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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does my boyfriend have an STD?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has white bumps that lead to his penis. They stop at his penis and don't go any further then that. It is very red around that area. Although he has this, I don't have it? I have inspected myself and so has he. So I'm very confused. What are the possibilit... (91 words)

I love to wear girls clothes! does this make me bisexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 18 years old and i like girls alot and i'm dating one right now but whenever i see i naked guy or two guys having sex i get horny and i love to wear girls clothes..panties,bras,mini skirts,dresses,etc..i'm always wondering if i'm bisexual or not i try not to think ... (83 words)

I have a big crush on him! Should I let him know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (ill try to make it as short as possible)okay so heres the dealio....i had this MAD crush on this guy since last year and 3 weekes ago he friended me on facebook and he and i started chatting on facebook chat a lot that weekend and after a couple days after he just stopped ... (223 words)

How do I get rid of this man who won't eccept that we are over!!??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I get rid of a man who won't go away? Won't accept that we are over? One would think that my calling off our first engagement shortly after it started would have been enough. And then calling off our second engagement the day before the wedding woudl have defin... (240 words)

Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm being obsessive or anything. ... (215 words)

I was blown away from the intense goodbye kiss but he hasn't contacted me since!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age - I met a guy about a month ago. We've seen eachother about 5 times now. We're both in our 50's. He's a lovely man. Very respectful. We seemed to get along well. Each date, his goodbye kisses became more intense and I was blown away from the last one. I have not heard from him ... (88 words)

Should I continue to encourage him to have contact with his son? Or just forget it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, im looking for some outside opinions please. I was with the father of my son around four years ago. We were together for 7 months, when i found out i was pregnant he made a very sharp exit and i never heard from him until i was 6 months gone. He contacted me via MSN and i... (850 words)

How can I sort out my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My life is so rubbish right now :( I have a boyfriend whos been really great to me as I have a few anger and problems but hes stuck with me. The thing thats bothering me is that I always have to make an effort to contact him, I can bet if I didn't try to contact him he wouldn't... (147 words)

Should I book I flight to try and rekindle the passion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay this is the deal…my ex and I were together for 4 years. We owned a house together, about 20 minutes from my family. He broke up with me 2 weeks ago because he felt the passion had died. He moved back in with his parents, 14 hours away! I love him with all my heart and ... (289 words)

I don't want her to feel uncomfortable or ruin our friendship. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am a 16 year old boy. There is this girl who I quite like however I am too nervous to ask her out. The other thing is that I have not seen her in quite a few weeks. I don't want to ruin our friendship by making her uncomfortable. What should I do?... (55 words)

Is it time to leave this unhappy marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am unhappily married with two children to a man who is physically and verbally abusive who also has a drug addiction that he can't kick. We get along sometimes, but he treats me like I'm his child and makes comments about my parenting. He won't seek counsel for his habbit ... (123 words)

Is it possible that I have some kind of mental illness?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it possible I have an undiagnosed mental illness? I never quite feel there, everything's a blur, it's like I'm watching through the eyes of a robot. I really don't know how to explain any of this. And I don't know how to go about it. I can't go to a doctor, as I don't kn... (180 words)

He doesn't talk much when we're together, don't know what to make of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right this may sound really stupid to some, but i need your help! I'm with this guy, who i really like, am always thinking about him, both sexually and not. Just spending time with him is amazing! I dream about him almost every night, again both sexually and not. There is... (247 words)

What can I do to cure my ejaculation problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm a man in his 40s, I've not been able to ejaculate during intercourse pretty much ever. I lost my virginity when I was 18, and have had many partners since then but I've only ejaculated during intercourse maybe 30 times. I've been married and have had one relationship... (183 words)

Ladies... What could a gent do to prove he's changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this is VERY general question but here goes anyway: ladies imagine or think of a gent you've known. The two of you were close, very close. Over time you began to believe he just wasn't happy being with you anymore and that in turn was making you unhappy. Eventually ... (146 words)

My girlfriend freaked and started crying when I undone her bra. Why did she do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and me were making out and until I unhooked her bra. She had padding in it, she ran out of the room in tears. I did call her a few times with no answer. She wont talk to me. She always problem her with insecureties. Like she wears my beggy shirts at the breach. ... (60 words)

Since I was pregnant with our 2nd child he's gone off sex... What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my husband for six years now and married for one year. we have two children together when i got pregnant with my 2nd child my husband refused to make love as he felt uncomfortable. i have caught him watching porn on the computer and have found porn on his phone ... (99 words)

