a single mother and have an 11 year old daughter who has been used to seeing me being abused by her father, my mother, my sister and my father. This abuse from her father escalated when I tried to have a relationship with a man that I was casually seeing for 3 years. When ... (598 words)

Ladies: Could she possibly want more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I got some great answers from some guys on this but was hoping for a female point of view :) Hi, please help im getting sad :) I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked the girl i worked wit... (324 words)

Do you agree with what I think could be going on?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hmmm im abit confused...right im friends with a lad hes a lovely guy and everything me and quite afw of my/our friends thought he liked me because of how he acted, and boy he showed it! I was stupid at the time(this was a year n a half ago) kinda shy'd away but he knows full ... (521 words)

I look like a circus tent compared to other women! Any weight loss advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 30 yaer old and i am size 16 and 14 stone. i find it hard to lose weight since i got older, to make things worse where i live there is no gyms,no swimming pool ,no sport shops,i can,t effort personal trainer.i can,t run i have asthmas,i am unemployed with no money... (99 words)

My girlfriend's neighbor...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relation for a few years now. We are both looking into avenues that will finally put us in the same city. No luck so far. Anyway, my question is about a re-occuring issue we've had. Let me start by saying that my girlfriend has a number of ... (559 words)

He's not into me... right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, to make a long story short. I met this guy about 3 1/2 years ago. We were both in relationships and did nothing but email almost every day for about 10 months. We definitely had a serious attraction and got to know each other well through these emails. He used to initiate ... (298 words)

Does she like me or something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I go to the gym 3 days a week, I see 2 girls who go on the same days. I've noticed one who is attractive and our eyes have met a few times over the weeks, I check her out not quite a bit and sometimes catch her looking at me but looks away as soon as I look at her. Also I ... (104 words)

2 years without my ex and I still miss the relationship we had. Do I just need more time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Even after 2 years without my ex, I'm struggling to forget my feelings for her. I'm desperate to move on, and after all this time, I suppose I'm still trying to believe I will find someone better. My ex was very attractive, and for the two years I knew her she was my best ... (181 words)

What can I get him that's really special for his birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and we both are seventeen years old. However, his birthday is coming up and I'm not sure on what I should get him. Last year I got him an ipod, and he's getting a new cell phone in November so I might as well not even ... (130 words)

How do you pash?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I'm 14 and I haven't pashed a guy. Well, I've had this one guy who lives cross the road from me try to pash me several times but for some reason I back away, I wanna pash him, but I'm scared for some reason. What do I do ? ... (50 words)

Why did my ex add me on Facebook when he has just got married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex fiance who i split with badly 6 years ago contacted me on facebook the other night requesting friendship. i thought this weird as ive only just got on there-we have no mutual friends so therefore confused to get this email. anyway out of curiosity i accept this ... (160 words)

I feel like I'm not part of my boyfriend's long term plans

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - after a talk about about the 'future' saving money and so... my boyfriend said that his going to New Zealand for 3 months for business, its not ever but it feels like forever... i asked him why i wont be going with and he said the last time i checked we were not married besides ... (143 words)

Are men instantly turned off because I'm not young and thin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age - I am 49 years old and single. I feel like there is not much hope for me in finding a guy who would be interested in me. I think age is against me, and the fact that it is harder and harder to stay in shape. I'm not that heavy--but definitely not model thin!! I'm about 5'8" ... (236 words)

Any advice on why she is acting crazy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - What is worse - being cheated on by the man who said he wants to marry you, or having him accidentally break your nose during an argument? I want to be with my girlfriend more than anything in the world but she just doesn't understand me sometimes. I told her that I wante... (534 words)

The distance between my girlfriend and I is starting to cause problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend who lives 1 hour away from me because I recently moved and now when I call her she's alyways at bbqs and partys and I go to school with alot of pretty girls I'm just afraid I'm not gonna find someone who loves me as much as my gf says she does and we have ... (80 words)

Should I wait for my ex or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i and my ex boyfriend still loves each other but the distance is keeping us apart we are both currently dating but we want each other back... he therefore suggested that we should just wait for next year when the distance issue will be resolved so that we can start afresh ... (84 words)

I think I love him but he annoys me with his silence..... is it fair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i met a guy a while ago through a friend and i tend to like him in the same way he liked me too.we decided to build up something concrete in the sense that it supposed to be something strong which can not be destroyed that easy.but this has changed completely when he ... (170 words)

My ex wants to keep in touch with me, but I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my ex lover came to her home town where she still has friends; i also live in the same town. she wanted to visit me while she was here, but i refused, telling her over the phone that i had moved on and i didn't feel comfortable about seeing her, also that she was like a ... (93 words)

