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Smitten... after only one week! Should I tell her?

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20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - I think i have developed feelings for this girl after only one week. we met at the park and started talking. We are into the exact same things we have both had the same problems in our life so we understand each other. So should i inform her on my feelings?... (51 words

The pill is turning me into a monster!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - heres the thing i started the pill in feburary of this year... the first moonth was hectic with my emoitions always moody always crying etc etc and after a month or two i calmed down the thing is me an my boyfrined have had sum problems hes cheated on me a few times an iv go... (317 words

Opinions please. Why won't he have sex with me?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up over a week ago. We're still attracted to each other - obviously and our break up had no real reason/ I think he just felt overly stressed w/ everything his life but neither of us were happy bout the breakup. We've been talking this whole time *friendly ... (234 words

I like him but he smells...

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20 July 2009 (? age 30-35 - i kind of like this guy and i know for a fact that he likes me as he was over at my house over the weekend. he was talking to me and before i left to go to someone else's house, he wanted to know if i wanted his number so we could hang out sometime if i wanted to. i told him ... (273 words

What is the best position when you have sex for the first time?

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20 July 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am 13 and im having sex for my first time in a couple of weeks because my boyfriends parents are on holiday and he said i could come round for a couple of nights if i wanted to ... i said yes ... he later asked me if i was ready for sex and i knew i have been for ages since ... (89 words

I'm no longer interested in sex and I'm scared it will ruin our relationship.

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and we've been living together for almost 2 months. I love him very much, and we get along great. I really believe that he might even be the one I spend the rest of my life with... except for one problem. I'm no longer ... (340 words

Does the priest like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok so i think our parish priest likes me, idk what to do! every time i turn to look in his general location he always turns his head fast! help me i don't know whether to talk with him about it or not. we have a 3 1/2 hour car ride coming up to a retreat center in P.A. and ... (137 words

Down with shaving!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've got this problem, since last year I've been getting an ingrown hair on my vagina area. I went to the doctor when I first got them and she said that all I can do is exfoliate and there's no treatment unless for severe cases you get surgery so I started exfoliating an it ... (164 words

I love my boyfriend very much but I keep dreaming about his friend. Is this normal?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - Is it normal to have other guys in my dreams? I've been going out with my current boyfriend for a few months and I really care about him. But he lives with his best friend, so the three of us hang out a lot. Last night I had a dream that his friend and I were kind of messing ... (88 words

My boyfriend has a lump on his penis and won't go to get it checked. Help!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I know this isn't anything to do with relationships, but I'm worried for my boyfriend, he had a little lump on his penis and you can move it around and he won't get it seen to which really annoys me, he thinks it might be cancer and won't get it checked beacuse he'd rather ... (67 words

His use of porn is now affecting our relationship.

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20 July 2009 (M age 36-40 - I'm 24 and my boyfriend's 28, and his usage of porn has began affecting our relationship. Even worse, it was pictures of scantily-clad women in magazines like FHM, Maxim etc. - and it's made me question whether our relationship has a future. I found them when cleaning our... (222 words

Should I have sex with my best friend?

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20 July 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am 13 and my best friend (he's a boy) tells me everything... the other day he said to me he thinks he is ready for sex... i said i think i am too... later on he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him and he wants it to be with some he trusts since its his first time.... i ... (94 words

Should I wait for him to text me or what?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what to do with myself. I just wait for him to text me because we haven't talked since thursday night. He knows that I like him and he showed all the signs that he was into me too. We've been on and off talking for about 2 years now. But this time I know for a fact ... (126 words

Should I take Antidepressants?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - I believe myself to be a strong person and can deal with alot but i think it is this very mentality that has proved to be my downfall! The last few years i have coped with a lot from my grandmother's death to a miscarrige i told nobody about and i think along with too m... (185 words

How can I stop my boyfriend taking things too far?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am 13 and have a boy friend who is 15 ..... we have been together for 5 months and i really trust him .. a couple of nights ago we were kissing on the sofa and then he put his hands down the front of my pants ... i said not yet and he stopped ... and i felt really horrible ... (88 words

