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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to go out with my friends but my girlfriend wants to see me. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I've started seeing a girl for the past month or so. But I'm worried she's becoming a little too attached to me. She constantly wants to see me, and while I'm thrilled to bring her all the happiness I can, it can be hard work, because 1) she doesn't drive, and 2) sh... (269 words)

How I do politely ignore him?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. It's a bit long winded but please bear with me! Okay, here goes. There's this guy I've known for a while [let's call him Paul] through school, but not exactly as friends, and he'd occasionally talk to me. At the time I didn't think much of it, but when I look back I re... (471 words)

I've lied to my husband to see him just like he did to me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have serious issues. I'm in my late 30's I've been married 2 years, been with my husbad for 7 total. We don't have any kids (thank God!). Before him I was in two consecutive 3 year relationships. I broke up with both of them. In each of those relationships I just stopped ... (334 words)

How should I ask her out? What should I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been talking to this girl on msn thats in my classes and we are friends but not too much friends that i cant ask her out. how shall i ask her out. for example what should my facial expression be and what words\phrases shall i use and how shall i build up to it... (55 words)

I cheated. How do I prove I'm not that person anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my ex bf for about a month in April. We lived together 5 out of the 7 months we were together. Things got really difficult because he was having financial and family problems while i felt we were drifiting away. I realized our flame had died between us and t... (493 words)

Follow your heart. What do my weird dreams mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had some weird dreams lately. And I was wondering if anyone could help me understand what they mean. First dream: I dreamt that my fiance and I moved into an apartment that was in the house that my ex boyfriend lived it. His family and my ex still lived there in the mai... (185 words)

If I impress her will she want more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, please help im getting sad :) I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked the girl i worked with but would never dream of cheating. the girl from work dated a guy from work too but he cheated on her and they... (295 words)

Is he just not into me or shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for a couple of months and we are constantly flirting with each other. We don't really see each other that often because he has a job in a town 2 hours away from where we both live and I don't know when he comes up. I can tell that he is a really nice guy ... (171 words)

I don't want to push him but my life needs to move on also!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age - Well I am back.. Just had dinner with my ex again. His words and his actions have given me every indication he wants us to get back together he did his best at expressing himself which is hard for him. (Sometimes I feel that he never knew the extent of my love for him.) ... (296 words)

Boyfriend is a player but talks about starting a family? Whats wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there....ok I met this guy, realized he is a player, had sex and now we keep it cool, always talking with each other, but knowing that nothing serious will happen. Every time that I am with him, he talks about women, he flits with other women in front of me, etc...It's ... (117 words)

Insecurites over boyfriend watching porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyf looks at porn which in return makes me feel as i am not good enough for him!! i dont no what to do it affects me everyday even when were watching the tele.. and there are some naked girls on there to shopping where he can look at girls.. hes only been on it twice as far ... (79 words)

I'm so alone. Help me fix it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i feel so alone and helpless i feel like im in a world full of aliens and im the only human... how can i stop this i just want someone to love and hold onto someone who can make me happy when im sad and someone i can comfort when they are down. how can i fix this please tell ... (61 words)

My ex asked my best friend out! Was he trying to make me jelious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - please help on this one ok i had a bf then we ended it before school ended about a week after that he asked my best friend out and but it only lasted a week but he knew that i had feelings 4 him was he trying to make me jelious?... (55 words)

We love each other but I feel hes afraid

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When My ex-boyfriend - (who is very emotional in a quiet way) - gets upset he throws himself into extreme work at the office and at home. It is his way of protecting himself when he is upset. I have seen him 4 times in the past 3 weeks and we have talked a few times a week. ... (268 words)

Is she intrested in me or am I being stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a 17 year old boy in college, and I just wondered if anyone could tell me if this girl is interested in me. She does make a lot of glances at me, sometimes she'll do it every second or so for a while. I've seen her do it out of the corner of my eye when she's walked past me. ... (137 words)

Pain in my spine when I masterbate! What is it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a problem when I masturbate. It may seem a bit strange, but everytime I start masturbating, I get a really sharp pain at the top of my spine and the up the back of my head. It will be a dull ache afterwards but it still hurts. Does anyone know what it is, its only ... (60 words)