What are my rights on a lease contract with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im from australia, and i was wondering what are my rights on this.?! Me and my dickhead boyfriend got a rental house together. Both names are on the lease contract but tonight he kicked me out, and said once the 6 months are up hes going to leave and dump me with the place, h... (114 words)

Is it possible to have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder after an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder after an emotionally abusive relationship?... (14 words)

My girlfriend doesn't like making out!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys im 17 and my girlfriend is 14 and she thinks making out is gross. im not sure if its a maturity thing or she had a bad experience or what, i know for sure she has hooked up before, i don't know how much but i know its hasn't been much at all but she said she was for... (185 words)

I ended our relationship because he is too close to his ex. Did I make the right decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend talks of his ex girlfriend's body or what happened between them, He call her and she calls him he says she is only a friend and a close friend I got angry and upset and I said to him I don’t want him to have any contact with her or talk of her or do any think wi... (117 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to trust me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dunno what to do, i have been with my boyfriend on and off for about 2 - 2 1/2 years. We split for about 6 months in 2008 and i had no idea that in 2009 we would get back together. When we split after i while i decided to try dating again, and i met this guy and we decided to ... (470 words)

Stick with my boyfriend or try with another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship which began about 3 and a half years ago. I have always imagined marrying my boyfriend, having children, all the rest, up till about a week ago. It is true that he does annoy me lately, pretty much every day as whenever I have a story to tell or gener... (299 words)

Do a few beers each night amount to addiction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Torn between loving my boyfriend of 5 years and worried about his drinking habits becoming more of a problem -he seems to need at least two / three bottles of beer a day after work and if its a night out he has to get full drunk. I just have a few drinks and that does me. I ... (83 words)

What should I do on my 18th birthday?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my 18th birthday is coming up and I'm afraid that I'm a bit socially awkward in regards to parties or anything that involves a big group of people when academics are not involved. So far I've tried to have pool parties or something of the sort, but they've never worked out ... (167 words)

Does she really hate me that much?

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30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I recently got my question answered by someone who told me to ask my girlfriend more questions about the relationship, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-want-to-leave-her-but-feel.html Now she doesn't like it and starts blaming everything on me, When I have do... (67 words)

Why does he keep using delaying tactics to avoid paying what he owes me?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I recently met. We had 2 "unfinished businesses" to finish. One got done but the other not. He owes me some cash. The meeting was 2 months after the break-up, he was all over me..crying and begging. Prior to that, he told me he'll pay me after two weeks which was ... (417 words)

Does Plan B work?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months and having sex for 2. He sometimes asks me if he can just pull out but I've always been too afraid to risk it (because I'm not on any other type of birth control) so we always used a condom. However I know he really ... (205 words)

Is he doing it to spite me

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do exes ignore you and avoid you at all costs after they have said we can be mates? . .. My ex has recently got together with a chick it broke my heart knowing he's moved on but it hurts a lot more that he's out of my life ..after we broke up he wanted to sleep with me.. he ... (258 words)

I really love him but the lack of affection is making me miserable!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my husband has said that he does not feel like sex because he is tired, sick of work, etc. We have sex about once every 3 weeks, which is sending me crazy. He is late 40's and I am mid 30's. He has been like this since I put on 20kg (after child birth) and I know that ... (135 words)

I think I still love my ex even though I'm married and haven't seen him for 6 years!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for three years and I do not enjoy sex with my husband. My ex-boyfriend (before I met my husband) was very good in bed and I think I still love him. I haven't seen him for 6 years no but still think about him. What should I do?... (52 words)

I have a small lump "down there" and I'm worried about it!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi guys, this is a kind of embarrasing, and I'm worried about it but don't want to be worried if it's nothing, I'm 14 years old 15 in a month, and i'm a virgin (never even kissed a guy lol) and I have a small lump, kinda like a big spot, down there. what could it be? should i ... (85 words)

We want to try and have sex but I cant bring myself to do it!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months now. Im still and a virgin and he knows this and he is very uncderstanding saying he will wait till im ready. But the problem is im too scared because I dony know what to do and ive been told that it will be sore. Plea... (87 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend so I can ask another guy out?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - this is gonna be long so be prepared.... I have a boyfriend that i have been dating for 5 months now. i know this sounds really bad but i met him cause he was my ex's best friend and he was on the football team with one of my best friends. I love him with all my heart a... (531 words)

My mother in law insists we have a baby when we are not ready!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, Im married for a year and half. We love each other a lot. My father inlaw and mother inlaw have come to visit us and they are here for a month. During this time my mother inlaw is insisting me to give birth to a baby and she give a kind of torture. me and my husband ... (115 words)

My boyfriend is torn between two women!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of almost 6 months is still in love with his ex girlfriend. He says he loves us both and wants us both. I told him he has to decide who he wants to be with. He said he wants to be with both of us and he won't settle for less. I told him it's me, her or i'll ... (259 words)

I have the most annoying fiance, hes doing my head in!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I neeed advice omg im soo stressing out and seriously think ive lost about 1 stone in the past week! I have the most annoying fiance,hes doing my head in! His nana was dying the other week and he rang in sick that day and told work he was upset about it which he wasnt be... (488 words)

Should I lose my virginity to her?