Help please! Getting mentally and physically ready for sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and me have been going out for a couple months, and we have talked many times on what we both have done in the past. Surprisingly were both still virgins and were both 16, and we both have gone up to oral sex. The thing is like i feel positive on my physical ... (252 words

What are these bumps on my vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 26-29 - My name is Melina and i have this problem. This isn't a problem that has to do with relationships or anything like that, this is a physical problem. I have these little white bumps on the outside and the inside of my vagina, and my vagina lips are turning red, it kind of looks ... (136 words

Stomach pains... should I be concerned?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hello, i was just chatting with my bf the other day about babies and what we would do .. and i got this awful pain in my stomach like my body was telling me something.. i dont think im pregnant as im on the pill, we do have sex on my pill free week but we are not sure if im st... (94 words

Help me unravel her intentions!

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20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I got out of a 3 year relationship about 2 months ago and have been doing fine being single, recently I came across a really cute girl and we hung out together twice, both times with a bunch of my friends. We have a fair bit in common and we have planned to hang out agai... (304 words

Internet chat room problems...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

20 July 2009 (M age 41-50 - If your partner has had the habit of going into internet chatrooms for say 3 years. Always denying it knowing that you know, telephone numbers found, conversations seen what said want a naughty pic, asked if they liked. Texting guys and giving phone number. Panic when phone ... (151 words

Is it normal practise to tell your boyfriend every time you go out?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - i have a question about relationships in general . i'm in a relationship and it is my first committed one so this might sound dumb. Is it -normal- to call your other half when you're for example going out to tell them? cause my bf is always why didn't you tell me beforehand! ... (78 words

Would you consider a woman who had casual sex with 5 guys in 6 months extreme behaviour?

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20 July 2009 (M age 41-50 - Would you consider a woman who had casual sex with 5 guys (all college friends) in 6 months extreme behavior or par for the course for a gal getting over a stale relationship? Before this stage she had only been with one guy for two years.(19-22 yrs old) The last one of the 5 ... (108 words

Does he want something more than a booty-call arrangement?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been with a guy for the past 15 months and have recently (for the past 2 months or so) been a bit confused by his behavior. I should also mention that I am moving away in approximately a month, so this might be a factor. We are not in a relationship, under the ... (375 words

Am I pregnant... or just paranoid?

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20 July 2009 (F age 26-29 - Heyaa (: im 13 yearss old (14 in august). I was at a kind of party thing which was my best mates.. there was a lot of alcohol and a lot of people got pissed. When it came to night time, the people that stayed the night slept in tents (this includes me) the tent i stayed in... (304 words

I've got this great guy, but all I think about is my ex!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid i need your help. im nowhere near over my ex, "robert", and we were on and off for almost two years and inseperable bestfriends for two years before we decided to turn romantic. i love him with everything i have and i mean truly madly deeply obsessively from the ... (362 words

I don't want to seem psycho by texting too much, but I really like her!

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20 July 2009 (M age 36-40 - So i saw this girl at my job i haven't seen in about four years. We had a thing in high school and i really liked her. And vice versa. We talked awhile and i ended getting her number. We text each other and she told me she still liked me. How she wanted to kiss me. I popped the ... (152 words

We apparently act like a couple, but we've been broken up for 6 months!

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - Well this is a bit of a long story but if you like essays then here it goes! My ex-boyfriend and I were great together and everyone used to say how cute we were together, i thought everything was fine until one day..totally out of the blue he told me he 'wasn't sure he ... (332 words

Does it hurt to get fingered?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend wants so finger me but im still a virgin and ive never used a tampon, so im affraid its goin to hurt, can anyone help me please?... (30 words

I read his emails and I think he will cheat! Why do men cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - hi my boyfriend cheated on me during the first year we were together, i stayed around and convinced myself that we all make mistakes, but, i also found out his password to his email account, and since then i have occasionally had a look about and each time felt reassured that ... (342 words

I'm consumed by jealousy that my old boyfriend has married! Help me!