How do I get out of the house for a trip with my boyfriend parents don't know about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys slight prob and need some help... my boyfriend has booked a 4day trip away from home for me and him to go on togther... the issue is that my parents dont know about him and i cant tell them about him... so i need an excuse to get out of home for these 4 days... plea... (68 words)

Why did I act as such a fool? Have I lost him for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there, I'd like some advice on how to stop feeling like a complete fool and move on after breaking up with my bf of 9 yrs. I'm sorry if this is a bit long, bit here goes... I met him 9 years ago at Uni, fell in love hard and fast, and 2 years later, we moved in togethe... (1146 words)

Why did she lie to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was dating a girl for a while and when we got together she told me she was single, now I come to find out that she would go back and forth between me and her ex boyfriend. We would be pissed about it but she tells me she wants to be with me and we met at the wrong time in our ... (105 words)

Five years and still waiting for the date!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5373 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a dilema... I have been with my fiance now for 5 years and counting. We are currently in a custody battle with his ex over his son and i have tried so hard and worked so hard through all of it for him and with him. I am just not sure that he will actually marry me now ... (191 words)

What is the secret of a successful relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

- Firstly, thank you for taking the time to read. As alot of agony aunts on here are in successful relationships I'd like to pick some minds about this topic. What IS the secret to a successful relationship? I've seen alot of relationships where the female likes the male m... (260 words)

No Sex Nellie: thinking of having a fling!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age - I am 45yr old female married for 16yrs.Is it abnormal for me to still want sex as my husband seems to be incenced if I approach him.I am getting desparate and thinking of having a fling. No Sex Nellie... (39 words)

Who gets more pleasure from sex, men or women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - who has a better oragism men or women and who gets more plessure from masturbating man or women... (18 words)

Should I forgive my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age - After 32 years of reasonably happy marriage, I suspected my husband was messing around with another woman. I asked him what was going on he told me his feelings for me had changed. He had strong feelings for another woman and she felt the same. It turned out to be a work ... (355 words)

Am I right to have pressed charges? And why would he do these things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am taking my ex to court, for fraud theft and dwoc, I am due next week to appear. I was seeing this guy for 6 months, we had a lovely relationship, (so I thought) basically he stole money from my bank account by stealing my card. And taking my car woc, and driving whil... (268 words)

How do I give her that space she needs without stepping aside and going away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i have been together for 5 years. It has taken me the better half to realize that she is the one. I have hurt her and broken her heart more than once by way of, moving to oregon. My son lives there and its hard for me to be away. I realized i have gilted ... (185 words)

Why are guys so stupid, why do they want to be players?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 21 year old girl in college, and I love being single and independent. I was in love with a guy who dumped me after a couple months for not putting out (I'm a virgin) and I don't want to have a boyfriend for a while. I've made out with this hot guy three times this summer, ... (213 words)

Finished with girlfriend but now full of regret!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5373 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently finished with my girlfriend after a second attempt at the relationship, i was having silly niggling doubts and thought it was moving way to fast so i called it a day, however my friends and family all said to me i was way to hasty and should've discussed things with ... (103 words)

Are these guys playing games with me? I don't know who to trust!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - help! two months ago i met a guy X. he grew massively on to me. i considered him as family thats how close we were. we had sex and everything. then he introduced me to his mate Y. i started seein Y cuz X left for holiday to sort out his LDR. X kept ignoring me and was rude ... (119 words)

I had my first blow job but I didnt feel anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm kinda shy here, so this is a BIG step forward for me ^^' Anyway recently I finally got over a self-confidence issue of not allowing anyone to do anything to me, and I received my first ever blowjob! (YAY!) Unfortunatly for me, I couldn't really feel anything =S I... (215 words)

Messy breakup is leaving me out of pocket!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just got dumped badly from my girl after 11 years. I am 29. We purchased an appartment 2 years ago and the home loan is in both our names. Her parents gave us $60000 towards the place when we bought it. She now wants to sell and her lawyers sent me a letter saying when the ... (187 words)

Advice on helping my boyfriend quit smoking.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's 16 and he's been smoking since he was about 13 (bad crowds) and because of how much I am against the idea and the problems it's causing between us he's determind to try and quit with some help. He has tried in the past but not properly, yet due to some issues ... (166 words)