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30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl that Ive been dating for a little while and i are planning to go to a convention out of state and hang out and see what their is to see. we have considered having sex for the first time, usually im really nervous about the idea but this time it almost feels right to do. ... (287 words)

My parents forced me to to leave my 40 year old married boyfriend!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 year old who had a boyfriend before who's older than me his 40, and married already.Were 1 year and 1 month already,he had a wife but they are not staying anymore because of some misunderstanding and he don't have a plan to be together with his wife again. And we have ... (192 words)

Her daughter told me she is cheating on me...who do I believe?

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30 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i got a question for you all.. i have been in a long distance relationship for 12 months. 3 months ago my girl cheated on me with another ..he was an old boyfriend..she said it was the distance and booze that helped her do it.. she said that in will not happen again.we got to ... (452 words)

Is it wrong to break up with with ur BF for another guy??

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently broke up with my BF for my EX is that wrong to break up with somebody for another guy?? ... (21 words)

Questions about sex and foreplay....

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everyone, ok this is a simple question. what is the difference between dry humping and body rubbing ?? i'm only 15 so that's why i don't know what's the difference, but thanks and i really do aprreciate it. i also wanted to know what is foreplay ?? thanks again... (54 words)

Am I being silly to worry about her male friend who fancies her?

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30 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hi i have recently fallen for someone and have been goin out a few months now and she feels the same way,the majority of her friends are male and i dont have a problem with that but recently she told me one of them really fancies her and has been trying to get her for years but ... (90 words)

How do I stop being so clingy?

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30 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody, I have a problem, obviously. Well ever since middle school, I am 22 now, I've had a big issue with being clingy. It has haunted me so much to the point where i get jealous over my girlfriend when i know for sure she is doing nothing wrong. My previous girlfri... (383 words)

I think my insecurities will drive him away!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age - I have a wonderful boyfriend but I'm insecure anyway. I know he loves me - it's obvious - first time in my life I've felt this loved. He has a great friend who's a woman, and I met her - we all went on a short road trip together. At times she seemed sort of friendly. But more ... (342 words)

I want happiness but I'm so afraid all the time!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am female just turning 41. I have been involved 2 marriages since i was 18 and have had a domestic violence marriages. I am aware of attracting those kind of man and have been working on that problem. My issue is now that I have been involved with new partner for the past ... (225 words)

I have no idea how the emancipation process works!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and I turn 18 In 7 months. I can't take the stress anymore. My mom is power hungry and my father will tell you that..I already financially support myself and I have since I was 15 years old. I know I can provide for myself but at 17 I have no idea how the emancipation ... (143 words)

I ran into my childhood crush, things were going great, we slept together...and now he seems more distant

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I made a big mistake. You would think a woman 44 years old would know better. I ran into a man i had a huge crush on when I was in High School. We bacame friendly while online where we belonged to many of the same sites. Once we exchanged phone numbers we spoke and text ... (207 words)

How would you feel if you were in her shoes? What did I do wrong?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me (i'm a girl) and this girl has been friends for a while and around november i told her i was bi..and she said its just a phase..and then like 4 months later i told her that i had no interest in boys..and i was lesbian and she started to accept it when i told her that i cnt ... (136 words)

What is he really thinking of when we make love, me or porn stars?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend nearlly 2yrs now. i am 18 and he is 21. we use to kiss and cuddle all the time but now we dnt do it very often. he never gives me sex i get it once a week. i am a pretty girl i am slim and smart dressed i like to make my self look and feel goo... (165 words)

It worries me to think that I might have to change just so that a guy will like me. Any advice?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never been in a relationship before. Despite this, I have developed a strong cynicism on the whole thing. It was something that seemed to be so much effort. The nice hair, clothes, and constantly worrying whether or not the person liked you as much as you did him. Recent... (257 words)

Do I wait for her to come around?

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30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16 and im in love with my best friend still. our relationships is weird where were totallh best friends and talk about everything but weve gone out a couple times always ending in her breaking up with me in a day or two. after one relationship the next chool yr started and ... (188 words)

Never pursued a relationship with someone of my own race.