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - really need some help i have tried to get help for this and my friends have been great listening to me but i still am in despair. i have recently finished a relationship with a guy which lasted 5 years. the last 4 were awful-i shudder no when i think why i stayed so lon... (294 words

I really like this guy. Only he's 20 and I'm 25!

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - I really like this guy. The thing is, i am 25 and he is 20. I'm not sure whether he fancies me or only likes me as a friend. he does ask me to meet up with him alot though,and once he put " you'll have to meet me soon coz i want to see you again ", in a text message,and at ... (261 words

I want to end this relationship with a married man, but don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - I'm been seeing this married man about a year now. I just don't understand how he can sleep with me and then turn around and sleep with her. i think the best thing is to stop this relationship but not sure how. Does anyone have any advice? ... (51 words

What are the steps to dissolving a marriage?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - What are the steps to dissolving a marriage? Me and my husband have been in counseling, and the only thing that I have learned is I want out. I am stay at home mom with two children (ages 1 and 5). I am also a full time student. I don’t know how I’m going to support me and ... (195 words

I need a bit of a breather but don't want him to think I don't care!

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 3 months and probably been officially together for about a month if that. Last week I had some holiday from work and I ended up meeting his family. Everything was perfect and we acknowledged to each other that our feelings were ... (162 words

When an ex is jealous does that mean he wants you back?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - when my ex saw me with a new boyfriend he became jeaous. After some weeks he texted measking if I have a boyfriend now. Does it mean that he still likes me?When an ex is jealous does it mean that he still likes me and want me back? ... (48 words

What was your technique in forgetting about your ex? How were you able to do it?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - Please give me some effective ways to forget an ex? I have tried everything from listing down the bad things and the reasons why I have to move on. I also tried saving an SMS on my phone reminding me that past is past and there's nothing I can do about it anymore. That if... (167 words

What is he thinking? Why does he still talk to me but makes no plans with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 51-59 - I am not here to ask if cheating on my spouse is wrong because I know it is...so that said, I am confused about the way the "other man" is feeling. We have known each other for almost a year. I felt the attraction between us almost from the start, but we developed a friendship ... (360 words

I know this is a relationship cul-de-sac, but it's so exciting. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am currently in a realationship with my boyfriend of three months,although this seems like a short period of time to be serious,he has introduced me to all his family and friends and there is a very strong bond there.However,he is leaving in two months time to go back to la, ... (567 words

She doesn't know I'm gay but feels I'm impotent. Help me solve this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

20 July 2009 (M age 51-59 - i am gay but got married to a female. now i am having problem with sex with her as i do get erection, she does not know that am gay but feels that i am impotent. plz solve my problem.... (40 words

My girlfriend has a past which I find hard to deal with, any help will be great.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - hello im 15 in a great relationship with a girl my age , shes a lovely person and beautifully looking but it hurts me sometimes when i think of her past because she has slept around and sent dirty pictures to alot of my friends, i wan to get over her past but its hard , and ... (92 words

Sexual tension and some insecurity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

20 July 2009 (M age 41-50 - I'll first give you the basics. I'm 28 and he is 21. We're affectionate and compatible and both a pair of good looking men. We're both hard working and put a lot of work into our house. We appreciate art, music and gardening (growing our own food). He is a touch on the ... (596 words

Help me decipher my exhusband's motives!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - Why does my ex husband text me then ignore me the next. He has a girlfriend and says he loves her, but meets me to talk. He told me the other day the have issues they might not be able to work out. He also told me not to text and he has my number if he needs me. [Mod note: the ... (87 words

Am I bi? I am very close to this girl. My boyfriend knows and says I can't dump him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - I met this girl in one of my classes PE to be spacific and were realy good friends. Except i think she like me and im not all inocent either. I like her to. Shes so nice and she cares about me. She hugs me all the time and kisses my cheek and forhead, and sometimes on the ... (244 words

I broke up with her because my friends said I should. Now I want her back but she said no!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

20 July 2009 (M age 26-29 - there was this girl lets say she is called j and we went out and we really liked each other and it was great until people started making fun of me because j isnt the prettiest and i ignored them but then my own friends said they will fall out with me unless i break up with j! ... (210 words

I want to live as a happy family but I'm finding it very hard to keep pretending.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 July 2009 (M age 51-59 - I'm a 35y man living with my younger partner and over the last year or so I've realised that I'm not in love with her anymore although I know she thinks the world of me. We were only together a couple of weeks when she fell pregnant and we now have a beautiful 2 year old ... (162 words

I'm quiet and hurt, I'm losing my best friend to another co-worker!