I'm confused and I don't know where to go from here

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started out as FWB with this guy seven years ago, but as you can imagine, we eventually fell in love, and despite the fact that we didn’t want to be in a relationship, we became “exclusive” and things started to seem like we were in one, up to the point of even working ... (469 words)

Why do angel boyfriends turn out to be monster exes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Question to all males: My boyfriend always tells me that he has never met any female who has the kindest, most white heart he has known as me. (I am the only woman he seriously dated) I was always understanding to him, never calls him names, even during fights I always ... (232 words)

How can I help my mum with her depression?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my mum just told me that shes really depressed and she has just gone onto anti deppressants. i dont know what to do. help?... (24 words)

Can you be in love with 2 people at the same time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can you be in love with 2 people at the same time? I am just curious as to what others think about this.... (24 words)

An innocent flirtation, two months of fighting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of two years won't let me go to an old job because she found out I flirted with a customer once. She found out looking through my emails at a message I sent to another friend, in which I told them the full story and even admitted that I wasn't after anything, just ... (133 words)

A girl kissed my boyfriend, is this considered cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just told me that another girl kissed him.it happened 7 weeks ago.he was out and stayed in his friend's house,he went to bed in his friends house.later a girl came into the bed and turned to him and kissed him.she kissed him twice.he was drunk and didn't realise ... (98 words)

The thought of my ex with another guy is bringing me to tears!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - this is gonna sound dead weird but ive split from my ex girlfriend 4 weeks ago and normally i get over relationships in no time but with this one we agreed to be good friends and went out today together with a few others - durin this time she harped on about some guy all the ... (86 words)

My husband doesn't know that I found out about his cheating, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age - My husband tells me he loves me but he has been texting this lady since 2008 up until now. I see the number on the phone bill but he doesn't know I know. What should I do?... (38 words)

What are the signs of emotional abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship question, but I wonder, what are the signs of emotional abuse? I have researched them myself, but I am thinking about a particular situation that I had to deal with at work yesterday. This woman and her son came to my register. He was crying and ... (258 words)

My mum doesn't think that we make a good couple!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was talking to my mum eariler and I asked if she thought me and my boyfriend made a good couple, just for something to say....and she looked abit shifty, and said no, not really. I was kind of shocked - we've been going out for about 10 months, and whilst we do have fig... (294 words)

Does he like me, or just the idea of someone liking him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy who works with my dad that i think is really cute and funny and i think he knows i like him but he never seems interested. Hes normally very shy but recently hes been talking to me on the internet and hes asked for my number and he text's me occasionly but he ... (105 words)

He dosen't want marriage but I do, should I leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does it make any sense to end a great relationship over marriage? We have a great relationship. We have been together for 6 years and have a daughter. When we first started this relationship I asked his views on marrage, and made it very clear that that was what I wanted. I was ... (146 words)

My controlling husband won't except that I don't love him anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I told my husband i don`t love him like i used to,the fact is that i love him but i`m not in love with him.I told him and he don`t accept what i said.We been together for 4 years we have a son 2 years old..i want to end the mariage,he is to controling and tinks that i been ... (172 words)

My BF broke up with me, should I stay and fight or come back later.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend broke up with me after a year of dating. We had a great relationship until the end when things got tense. I started pressuring him to go to the next level and the tension just snow balled. He says he's convinced in his heart and soul that we, in the long run, wi... (162 words)

Does less foreplay equal better orgasms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (?) age 51-59 - My wife and I a wonderful relationship. She normally reached orgasm very quickly. She says that if we have too much foreplay, she loses the ability to have an orgasm or her orgasm is not very intense even with a vibrator. Is this common? I always thought that the longer the ... (73 words)

I like her roommate more, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a small problem that i need some advice on. i date this girl for years and we broke up a few months ago but during the break up i lost all my friends but two and they are dating, so i cant expect them to want to hang out with me all the time, they need alone time ... (246 words)

He was the one for me, maybe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you think it's possible to date someone for a year, decide they are absolutely and never will be the one, be totally, totally certain of it, bet your life on it certain, break up with them based on this certainty, start looking forward to really finding the one, and then ... (83 words)

Why does he keep pushing me away for other girls when we get on so well?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

- I really like this guy who I am friends with but hes not interested in me. Ive twice slept with him in the past but he made it clear he did not want a relationship so I left it at that but I stayed friends with him as we got on so well. Ive noticed that he never has long ... (263 words)