How can I keep him interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he recently told me he wanted to break up a little less than a month ago. He said it was because of our fighting. I didn't think it was that bad compared to other couples fighting(and they are still together). He moved out yesterda... (123 words)

Who do I choose as my other birth partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

- My baby is due in 6 weeks and Im really excited... not nervous... honestly :) My problem is that other than my fiance I dont know who I want in the delivery room with me, my mom or my mother in law. This might seem like a straight forward choice for most but me and my mo... (396 words)

I cheated on her but I still miss her, she even misses me too...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age - Hello, Summing it up and asking for words of wisdom; was in an 18 year relationship- I cheated. I left and she found someone right away and they live together now. We have had lots of "conversations." Not too long ago, she contacted me and said she still loved me and want... (180 words)

My life is not good ...I'm stuck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i really need a friendly ear. i hate myself and i want to feel good about myself. 7 years ago i split with my ex-im not a horrible person but he was too laid back for me he never really showed he cared, i would be like a mother to him and got little back. i met him throu... (436 words)

Can I win her back or is it too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - im 30yrs of age been in a 5yr relationship with a girl who means the world to me we lived togeather ive got a 6 yr old boy by a previous relationship which wasnt a problem to her she accepted him and was like a mum to him every thing been good with us then back in end of ... (653 words)

Am I barking up the wrong tree?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age - My question is I am 54 and he is 2 years younger and I know he was married to a younger gal that only lasted a few years. we have become friends eccept last night we consumated the friendship yet no major love sparks just very comfortable with. Each other. am I barking up the ... (57 words)

Surely he has done wrong to mebut why do I think of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i get over the past and fight back . when i was 13 years old i ha megga problems at school / home i had megga problems . at school i didnt have many true friends - even the ones i had used me and i was also badly bullyed . i wated to be someone eles ...... ... (486 words)

I'm I a slut? How can I forget!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If I look at this on the funny side I'd say me and my boyfriend have a horn problem.. But on the not so funny side - I feel like a slut. Me and my boyfriend have done things in places we really shouldn't have. I regret it afterwards and now it's really getting to me. Should I ... (71 words)

How can I turn her down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm an 18 year old boy dating a 16 year old girl that threatens to hurt herself and she acts inmature out in public and i just can't stand the way she acts when we go out somewhere and i'm at that point where i just wanna break up with her and move on but yet i still ... (71 words)

How to get her back after you've said really awful hurtful things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfreind broke up about a week ago. The problem was that she started to help a male friend with his business and he was willing to help her get into better shape. The problem started when every time we would go out she would always mention his name. It got to a ... (739 words)

I slept with my fiance's dad!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I slept with my fiance's dad. Yes, I know what I did was wrong but I was very drunk at the time. Very, very drunk. My boyfriend was away on a training course at the time. I found out I was pregnant by his dad a few weeks ago. I feel a bit guilty and haven't told my f... (172 words)

Finally moving on from my husband but now he won't leave me alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - About 10 months ago I discovered my husband was in a relationship with a female co-worker. I packed his bag and asked him to leave. We have a small child so I agreed that he could visit with him every other weekend and stay at our home during the visits. During this time of ... (458 words)

I'm 17 and I really want a baby!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok guys I know this may seem a little extreme or even stupid, but I am 17 and I want a baby. I have always been obessed with children and in my household sex before marriage is frowned upon. I had sex between 7-10 times and I've been trying to get pregnant so bad. I know if I ... (123 words)

How can I stay with someone who doesn't want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) age - My marriage is very sad. My husband lost interest in sex. Nobody knows for sure why. He is healthy. His hormons are fine. How can I stay with someone ,who I don't know why but does not want me? When he is trying to have sex, very seldom, I feel ,he is forcing it. Not even get... (133 words)

He'll chase some slutty girl and then come back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so my exboyfriend and i have been going through it for a year and a half. one minute he loves me nothing in this world can change that, when we fight he cant eat or sleep it turns his world upside down cause i am his world, no matter how mad he gets at me hes always mine and ... (160 words)

He's used to younger women will this be a problem?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age - I am mid-50's and hooked up with someone who has been a friend and is 2 years younger than I. We went to breakfast and it was all very comfortabel...almost too comfortable. He is used to being with younger women and wonder if this will be a problem.... (48 words)

Going back and forth between these 2 women isn't working!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was with a woman for about 2 years and after I met another woman we started dating a few months later. Since I've been with her everything was fine until this past new year's eve when I sent a txt to my ex saying happy new years. My girlfriend looked through my phone and seen ... (226 words)