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I realize that people have certain types of significant others that they are attracted to. For me, I tend to gravitate to men of the caucasian race. And even though I find men of my own race attractive I have never found someone of my own race so appealing that I have wanted ... (107 words)

Forbidden love - I'm in love with a Muslim but my parents won't accept it! Help!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi well im a mess at the moment. im in love with a Muslim man and i am christian, we have been with each other for 2 years and still my dad does not know. we come from a very religious family and everything is about respect, my dad asked me once and he told me that if i w... (208 words)

Is this a survival of the fittest thing?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to like bigger guys. Like, I was a seirous chubby chaser. My first boyfriend had it all for me: he was pretty tall (6'3") and 250 lbs whereas I was 5'4" and 110 lbs when we dated. Now I'm finding myself being attracted to still taller men, but more physically fit ones. ... (82 words)

How do I know if I need closure for this?

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30 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm a fifteen years old high school student. For about two or three years now, I've really, really, liked this pretty church-girl, and I've been so head over heels for her since. I like her so much, but it just felt so weird since I didn't even know her at the time, and ... (372 words)

He has so many beautiful female friends, how can I tell if he's really interested in me?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This doesn't make much sense, but I'm seeing a guy who has a lot of female friends. His best friend is a stunningly beautiful single woman and other attractive women are always so friendly and interested in him. I'm not normally jealous, this is the closest I've got but I'm ... (93 words)

How do I prevent his mood swings, that make him break up with me?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's an interesting situation, actually... You see, I'm in a long-distance relationship with someone who's a few years older than me (though that might not be relevant); I guess you could say that he's a... 'mercurial' boyfriend. I read about that term somewhere, and it ... (268 words)

My mum-in-law-to-be's questions make me feel like I'm in a police station!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right so my partner and i have been going out over 2 years but mum asks loads off questions and i duno what to answer as i can say pretty silly stuff, witch can make me very stupid and some questions makes me uncomfortable. i cant say to my bf as he tells his mum and well ... (101 words)

Why isn't he responding to my emails?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a high school reunion a few years ago and while there one of my former guy classmates (who always flirted with me in school) chatted it up with me and gave me a friendly goodbye. I started emailing him to talk and a few months into it I asked him if he would want to hang ... (108 words)

My boyfriend doesn't yet know that I'm pregnant. This is a very tough situation to be in!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a month and a half now and I've been pregnant with his kid for just as long. I know he's the father because he's the one who took my virginity. I feel like a complete idiot, though, because I'm about to miss out on a whole bunch of t... (196 words)

Is he trying to get me pregnant again?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and have an 11 month old and have had a few financial difficulties over the last year. We both want more kids (I'm thinking 2, he wants 3) later on when I'm finished with school, financially caught up, and have a ring on my finger (Something more I don't want ... (219 words)

Am I just not attracted to him anymore?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and I love him. I have a lot of fun with him and he's my best friend. But I think I'm no longer attracted to him. He is good looking, but I have no drive to do anything with him, even kissing. He has always bugged me about me doing ... (124 words)

Tell me how you broke up with someone, I need some ideas!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can some people let me know stories of how they broke up with people and how that person responded or how you responded. I know I need to break up with my boyfirend, even though I love him, it's just not right. I've been with him for almost two years... I want to know what to ... (94 words)

He won't let me end it but it seems he needs a break?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of 10 months has been really distant lately, sometimes hes really lovey dovey and i times hes makin comments like i dont think were gonna make our relationship ship last a year.. i found a couple of girls numbers in his phone.. he wont let me kiss on his neck.. ... (114 words)

Older, "obese" guy Fetish

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm a 16 year old female (I am the legal age of consent in my state). I have this...fetish...for older guys. Not only older guys, kind of...fat...older guys. (around the ages of 26-38) Is it weird? I haven't told ANYONE. I don't think I ever will...but is it normal? ... (50 words)

Does he want to get back with me?

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i was in this relationship for 6 months... i was in love with the guy ..when the summer started things started changing becuase he was broke and we coudnt really go out and have fun .. so it was if the relationship was fading but the love was still their... okay so he ... (305 words)

Feel like a nag but I know I'm a good girlfriend!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 3.5 years and I are going through quiet a rough patch at the moment. I have had a rough year after my brother being diagnosed with a mental illness but things are looking up, I got a job and im moving into my own place. Personally things are going... (158 words)

She doesn't want sex!

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30 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 30yo male with a 30yo girlfriend. We have been together for 3 years lived together for 2 one of which was overseas, we have returned recently. My problem is she has been saying she doesn’t want sex, she has had this stance for 18months now and has gone threw all t... (868 words)

Need help with steps to get her back

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30 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, I am 21 and have been in a relationship with a girl for a little over a year. We were coming up on our anniversary with the titles as boyfriend and girlfriend. she just just broke up with me last wednesday because she fell out of love with me. I stopped showing ... (289 words)

The programs on tv just make me want a baby!

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30 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyy :) this isn't a major problem but just something i'm curious about. i've been watching the programmes 'underage and pregnant' and i imagine they were broadcast to try and stop teens from becoming parents and to stop/be more careful when having sex. but its had a comple... (104 words)