She says that she will not fight for any man, including me. This makes me feel so disposable, insignificant, and unwanted. Am I over-reacting?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - She says that she will not fight for any man, including me. This makes me feel so disposable, insignificant, and unwanted. Am I over-reacting? So here is the history on us: A number of years ago I was engaged to Solange but our egos got the best of us and I left. I was yo... (461 words)

Does anyone know why I bled so heavily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been on the pill of the Microgyn 30 (not sure how you spell it) for 2 packets now. However on both withdrawal bleeds on the placebo break, my 'period' has stopped and then came back after a day. Last night, i was ill and whilst being sick i came back on my period, except it ... (124 words)

Is he messing me about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have known this lad for 10years. We was together for 2years a few years ago. But broke it off because our family's didn't get on and kept on arguing. A few years later and we get talking again. He says he loves me and then whenever he says he will come round he says he has ... (93 words)

If our ages were reversed, would it be such a problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have a big question! Last week end i went to a friendly/family reunion for my friend. There was someone really interesting there. We had good conversations over the fire, some lafing, connecting... he is single and so am i... We fond itch other over facebook th... (236 words)

Should I try a new hospital for possible answers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, just so you know I am from Canada and have had a pregnancy test that was negative I've been feeling really sick for the past two and a half weeks. My symptoms are: nauseous but only in the morning however NOW its starting in the evening as well, dizzy, light headed, my... (239 words)

I used to go and hunt for sex, now I seem to prefer to do it on my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I seem to have lost my libido with other people. I don't really understand it. I am gay, have never had much of a problem having sex with people. Now I just seem to prefer doing it on my own. I used to go and hunt for sex but now I just think that I am too sensitive for the ... (180 words)

14 years with my BF but I don't want sex anymore. Whats my problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't care for having sex with my boyfriend no more. We've been together since I was 15 years old, now 29. I keep having these dreams about him having sex with someone else. I don't like for him to touch me or nothing. I started to go to the doctor to see what's wrong with ... (70 words)

How should I go about showing guys that I'm single and looking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In the past I've had terrible luck with dating . I know I'm only 18, and it takes time.. Blah blah blah. But I've only had 4 boyfriends in my life. All for less then a month. Even counting silly relationships in middle school. Its not that I'm ugly or anything. In fact, I get ... (186 words)

Am I at a healthy weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :D I was wondering if I was a healthy weight. I am a 13 year old girl, 5ft 9 and I weigh about 128 lbs. I play some sport, not very often though, and I eat healthily although all my friends say I am really skinny (I have very skinny legs apparently) Although I have ver... (91 words)

I like him alot, but I find it hard to trust men. Please Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so if your reading this your amazing, and if you reply your a saint. I am lily and i am 16 years old. now i've known this guy named... bob for almost 4 years now.and we were kinda distant friends the whole time. but about a few months ago i started liking him as we became ... (428 words)

He acts oddly, does he like me or Not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Basically i was friends with a guy in my class from college, i really really liked him ad from what he did and the way he acted i think he felt the same. Also i was told by people that he liked me. Because things had got weird, he;d denyed liking me to my friend but then ... (565 words)

Guys - I need hints on talking dirty.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this is for the males out there..well girls can answer too...My hubby wants me to talk dirty to him while we having sex..but im not sure what to say...i mean i know he wants to hear that im loving it and he's going a great job and feels good..but i cant say that all the ... (83 words)

My BF called me his ex-wifes name

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age - I have been seeing a wonderful man for 20 months now and we have had a few problems with his former spouse as they have remained very close friends. However, in the last month he has called me by her name 2 times (not in bed) just while we were out shopping or going to a family ... (101 words)

Does love fade?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does love fade? I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, and it used to be something you would see in the movies. Head over heels in love. But now the magic is gone. I'm almost bored... but I do like to be with him. I dream of better things though. Is it unrealistic to ... (103 words)

Should I say goodbye... or should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In three more days my boyfriend and I are going to be together for one year, we have been living together for about 11 months now and I have a 2 1/2 year old child that is not his. When we first got together we were so happy but here lately there has been a lot of drama, we are ... (114 words)

I am phobic about my girlfriend leaving me... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I am really scared of losing my girlfriend i really really love her this fear is really eating me up and causing it to become a belief it really hurts me... she has given me her word but it really still hurts and im dead scared... Can you please tell on how to get over this fea... (83 words)