Why does she want to fight over everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hey guys i'm a 27 yr old man with an 42 yr old woman she seems to wanna fight with me over every thing.i'm always being accused of cheating (never have though it's been 5 months)i love her,sex is good but i can't really stand all the fighting especially since it's over ... (64 words)

I need to end a crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need to end a crush. So far this site has helped me so much with my problems, as in, they have identified my problems as limerenece which seems likely. But, its for another guy, which makes me bisexual. I'm learning to deal with the fact, I am in love with another boy,... (306 words)

What can't I ever let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just wanted some opinions on this subject because Im finding more and more that Im in the minority here. The thing is I really dont understand how people can cut each other out of their lives after a relationship breaks up. When Im with someone, even quite casually, I beco... (268 words)

Commitment issues but amazing chemistry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is a bit of a long one but your answers will be fully apprechiated!! :) Ok so on new years eve (this year) i was out with my friends having a great night, i ended up in a huge crowd at the bar and bumped into some guy, as soon as i set eyes on him i felt all funny... (940 words)

Too cold, to fast...is she on her way out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've come here because I need your impressions on the situation. Me and my Girlfriend have been together for about 9 months. Things were so much more passionate at the beginning, lots of hugging, kissing, cuddling, she used to lean on me almost all the time. Lots of PDA. ... (248 words)

Is this new friend ok or is she using my friend?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My best friend, is a single female, strong personality, stubborn, smart ass, and a good worker I am quite close with her, we get along well, (friends only!! ) and I have been there for a lot for in the past 11months, as friends are In the past 5 wks or so she has become ... (637 words)

What if I'm not really bi and its just a phase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Help. I am 15 and i am bi. I like this guy who is gay and single. But i have never had oral or gave oral or anything like that to a girl. So if i do go out with this guy and we do have any form of sex and my bi-ness turns out to just be a phase then i will always remember doing ... (74 words)

Girlfriend says she goes to gay gyms because she knows the men won't hit on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend told me she works out at gay gyms because she knows that other men won't hit on her - is this weird or what? I'm realistic, and I KNOW that other men will flirt with her in the gym, and don't try to get jealous about it. I know she has male friends, and a... (153 words)

I'll never get over him if he keeps calling every day!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello again. Clearly waiting around for the guy I love isn't an option. If he can't make a commitment, or respect me, there isn't really a point. But the problem is, we're really close friends and we talk almost everyday. I know that I'll never get over him if he's calling me ... (80 words)

I can't keep waiting for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old.my b.f jst turned 24. we knew eachother for 3 months always chatted etc we met of the net. he always use 2 chase me. finally i said ok we can meet... since that first day he became my first b.f, had my first kiss etc. he's muslim i'm sikh but i never cared ab... (292 words)

Where would I go and what would I do if I left him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi today is the 5th of july I feel very stupid and sad and angry and also really annoyed I don’t Even know how to describ how I feel! For the 4th of july me and my husband threw a b-day party for our son and then we spent all night till about 5:30am talking with some relative... (1692 words)

Does the pill help clear up poor skin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is just a general womans health type question. My girlfriend says the pill helps with her skin, she has pretty troublesome skin with spots and sores especially on her back and upper arms. I was just wondering if this is true because I find it pretty hard to understand why ... (145 words)

He always says he's sorry afterwards...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MY boyfriend has never punched, hit or attacked me. But, he has squeezed my arm so hard it really hurt ( he said it was bacause he thought i was going to hit him ) and he pushed me off the bed when i was 3 months pregnant. (didnt hurt myself) But he gets really angry if i d... (366 words)

He sends sexy texts to strangers but says hes too embarrassed to send them to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello again, I got some really good advice here recently and wondered if I could ask for some more. My original question is here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-sends-and-receives-dirty-texts-from-random.html Basically, about 3 weeks ago I found out my bf of 5 yea... (449 words)

I don't know how to fix my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i need some advice-hopefully i wont get any nasty comments but if i do so be it. i just need advice. ive recently finished with my ex-i was with him 5 years-5 years too long. in that time he has never visited my family, never called, calls once a day at a set time-he har... (332 words)

He had a picture of his penis on his phone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i've been dating this boy for quite a while now, almost nine months- and up until the other day we were quite happy together.. until we had a little arguement, i walked away with his phone because he walked away with my shoe.. and as i walked away rather angry i went through ... (233 words)