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - sorry this is long, need advice Ive been a quieter person all my life and have always only had a very small group of friends, none of who I have ever thought of as a best friend, they are just friend who i see occasioanlly, not friends who i could call if i was sick or sad ... (383 words

I'm not having much luck getting a girlfriend

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20 July 2009 (M age 26-29 - I am in 8th grade at the moment and am not having much luck with a getting a girlfriend yet. I always try to be nice to girls and when in a relationship to be very sensitive to them and listen to them yet I still have no luck because all the girls seem to want to go out with ... (108 words

Why do I have constant nightmares?

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20 July 2009 (M age 26-29 - I'm a thirteen year old guy and I'm starting to get scared because I never have dreams I only have nightmares I usually have a really long nightmare every night and I'm starting to get scared can anyone tell me why I am having constant nightmares??... (46 words

Afraid if I say 'I love you' he'll be scared away!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay so me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and I just feel like I'm falling head over heels for him, I think I love him. The problem is, I don't know how to say you know I love you. I'm never the one to make the first move or anything so I'm afraid if I say I love ... (77 words

We didnt use a condom, could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - hey, Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom about 2 weeks ago, I know we should have used a one we normally always do, it was just a spur of the moment thing. He didn't cum inside me but I'm worried I might be pregnant but I haven't had any signs yet, can I still be pregn... (76 words

How to get him to initiate sex more often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hi, My bf and I have been living together for 10 months and were going out for 5 months before that. Since Jan he has had limited interest in sex and this only occurs when I initiate. He has given various reasons for this, more recently saying that he has trust issues and... (134 words

I can't get any girls to notice me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

20 July 2009 (M age 26-29 - hi I'm a 14 year old male and I have a problem. I can't get any girls to notice me. every where I go even in my neighborhood there are pretty girls(even at church). I don't know how to act or approach them. that's why I can't ever get girlfriends. 1 reason I think I can't get ... (80 words

Is my husband THAT unhappy?

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - here's my situation ive been trying to stay with my husband after the last screw up (internet cheating) but lately he doesnt want to cuddle snuggle we dont even have our almost daily quickies anymore ok so we have a 17 month old son so we have had to stop those because ... (185 words

Do you think I should get back with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 26-29 - i dated this guy for 2 weeks which is a very short amount of time. B4 we got together, we would always talk and all that. and he was sooo sweet and nice to me. on our first date i could definitely tell that he liked me alot! he definitely showed it with his actions and words. ... (272 words

Should I set up a bogus mail account and see if my husband takes the bait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age - Further to my earlier post I have been thinking about this........ I have set up a hotmail account using my husband's texting colleague's email address but with a very slight alteration it would be hard to spot. I have used her name for the name of the account written exactly ... (193 words

How can I make him trust me and not feel the need to get one up on me?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been talking again and it has become clear that we have trust issues. we both seem to be playing games with each other even though we dont intend to. we are both trying to make each other jealous by getting in with other people, which is putting a strain on ... (81 words

She's way too pretty for me but I like her!

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20 July 2009 (M age 26-29 - last night i went to the cinema with my friends and and there was this girl who went with us and i ended up stareing at her more than the movie. i think that this girl is way to pretty to go out with me but i still like her has anyone got any ideas on what i should do?... (60 words

My nasty neighbour is making my life miserable!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - ok guys heres my problem . i have had a troubled life and having some mental health disoders does not help (ADHD ect) . its just lucky i have a lovely family who i can talk to . My problem is a nasty neighbour . it all began many years ago (when i was a young bo... (679 words

My new boyfriend wants to meet my ex! I'm very nervous about this...