Money conflict

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend want to move in together within the next few years. We had started saving, but he lost his job several months ago and has just been working every now and again, not regular work. He still goes out every weekend and is in his overdraft. Meanwhile he has not ... (166 words)

Does it sound like we will have ongoing issues or can we overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I started seeing a man approx 16 months ago. It started off casual neither of us was looking for a relationship. After 5 mths he decided to tell me that he had a girlfriend back in his country (El Salvador) and wanted to come clean with me cause he was starting... (630 words)

What is the easiest way to dump someone you've been with for over two years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the easiest way to dump someone you've been with for over two years? I've tried before but I hate making people feel bad. You have no idea what it does to me. But I have to do it, I'm miserable. I do love him, but it's just not the same anymore. I don't feel loved like ... (137 words)

Is a clitoral orgasm easy to experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and have a partner. I have had one clitoral orgasm with a vibrator but never with my partner. I'm kinda scared to have another one, will it get easier to experience... a clitoral orgasm? Also, I'm not sure if I have had a gspot orgasm, the other night I ex... (126 words)

My sexuality...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I like women but for some reason I only get an erection if I think about men, am I gay? Also I had sex 16 times with my brother's friend, it's sooo... but the thing is I need your help, please I beg you, I need help with my sexual contentment. love michael x... (67 words)

Poop problem!

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I haven't done anything different as far as I know but whenever I go to the toilet for a poop my anus tears a little on the outside and a littl bit of blood is produced and it's quite painful. Anyone have any idea what could be the cause of this? Could it be from ... (58 words)

He doesn't believe I would NEVER cheat on him. How can I prove this to him?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been a relationship for 5 years now. We've been through a lot together. I stay at his house almost every day even though I have my own place. A few days ago I received a call from a male friend I did not answer. My boyfriend's friend made a comment. "Oooooh why are you ... (141 words)

Did my husband REALLY mean what he said???

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok now im confused. My husband and I had a fight last night and he pretty much told me the only reason he's staying with me is because it's cheaper to keep me than divorce and pay child support on 3 kids. Then later he tries to apologize and says he is happy with me and that ... (72 words)

She broke my heart before, and now she seems to be acting the same way again!

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, basically, i really like this girl, i have liked her for about a year, and we acted like a relationship. (we went out together kissed had sex blah blah blah) but it wasn't official, and when i asked her about being together she kept saying i need time to think. after a ... (556 words)

We want to have sex with another couple, is it fair to go ahead without the other husbands permission?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i am 35 years old married person and my wife is 29 years beautiful and charming lady. actually we both like sex very much and we have sex almost daily. now we are feeling to change some the partner for sex not permanent just for change only. we both are agree to have sex with ... (169 words)

How slow is too slow?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex is giving me every indication that he wants to get back together even talking about why we split up...even to the point of saying people don't agree on everything. However he seems to be taking things very slowly. He is very emotional and was hurt and he way of ... (147 words)

The aloof man

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really in a confused state of mind. I feel loved starved, and desperate because I have strong feelings for someone, and I know that I am an important person in their life. However, we went through tough times. We met each other in 2007, had a long distance relatio... (1003 words)

Should I go to Sydney to visit my online lover or forget about him completely?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need some advice regarding a long distance male I have had contact with for the last 6 months. He lives in Sydney. I live in Perth. To cut a long story short when I found him on Oasis I was quite vulnerable and hadn't been long out of a 3 year abusive relationshi... (1586 words)

I don't know how to handle my wife!

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife abuses me pysicologically and every so often phisically, she has had a bad up bringing eg rape, abandonment,irrashional behaviour and thoughts. she has an iq of 138 and uses this against me, she has an alcohol problem also, we have very big blow ups and i try my hardest ... (340 words)

I don't feel like an important part of his life!

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm feeling so confused and lost right now. I am 19 and my boyfriend is 36. I'll be going to uni soon and he is a tutor. Recently we have not been spending much time together as he says he needs to do work. Fine, I'm trying to be understanding. Yet...he simpl... (318 words)

This fight has been going on for 3 days now, what should I do?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Im in a fight with my girlfriend for three days now. It started with something minor, She was rude and I told her that hurt me, but then she started accusing me of manipulating behaviour in our fights. She claims that im trying to make her feel bad about herself. S... (290 words)

I still have feelings for my ex but I don't want to ruin things with his fiancee!