How do you rebuild your life after the breakdown of a marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, I'm the poor sod who asked for help about a year ago with the husband who was addicted to porn, sex chat lines, websites etc. I have since made the move to get divorced from him and it has not been easy. At the moment I am suffering from severe depression as di... (549 words)

Too dependent on my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like im too dependant on my boyfriend. we have been together on and off for a year now. i feel like hes the only one who really knows me because i tell him everything and i dont hide anything from him, like i do with my parents. my parents are so controlling that i feel ... (104 words)

With a guy but still find myself looking at women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfrind for nearly 4 years now , but i am very concerned weather i am a bisexual i had a encounter with a woman a few months back and it ended badly but i still find myself looking at other women , even tho i would like to think me and my partner can have a ... (78 words)

My parents are too strict!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my parents are too strict and overprotective. i have been a solid A student my entire life. my midnight curfew has always been the same and im only allowed out once a week despite the fact that i am now 18 and that this is my final year of school. they dont even allow me to ha... (216 words)

There is a bad atmosphere between me and my boyfriend's sister. Should I do anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

- Me and my fiance have been together nearly a year and we got pregnant pretty fast (after 4 months) but we are happy about it and have kept the baby which is due next month. Anyway everyone was fine about it except his sister. She started telling everyone that I just want... (420 words)

Why is she doing this to me when I'm sure she wants me as much as I want her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age - The most beautiful woman - physically and as a person - has been on my mind for a couple of years now. Then 18 months ago, we started seeing each other for drinks etc. We told each other we were in love and would be together just as soon as we could get out of our unhappy ... (173 words)

My husband is a workaholic!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - /> My husband is a workaholic. We went on holiday to France recently, and even then he couldn't stop working, bringing all his accountancy books with him when we were out at a restaurant, and trying to do business deals over the mobile phone - a complete nightmare. ... (469 words)

Whenever a problem arises, I get angry for what he did during our breakup. Am I too uptight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend recently came back to me and we decided to give us another chance. Now we know our problems and are trying to work things out and actually getting along well. However, whenever a small problem arises, I get disappointed and resentful so quickly at him f... (233 words)

Guys: Was it right to let a shallow get the better of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll never catch I'll be 33 years of age by the ... (292 words)

Girlfriend doesn have respect for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Let me start by saying I am very much in love with my girlfriend, and I believe she is very much in love with me. The problem is I don't think she has very much respect for me. She has a history of lying about little things, she gets upset with me over little things to the ... (329 words)

I don't want to be competing with guys 3 years older than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey well theres this girl i really like at work and we get along pretty well but im gettin mixed signals from her like she will be really flirty one minute and not the next i know theres a couple of other guys that like her and shes talking to them as well i went to the movies ... (165 words)

I'm getting married and she wants to be my secret love affair!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - first and foremost, i am straight,engaged to a beautiful man whom i have shared my life with for the past 4 years. 2 years ago, i met this really attractive woman at a party, she is my friend's cousin and because she is working in the same line and industry as me we got ... (566 words)

Is watermelon a weapon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 27 year old with a 50 year old boyfriend that I met two years ago. We met as I moved into the house he was subleasing, relocating far away from my friends and family, and have been dating him for a year. He is by far the best guy I have ever dated, except for a few ... (256 words)

What does a guy from Kansas have to offer a girl from Italy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - note: i am changing all details and painting the picture/situation accurately to find advice/suggestion...should i fight for her. title: Boy from Kansas meets girl from Italy. She's 33 and i'm 36. ...we dated for 3 years, i'm 36 and to be as modest as possible, girls h... (471 words)

5 months pregnant need to tell my parents and don't know how!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so frightend, I'm 16 and I found out about 5 months ago I was pregnant. The guy who got helped in this little creation of ours blamed it all on me and moved to a different school.I wouldn't dare tell my parents, they've done so much for me and I feel guilty. Even though I ... (145 words)

I met his his parents, and it didn't go too well! How do I deal with it next time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

- I am so confused right now, I dont know what to think or make of the situation I am. Firstly let me start by saying I am 19 years old and my bf who I have been dating for over a month now, is 24. I recently met all of his family. However I dont think it went so well. Hi... (676 words)

She lied about where she was, should I dump her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my gf havent talked to eachother in a coupl of weeks, and she says shes at cheerleading camp. yet a friend saw her yesterday in town.should i still date her, or should i dump her?... (37 words)

Does true love really exist?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Maybe this is a stupid question: but I really want to know. Does true love REALLY exist? Can people really love each other FOREVER? Can two people really accept each other and love each other in EQUAL balance- meaning 1 not love the other more or less than their spouse. I'm not ... (183 words)

Stuck in between friendship and a relationship...Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a complicated relationship with the man I love for 2 years. We started off friends and as we got closer, we fell in love and we started dating, it didn't last very long, but a couple of months after we broke up, we got back together and the whole time we were ... (288 words)

I love him but I'm not attracted to him...he has hygiene issues!