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - So, my boyfriend of about 15 months wants to meet my ex-boyfriend. I dated the ex for 8 years and we have a 6 year old together. The ex-boyfriend caused some major drama in the begining of the relationship which I did "sugar-coat" some things....... which all came out in the ... (111 words

Is it true for some people that you don't remember your dreams upon waking?

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20 July 2009 (F age - Is it true for some people that you don't remember your dreams upon waking? I wake up and remember quite a bit of what I have dreamt that night, and I thought that was quite normal, but many family members tell me that they never dream (or simply don't remember them). ... (161 words

I need the affection he doesn't give anymore!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - i'm really confused about my relationship at the moment and would just like advice on what i should do i've been with my boyfriend for 5 years on and off. currently we've been together for two years ina row but it's changed in some ways. he doesn't talk as much as he used ... (114 words

I want to renew my wedding vows to my husband, but he disagrees! What can I do?

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married a little over three years. About 8 months ago, we hit a really bad patch and seperated for about 6 months. Now we are together and working things out and things have been going really well. There is a point of contention. I want to do a vow re... (218 words

My bf says it's wrong for me to remain nice to people I dislike. Is he right?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - i'm normally a really nice person, and people know me for this. even if its someone i genuinely dislike for something she did to me in the past etc i am not mean to her, and i remain polite if she strikes a conversation with me. sometimes i tend to tell lies to these types of ... (205 words

Due to college, we are breaking up in late August! What are some other options so we don't have to do this?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've known my boyfriend for a full year but have gotten serious since march. I'm 19 years old ( going to be my 2nd year on college) and he's 26 with a stable job ( has his life straight for the most part).since march, we've been doing a long distance relationship where we would ... (585 words

Is there an instrument that detects infidelity?

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - if i have sex with another man will my husband know? i hear there is an instrument which detects that on this date you had sex with another man is it true? please assist?... (34 words

He cheated on me and then dumped me. I love him--should I wait for him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi my name is ashleigh and im 15 years old. ive been going out with this kid who is also 15 years old for one and a half years. He recently cheated on me and told me straight up that he did, he hooked up with another girl. i respect that he told me right away but i never ever ... (427 words

Do I stick it out with the current bf or give the new Welsh guy a try?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm feeling very confused at the moment. I have had a very on and off relationship with my current boyfriend for just over three years now. I have recently moved to Wales and he's still in the Midlands and we have found the long distance thing hard. Possibly becuase of this ... (216 words

He says we're friends, but he doesn't want to talk to me very much! What's up with this guy?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm hoping some of you out there can help me because im really not sure not to do! We you see i've been friends with this guy for 2 years now, we were at college together. The thing is we've always seemed to have som sort of communication problem. Not to sure why tbh. When we ... (702 words

I still love him and I really don't want to anymore!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hello, i am an 17 year old and newly single. My ex relationship was huge. He was my bestfriend and a great person everyone loved that he took care of me and loved me. I am sick and tired of thinking I did something wrong. He and i got into a fight and he wanted a break. For how ... (119 words

My life was so stressed, I wasnt ready for him then...I think I am now but not sure if he feels the same.

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have had so much emotional trauma in my life for the past 2 years, father died, step father died , best friend died, mother fell, in coma in another state, had to leave work for six months, me being sick for 3 months, EX b/f who was not there for me who was a sevee alcholic ... (383 words

Is friends with benefits more emotional than a relationship?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - Friends with benefits people say its less emotional but surely its more? because if you've been friends with them for some time then you would care for them a lot, probably more than a new boyfriend so if you lose them then not only do you lose your friend but that spark yo... (92 words

What does being someones pigeon mean?

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20 July 2009 (F age - Would like to know what this phrase means. What does being someone's "pigeon" mean?... (17 words

Should I change my number, or am I overreacting?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - Okay, so I starting seeing this guy about a month ago and we used to date about 3 years ago and I left him because I found out he was talking to another girl. I just had a baby about 5 months ago and really was hurt by my child's father and haven't really talked to anyone ... (696 words

I like another man, but I feel I should be working on what's missing in my relationship. I don't know what to do!