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im really confused at the moment. i have just got in contact with my ex and we have started talking. he has told me that he is engaged and is going to be a dad soon but that he still loves me. i still have the same feelings for him but i don't want to ruin things with his ... (64 words)

I'm so confused by this girl, I need advice!

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Girls... OK, Let me give you a brief understanding of my background in dating. Im 14, 15 in a few days and I have never been on a date, Never asked a girl out and now im interested in them, they are very confusing. So, I have no experience yet all of a sudden there's 2... (209 words)

Its my 21st and I should be able to celebrate the way I want, but my friends have other ideas!

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been best friends with these 3 girls for over 10 years. This is year is my 21st and we agreed that we would go away to Brighton one weekend to celebrate it. As I have many different groups of friends, I have also organised a weekend away with another group of friends to ... (290 words)

I initiated things but now I want to back out! How do I tell her?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, there's this girl that I've known for about a year now. I've had feelings for her but she didn't know so we were just friends. Recently, I asked her out on a date and she said 'yes' and I thought everything was gonna be perfect. But I realised on the date that we're not ... (78 words)

Problems with sex in our relationship....we're only in our 20's!

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years but we aren't having sex anymore. We have probably had sex 5 times this year. We're both in our 20's so libido isn't the problem! He complains I am not horny enough- this may be because of the pill? but I still get turned on all ... (172 words)

Struggling to have sex for the first time!

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I'm 24, still a virgin and have found the love of my life. We're getting engaged soon and I really would like to have sex. I have not had intercourse before because I'm afraid of the pain. We have tried before but it feels too weird and i feel very sensitive at the ... (212 words)

Can you make a mistake when it comes to thinking whether they are "the one?"

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Have you ever been in a relationship, thought there was no way this person is the one, broke up and later realized they were the one and wanted to go back?... (31 words)

Should I forget him or give him a second chance if he comes back to me?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this boy last year for about a week but then I ended it because I didn't want my heart broken. I still had feelings for him...we didn't talk for a couple of months.. then he started going out with this girl and I kind of got jealous... I was not talking to him ... (589 words)

Do I just let him go and forget him, or do I keep trying to make this work?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend or try and make it work? I am 22 and have been with my boyfriend nearly 4 years (he is 25.) We are mostly happy but have broken up a few times, and have had periods of intense arguing and violence. However we usually get on ... (516 words)

We need a flat from the housing association, are there age restrictions?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, Me and my partner are expecting a baby in April and basically we can not stay at my parents place or her's. Simple question because I'm not too sure. What age have you got to be to have a single flat for the housing association?... (57 words)

How do I make him stop playing with my heart?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf and i broke up a few months ago becouse he wasnt giving his all and i was..plus i found text messages to other chicks in his phone....he denyed having sex with them but couldnt deny the fact he was doin wrong...so i broke up with him but recently we have been having sex ... (162 words)

I don't know who to breakup with because I love them both!

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i love 2 boys and they love me too. ive been going out with one of them for three months me and him dont get along, he says he loves me but i dont think so and the other one its been 5 weeks. the first one i went out with his brother cousin and his cousins brother i dont know ... (114 words)

Should I be worried about the size of my penis?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok well this is not a lie i am 14 and my dick is 9.4 or 9.5...is that to big it is kinda scaring me i went to sleep and woke up and it grew from like 7.8 or 9.5 is that normal should i see a doctor about this or wat... (52 words)

Is it unrealistic for a husband to get turned on by his wife after having kids?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I wrong to refuse sex to my husband when he uses porn to get aroused. Im simply hate the thought of him getting all excited by the bodies of other women (he likes penthouse glamour type images of women) and then using me as some type of masterbatory device to relive himself ... (130 words)

Am I stupid for letting a few more old texts ruin my marriage?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age - Hi everyone, Things have taken a huge turn for the worse. We seemed to have smoothed things out I was looking forward to out 32nd anniversary tomorrow and holiday next week. Anyway, my husband had to put his sim in his old phone as his other is on the blink and didn't rea... (450 words)