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Reader's My boyfriend and I been together for 4 1/2 years when I meet him I was only 18 and he told me that he was 26. After a year into our relationship he started looking older then he said he was. After snooping through his wallet I found out he was 32. I was hurt... (463 words)

I think I upset her, can our friendship be saved?

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5 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a great girl through unusual circumstances about 18 months ago. We hit it off great and while at times it got a little personal, it pretty much always remained just a friendship. She's a great girl, smart, funny and we have a lot of similar interests. The only thing ... (610 words)

We're back together, but I'm afraid to need him like I did before

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really love this kid and well we broke up for a little bit and those were the hardest months of my life. And now that were back together I'm extremely happy but I'm afraid to need him like I did before. And he's already told me he needs me but I don't want to tell him need ... (75 words)

I don't want gifts, I want his love. Why has he gone off sex?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is a long one... I'll start from the begining... Two years ago, I just entered highschool as a freshman in highschool... I met Lukas, a senior ready to graduate. I'll tell you a bit about him. Before me he only dated two other girls, none of which serious, because... (694 words)

What do you think of breast implants?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm considering a boob job after I lose weight from weight loss surgery. I know I'll probably lose my breasts. I have a d cup but they sag I bet I'll be a small b cup. I want a full c and them to be lifted! I want to know the stories from the women that have had it done!I ... (85 words)

Should I chase him, let him chase me, or just let him go?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy told me he liked me and i said i liked him too, he asked me out and i said yes.then after 2 weeks later i told him that it felt more like a friend zone then boyfriend and girlfriend thing.so he asumed i broke up wit him and he always said he was " bummed" about it. t... (547 words)

I'm scared he'll move on, but I won't!

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had a on and off relationship for the last while. It seems like forever since I've had these feelings for him. It feels like he is all I know. I feel as if without him, I will never be happy again and I hate feeling like this. When we break up, I ... (302 words)

Really forgiven or a panacea for her pain?

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5 July 2009 (M)

age - I have been married for 25 yrs. My wife is 57 and I am 45. Our marriage has gon stale in the last 5 yrs, which led to me seeking love elsewhere. I left my wife and the other woman to start a new life. My wife found out about the affair since then, but has forgiven me and ... (124 words)

What is wrong with my vagina?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of gross but... I noticed the other day that my vagina was a little sore. When I checked it out to see what was up, I noticed these bumps that looked like pimples ready to pop, because they had holes with pus coming out. So I squeezed one of them and it popped j... (127 words)

I've fallen for my co-worker...but I'm married with 2 children

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what do i do next , iam married with 2 chldren but i have been seeing someone else who is also in relationship ,. but i have fallen for him and cant get him out of my mind. but when iam with him its so comfortable and i fancy him we have slept together a few times but not for ... (110 words)

How do you stop thinking about a lover?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am married to a man that I have happily been a relationship for almost nine years. We are extremely compatible, both make each other stronger and have a very high level of trust in our relationship. Three weeks ago I cheated on him, for the first time since our ... (549 words)

How can I approach this girl?

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5 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Well at school there is a variety of girls to stare at,but this girl thats in my class is special. I don't know if she likes but i like her alot. I know her friends but some people think some of them like,so i don't know whether to ask her out or not i don't want to hurt their ... (69 words)

Does she love me ? and other issues...

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5 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been living with my wife for the last 16 years, married since 10. Two years ago, I realized I did not love her any more and had to do something about it (ie. had to separate). We separated for about two months. She was broken hearted and I felt terrible about it, because I ... (956 words)

Is it ok for me to seek attention from other men if my husband watches porn?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This qwuestion is in relation to another asked on DC. Is it ok for me to seek attention from other men if my husband watches porn? I mean dressing provocatively and flirting just to get stares and compliments.. after all my husband enjoys the novelty of looking at other... (146 words)

Is there anyone that can explain my dream to me?

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5 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a weird dream the other day. See i have just finished school, and i am sad that we have left it, the thing im most sad about is leaving my form tutor she was amazing and im going to miss her deaply. Anyway in this dream last night, i dream that i went back to the sc... (177 words)

Husband wants sex without tending to my needs...?!

