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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend is always flirting with other girls. i know it's his nature, because before we were just really good friends and he would also flirt with me and my other friends. we've been together for almost a year now. i've always had a slight problem with his flirting. also, he has more female friends than he does guys, which makes it harder.sometimes when im talking to him, like online, he stops talking to me and i assume he's busy. but later on i find out from one of my best friends that he's been talking to her. he makes slight flirtatious comments which she finds really funny, like a joke. but when i read them i feel envious. my boyfriend hardly compliments me, and when he does i feel like it's because hes obligated to. the fact that he's always flirting with other girls makes me that tad more insecure. what should i do?
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (30 July 2009):
 It's kinda hard but, you KNEW what he was like before you started dating him. He's a flirt. Either you can accept that or you can not. Don't expect him to change because you two are now a couple.
As RUDE as I find it that he will start to chat up other girls while carrying on a conversation with you, I think that is something he has always done. Not sure there is much you can do.
It really comes down to a few things, communication, trust and respect.
Good luck
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (30 July 2009):
 I completely understand were your comming from. I was once with a guy who always chatted to my friend online instead of me. I to got envious and always blamed my friend. Just explain to your boyfreind you don't enjoy it when hes flirting with girls online, and ignoring you especially for your friends. As for him having female friends, this shouldn't be a problem between you to. You should be allowed male FRIENDS and him female FRIENDS. If trust is an issue, then you should reconsider the relationship. A relationship will never work out if you don't trust your partner.
Good luck.
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