Am I being paranoid about my boyfriend's ex or am I right to be concerned?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend (ive been with for almost a year) almost constantly talks about his ex... who is for the record: by far prettier than me... and nicer... even tho i lost my v-card to him, and he lost his to me (for the record: i dont want a relationship based only on sex)... im ... (132 words)

My GF was sexually abused and now has no interest in sex

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i'm 22yrs old. Me and my girl friend(21) were in love for the past 3years.And I just want to get into a sexual relationship with her, the worst part is that her uncle tried to sexually abuse her when she was 17. so she is not much interested in sex but only likes to kiss. N... (92 words)

My BF suddenly told me he was done. I still love him

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today my boyfriend came over. We were both really happy to see each other. I caught him staring and just dazing off. I didn't mind until he did it while i was talking. I knew something was wrong but he didn't want to tell me. He kept saying he was ok and everything was fine. ... (173 words)

I'm pregnant and unsure which path to take

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old and I recently just found out I was pregnant. I had all the period symptoms but it just never came so I took a home pregnancy test and it came out positive. It was devastating, I remained calm and tried not to panic. I told my family today, but my boyfriend... (227 words)

I think I have some anger issues

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay well i am 13. i been told i need to chill and that i have anger issues.. i dont get mad easily but sometimes the simplest things you say would make me want to punch you in the face.. i was in my room and i was feeling perfectly normal and my mom came in to talk to me... (238 words)

He accuses me of cheating and is suspicious of my questions

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a small problem. My husband and I are having some issues. I consider them major issues, but in the scheme of things, they probably aren't. I'm new to this whole marriage thing. This is my first marriage and his third. He's the first serious relationship I've ever been ... (250 words)

Just married and hardly having sex

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, This is a very long post, sorry about that. I have been with my partner (now husband) for almost 10 years and we have had our share of ups and downs. However we have finally decided to spend the rest of our lives together. Before marriage (not even 1 year yet), we were sav... (801 words)

My BF thinks I'm losing interest cause he never receives my texts

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My man for seven years is all of a sudden tripping because he thinks I've been losing focus on our relationship which I'm not he's just mad because every time I send a txt he never receives it but I have proof but he thinks I'm lying what should I do?... (51 words)

Should I talk to my ex GF to break the tension?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Short Scenario Schhol - I use to date this girl for 3 and a half years. We broke up and it remains unsolved. After few weeks we ended up being really close, nothing sexual but there was tension between us and started to see some other guy. 2-3 months later they started to ... (158 words)

My flirting has given a few guys the wrong impression, what do to?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For various reasons, right now I'm very happy being single and dating here and there. But it turns out that me having a boyfriend is the only thing stopping a lot of guys I know from letting their imaginations run wild. As a few of my girlfriends put it a few years ago: I flirt ... (165 words)

Should I keep my options open with online dating?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have tried online dating before and on one occasion thought things were going really well with one guy (we had met and been on a number of dates) so I stopped contact with all the others I was emailing. It didn’t work out with the guy I was seeing and so I lost out on all the ... (232 words)

Dating again after ending a relationship

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years two days ago. He had been extremely controlling and our relationship was very rocky. I was at the point where I had completely changed for him and could not even be myself around him because he would always criticize me, ... (367 words)

I never see my BF and now my ex is back on the scene

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have no idea if anyone can help me but alright.. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost eight months. and i lived in rochester before i met him, then i moved to my dads, and then we started dating, but then like about 2 months or so i had to move back to rocheste... (279 words)

Is my bf feeling guilty because he left his wife? Does he still love her?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in avery loving relationship with a wonderful man. He has three young girls (ages 8and 11,8 year old twins),whom I get along with very well.The only problem is the ex wife (thier mother),ho is very controlling ,vicious and jealous.She blames me for breaking the family up ... (309 words)

I still love her..but does she love me?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i am in a separation with my wife we have 2 kids ,one she had with another guy before me but i have been there since her birth. i love them and i still love her. we have broke up before and in a matter a days she has found someone to date. one of the times, she moved a the ... (378 words)

I'm 16 and pregnant..my mom doesn't deserve this big disappointment from me..should I tell her?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very difficult situation...2 months ago my mom finally accepted my boyfriend. I love him. and i;m so sure he's it. I'm 16 years old. My birthday is in two weeks...Anyway it was difficult to get him accepted because I'm the only girl and the youngest in my family...I'm ... (175 words)

Seeing the ex again, just brought back all of my feelings for him...any advice?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age - We parted on my part bad terms(I felted he was dishonest to me and I think he couldn`t handle his feelings for me)I seen him for the first time in 5 months should I just leave will enough alone? I really liked him. I don`t think he will every get in touch with for the way it ... (97 words)

How do I overcome my Arachnophobia...help!