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 11 years. I always thought that we were happy until 3 years ago when I met a man who made my stomach flip and made me realise that things were missing in our relationship. We were just friends but I looked forward to seeing him. I decided to ... (364 words

Is it true that men will have sex with any female who is willing?

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - Is it true that men can have sex with any female. If female is willing and approaching them , they never say no. Even if they love their partner, but for sex they everready for any female. Male readers plz answer this question... (43 words

I'm pregnant...but who is the father??

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20 July 2009 (? age 30-35 - i am 10wks and 6days pregnant, i broke up with my boyfriend on the 15th may 2009 but we continued sleeping together unprotected, however, on the 21st may 2009 i slept with another guy, i used a condom and no splits or tears were noticable but i am worried, i have got back with ... (68 words

I really like him but I'm getting mixed signals. I need tips to help me be strong!

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi can you please help I started seeing this really hot guy who lived in the apartment block next to me. He has given a lot of attention, which really is very flattering as His type would be out of my league. Even though he lived in the next apartment block to me we can see ... (358 words

My family want to meet my boyfriend, but I'm scared of what they'll think of him!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - my mum and dad and the rest of my family really want to meet my boyfriend i am very scared of what they will think of him what do i do ?? do you think i should invite him round and let him meet evry1 or not ? x... (50 words

I broke up with my boyfriend of four years a month ago...is it bad I'm dating again already?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - I Broke up with my serious boyfriend of 4 years a month ago....is it bad im dating already? Only been on one date but have another this weekend.......i still think about my ex but know it was the right thing to do as i was looking else were and thinking of being with other guys ... (59 words

My dad won't let me and my boyfriend sleep in the same bed, and he keeps checking on us! What can I do?

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20 July 2009 (F age - I am 19, my boyfriend is 19, we have been together for 5 years. the problem is: My dad wont allow us to sleep together in the same bed! i have been respectful towards my dad for years always going to sleep on the couch a couple times a week when my boyfriend stays and i ne... (366 words

How do I know what to expect from my ex? We have started talking again and slowly getting closer.

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - We once had a very strong intimate relationship with commitment and then it changed due to outside circumstances. Now time has passed - months - but we are talking again and slowly getting close. But how do I know what to expect? Men don't talk, especailly him, about ... (302 words

What did I do wrong this time?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - we have been together for 1 and a half now, by now i know when he is upset with me. today he is in other one of those sarcastic moods, yesterday we had a little bit of a dispute, he would normally tell me if he is going to the race track or if he is at a friends house, ... (270 words

My parents want to meet my boyfriend but I'm scared they will judge him!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - my parents really want to meet my bf but im really scared and nervous that they will judge him straight away i dont think its fair at all. my last bf they met when we went up to my room my mum would make my brother chek on us like 24-7 it was so annoyin and since then i wouldn... (101 words

How do I do what's right by my friend? He's just had a baby and wants to leave his fiancee for me!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - well im 17 , and my friend who is 22 has been in a relationship for around 4 years , his fiancee has just had a baby but he didnt seem to happy , he was scared of being a daddy eventhough he loves his daughter to bits , he asked me advice on being a parent as he knows he can ... (267 words

Online relationship for 14 months, what am I going to do?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've basically met my online boyfriend 14 months ago, and we know everything about each other. I live in California, and him in Florida; being across the country from each other, and both of us going to school, we did not have a chance to meet, and was looking forward for this ... (359 words

I'm worried my best friend will hate me for liking his little sister!

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20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hey, when first started High School I met this guy in my year and we hit it off and became best friends straight away and still are now. I'm over at his house so often, I basically live there (I don't really get on with my family), his parents see me as one of their own, his ... (218 words

How can I get her to see sense, I have seen her boyfriend cheating on her!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi... My bestfriend is being cheated on.Shes going out with a guy whos 19 shes 16. When he goes out to clubs she doesnt go with him because she wont get into them. Anyway after a night out people constantly come back to her and me and tell us he was with another girl or ... (118 words

He replied "maybe you do love me more" when I said "I love you more". What does this mean?