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This story is so long, but basically the short of it is this: My husband and I have 3 kids, the youngest is 6 months old and co-sleeps. Whenever my husband wants to "get off" he has no problem getting the baby to sleep and in his own bed, but if it is me that wants any physical ... (277 words)

Can reconstruction take place here?

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5 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - About a year and a half ago i had a cyst removed from my foreskin below the frenulum. It has healed quite well but i am regretting having it done as i have lost all feeling in my most sensitive part - my frenulum. I don't enjoy masturbation as much and have developed a bit of ... (136 words)

Overprotective parents and a confusing relationship

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have strict parents who make me scared 2 try 2 begin a relationship, they don't let me go out much, but now its this guy who I have known 4 a year and I want 2 be with him, but he stay an hour away from me, but I'm not sure if he's the 1 for me b/c right now he's in need of ... (131 words)

Will sexual attraction ruin the begining of a relationship?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. This guy and I started going out after we kissed randomly (i know, :(), we were pretty much as a couple for a week (don't judge us please) and then split. The thing is, we were sweethearts, like, saying cute nicknames to each other, being really sweet and everything. Now ... (160 words)

My bf said I could have sex with other guys...WHY?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf of over a year told me last night that if it ever came up that I wanted to have sex with another person that we would talk about it and it would be okay... I lostmy virginity to him and haven't slept with any other guy .. Does he telling me this imply that he's cheating? ... (110 words)

Why is she playing these games why doesn't she just leave with this dude?

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5 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - By the way im in iraq while all this is happening, I'm 40, my sons mother is 30, my son is 10. we have been togther for 12 years, I do love her. we have been through so much fighting and arguing, anyway last dec I decided to break up because I was telling her on the phone ... (390 words)

My boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have currently been in a LDR for the last nine months. It was a hard nine months, but he finally moved back to my home town two weeks ago. Everything has been going so great. We have our up's and down's, but nothing to major. Today, he told me he wasn... (146 words)

How do I answer this Facebook Friend request?

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5 July 2009 (M)

age - Here's one for you, I am a member of facebook and have a few friends, people I really like and have knwon for many years and some only a couple. Today I e-mailed a couple more I know from way back and later when I log back in I get a "friend request". I think gr... (204 words)

Rumours pushed us apart but I love him more now, except he gives me mixed signals!

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need some help as im so confused, a few months ago i met this boy, we started talking, texting and got to know each other, he used to ask me to go out all the time and i wasnt really bothered about him. He used to tell me he loved me and at first i thought i liked him, ... (290 words)

How can I get him to see that I really care about him?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some insight and advice. Okay my story goes like this: about 9 months ago I was getting over an ex when a guy I worked with started pursuing me. We dated a little but I made it known that I didn't want to start anything because I wasn't quite over my ex and I knew that ... (344 words)

I'd love to enjoy performing oral sex, but the past holds me back

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years now, and he really enjoys recieving oral sex. I have sucked him off many times, but it's always a challenge for me. I know where the problem stems from but am having difficulty finding a way to overcome it. From the ... (270 words)

My main problem is why we broke up, how can I fix things between us?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupids, this is a bit of a long one so apologies!! :) My boyfriend of four months broke up with me a few weeks ago saying that we didn't see enough of each other, that we didn't talk enough and basically that he felt like he didn't know me at all. He had been ignoring me... (561 words)

I'm so lonely. I don't have a single friend...

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so alone. I know half of this has to do with my actions. But! I'm so alone. Sorry if this is long but I need help!!!!! I don't have a single friend that I could call on if I needed too. I went thru high school with tons of friends and dropped out of the high school marching... (178 words)

Should I give my dad a chance?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, well here's the story my dad tried to kick me and my mum out of his house when i was 6 months old my mum fought against it and we ended up staying there until i was around 9 years old, he never had contact with me or mum after he left. about 2 months ago i p... (428 words)

Do I have to like oral sex to be lesbian?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've looked but never seen this question before. I am a straight woman, but I fantasize about women's breasts, hugging and kissing. But anything below the waist doesn't seem too appealing, especially oral sex. I just can't do that. So how can I be a bi/lesbian? Or am I ... (58 words)

My cousin and I want a baby, what is the next step?

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5 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my causin had sex withot comdoms and sometimes we use them but we love so mush each other and we want to be together doing our lifes together and we have thinking about having a baby but we are worried that the baby its going to have bad dificulties so can you help us ... (57 words)