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,this isnt really the kind of questions you ask on this site but i was wondering if anyone could tell me how to overcome my Arachnophobia. Its terrible, when i see a spider i cry, scream and take panic attacks. Im terrified when im in the house myself incase i see one, i h... (110 words)

Is this avoiding commitment a phase or something more permanent?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My love life seems to be drifting right now. I'm not sure what I want and when anyone tries to get too close, I back off. I'm wondering if this is just a phase... I seem to just want some positive attention from at least a few guys at a time right now, but nothing serious. I ... (180 words)

What is she thinking? What am I thinking?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I didn't think I would ever end up online asking people about relationship advice, but I can't think clearly anymore so help me out. I've got this pseudo friend whom I have taken to the prom and still hang out on a weekly basis with couple other friends. Thing is, we neve... (621 words)

Am I wasting my time waiting for him?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I like this guy named brian simmons and he's nineteen years old now, and I'm gonna sixteen in october. I've liked him since I was eleven years old and he was just fifteen. I've sat back and watched him go in and out of relationships for the past few years and he's been in ... (116 words)

I don't understand what's going on with us now. Help!

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29 July 2009 (M)

age - Hi, I am a 27 year old male and madly in love with 28+ years old dreamgirl of mine. She really was my dream girl..beautiful...Infact she is divorced and i am never married...she was very depressed when going through this and i was her new friend..she used to tell me about ho... (376 words)

I think I'm pregnant...help!

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i recently just graduated from highschool. I think i might be pregnant but im not sure. Back in novemeber and december i was pregnant but i ended up having a misscarage. And the last time i tested positive when i took a home pregnancy test. My period ussualy comes right on ... (154 words)

Does this make me look desperate?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing this guy for a couple of months until a couple of weeks ago when he stopped calling. I sent him a text a few days later, he replied, I replied and that was it until just now when he called me and asked me to come to lunch with him and some friends today and said he ... (123 words)

Is it weird that I've never had a boyfriend before?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey so this is kinda embarassing but here goes i an 16 and never had a boyfriend or a proper kiss. i wouldnt say i am pretty or thin could this be the reason ? all my friends have had boyfriends and it makes me feel bad because i feel so stupid it kinda gets me down am i weerd ... (61 words)

Is he just curious or does he still have feelings for me?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, im gay and i need help, my boyfriend and I broke up some time ago, almost one month, we ended up in bad terms, i have a lot of feelings for him, im still in love even though he really hurt my feelings, i just cant stop thinking about him, once I had a big fight with him her ... (240 words)

Maybe we focused too heavily on the relationship and not our friendship? What should I do?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a friend of mine. We are so close it's unreal, and she told me she liked me. I fell in love with her, and we went out for a month. But then- Recently, she said she just was unhappy, she preferred it when we were friends, and she broke up with me after thinking t... (279 words)

What is acceptable when it comes to your husband looking at other women?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering what's okay when it comes to your husband looking at other women. I don't mind my husband looking, but I absolutely hate it when he stares (and he ALWAYS stares). I know men will always look, heck, even I look once in awhile, but do you have to put up with him ... (144 words)

Do any of you ladies have trouble with two or more orgasms in one day?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ladies, I was just wondering. Do you have more trouble achieving an orgasm if you've already had one that day? Say you have one in the early afternoon, then try again at night. Just wondering. Thanks!... (37 words)

She ignores me all the time. What can I do?

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29 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, i have a problem, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 months now, and well... I'm just not happy, she is a year younger than me and a virgin, although i do not want a sexual relationship with her i just know she may be intimidated by me not being a ... (211 words)

I was molested and nobody believes me. How do I make them see?

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29 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was molested by my step dad @ the age of 4-12 when i said something to my mom she dint beleave me i was 15 when i finally said something. I was put in a foster home right away, my mom dint want to look @ me. I was to testify but befor that he died of his kidney bursting. i ... (180 words)