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - hi there, I am a little confused and I hope you can help me clarify this situation with your responses. Here goes, my boyfirend and I have been going out for almost 9 months now, we are both in our early 30's. He has never had a proper girlfirend up until now, his longest r... (254 words

We were all gossiping but they have turned me into the scapegoat!

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hello, I really need your help on this issue because I am getting very depressed with this matter. I’ll try to be as short as possible as I respect that it’s no fun for you to read long stories. We are three women working in the same office. During the absence of on... (401 words

I feel I'm ready to lose my virginity but I'm self conscious about my body!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - My bf wants to hav sex with me but im nervous, i am prepared to loose my virginity to him but i feel as if im ready but in the same way i dont. im quite self conscious about my body im just confused about what to do x... (49 words

Am I pathetic or is it normal to feel like this for so long?

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20 July 2009 (F age - Hi, Some of you may remember me from a while ago. Last June after going through a very unloving, frigid time due to the menopause (I think) I found my husband had been texting a work colleague and continued to do so (I naively assumed it had stopped) until he made the mist... (942 words

My boyfriend has been calling me horrible names but always claims he is joking after!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have a very close relationship we've been on and off but recently he's been calling me a bitch a slag and a c**t wen i say thats rude he always replies with im jokin but is he really joking but i love him so much i could never leave him but i just want to ... (74 words

Help! I'm in love with a guy 7 years older than me!

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20 July 2009 (F age 26-29 - it all started when he became a youth leader for my youth club we chatted and stuff and it was fun. then i started going to the church their with my friend who also feels she is in love with him. he helped me convert my life to become a christian which is great and i really ... (168 words

What does my lover mean when he says he wants to rape me?

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20 July 2009 (F age 51-59 - My lover keeps telling me he wants to rape me and i'm not sure what he means by this ,why say something like that when we have good sex anyway,does it mean he want's to play act with me and if so and i went along with it what if he lost control and got really violent with me ... (121 words

I have a gut instinct that my husband is cheating on me!

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - hi cupids i am in a dilemma i think my husband cheating just a gut instinct so far an there a few signs he mite be like diet an exercise when i ask he says doing 4 my health he works a lot also i dont no any of is work mates he aint based anywhere so cant follow him an if i ask ... (85 words

Should I contact his new girlfriend and tell her what he is doing?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My ex has recently started to text me again, he was been makin small conversation at first, then he asked was i still with my new boyfriend, Even though i said yes, he asked me to come over to his cause he had a free house only to 'hang out'. I didn't text back... (126 words

15 and curious....

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20 July 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hello. I'm 15 and Curious. i have 2 flaps of skin either side of my vagina, and i dont know what they are.. they don't cause me any pain or anything, i just don't know what they are.. should i be worried? they have been they for a while (last few years). and i am wondering if ... (140 words

I want her to realise that what she is doing is hurting me!

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20 July 2009 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are now on our third month, and was going strong until around the last weeks of June I'm having doubts with our relationship and started fighting her about why she still goes out with her ex who gave her so much pain and so much love as well. She once ... (463 words

I lost my virginity to a guy I hardly know and now I'm feeling guilty

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20 July 2009 (? age 36-40 - hi, i lose my viginity to a guy i barely know, we dated several times and he is expeienced he knows how to make me feel good, then that happened, i even didn't bleed a lot cause he is so good at it, now he is going to leave me cause he said he need to go back to school, and he ... (116 words

My boyfriend excludes me from EVERYTHING. He lies and he cheats but I love him.

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20 July 2009 (M age 36-40 - Ok, Im 26 and im Bi and im out...my BF is 21 and he is severely in the closet. We have been together almost 9 months. Nothing in our relationship is going good. But I love him to death and I know he is my soulmate (im not just saying that) If we could only get past this re... (527 words

He says he'll call later but he never does!

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - Here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Lately he has been developing this habit of stating that he'll call 'later' that day, only to not do so. His excuses range from being really stressed and busy to having his mind on his band's tour/show... (444 words

Girlfriend doesn't like me looking at my cell phone

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20 July 2009 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend gets aggresive if i look in my mobile phone. If we argue she accuses me of hiding things from her. I have told her to look through it if thats what she thinks. She never does but continues to accuse again and again. I now discover that she is going to flirt ... (192 words

Girlfriend has started treating me poorly and I'm not sure how to work things out

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20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi, i know alot of you will probably rub this off as nothing due to the fact that im "young" by most of your standards, but i would really appreciate some honest help here... me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and 4 months, and we get along great, we ... (686 words

My boyfriend told me I would fail

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20 July 2009 (F - My bf just told me that I would fail at my career because I'm not loud and out going enough. I was so hurt by what he said. He thinks hes an expert cause a friend of his works in the industry. The thing is though, you dont have to be like that to be in the industry I want to ... (313 words

Can you get pregnant once the sperm hit air?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - what if a guy comes onto a female's hand and then she masturbates and the dry semen is in her vagina... can she actually get pregnant?... (26 words

I'm worried she'll start being afraid of having sex

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20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi i have a big problem last night i had sex with my gf she said she was a virgin, first we did some foreplay when we go to the momment she said it hurt like hell she almost cryed we try it twice, then we watched some tv together, now my question is this she told me she had a ... (172 words

Was he ok with me? Or just being funny?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi i posted something on here a while ago with regards to a guy i've known since primary school all through high school, and now i still hang out with him and the random moments we have flirting and always having heart to hearts and at a BBQ we hugged and he was kissing my ... (483 words

My ex is now pregnant with my dad's baby!

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20 July 2009 (M age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend and I lived together for about three years. We ended up having a son together, and then we broke up shortly after. She has custody of my son, while I pay support and visit him on weekends. The weird thing is she is now my dad's girlfriend. He is fat and ol... (213 words

My friend said my best friend is cheating on me

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - well ive had a crush on this guy for three years and hes been my bff for 3 years and he asked me out yesterday at the movies and ive known this guy to cheat on numerus girls and i said yes and my other friend said he was cheating on me with this other girl and i dont know if ... (98 words

How did you figure out that you were gay or bi?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm really confused right now. I have considered myself straight for my entire life, up until I realized feelings for my friend back in March. She was the only girl I had ever really had feelings for. We recently broke up, but now I can't figure out whether I am straight or bi. ... (136 words

Sarcastic boyfriend too afraid to admit he's in love

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - ok here is the deal i am in a long distance relationship for about five months and my boyfriend has not ever said i love u to me. all of a sudden he begins to say it to me but when i ask him about it he says that he is being sarcastic but he does it more than once. i do not ... (142 words

I am very confused by his weird behavior, do you think I am being used? I

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy at a party and thought he was very interested in me. He made out with me and tried to go farther, but I stopped him as I thought it was inappropriate. I went over to his place the next day to watch a movie, but while we were watching it, he kept trying again to go ... (665 words

My ex has a new girlfriend, how do I get him to date me again without being the reason they break up?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok so my ex who im really not over called me a few days ago and said he hates his gf and needs help on breaking up with her. i said ok?? but the thing is he has called every night since then. and i always answer and he always says i love you. so the question is how do i get him ... (81 words

I am 14 and attracted to my friend's 58 year old aunt, how do I let her know of y sexual feelings?

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20 July 2009 (M age 26-29 - hi I'm a 14 year old virgin male. I have feelings for my friend's aunt(they live with their aunt). I go across the street to their house and play with them often. their aunt is 58 and has a nice body. I asked my friends if they cared if I had sex with their aunt and they ... (79 words

Kissed a co-worker, how do keep this fro being awkward?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - i went out with my coworkers one night for drinks...our group has been hanging out alot lately...the other night we were all out drinking..and me and one coworker were talking all night...and being flirty..we kissed..and basically kissed all night..he texted me the next asking ... (108 words

IS it appropriate to send flowers to an ex on an anniversary?

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20 July 2009 (M age 36-40 - My gf and I had dated for almost four years. We lived together for one, we didn't end on a bad note, never any huge problems, I am a pretty good guy. We were very good friends before we started dating and became lovers. We broke up over a month ago, she said she needed her ... (133 words

How do you make a long distance relationship work, unable to go to see her?

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20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - How do you make a long distance relationship work if we cant see each other for a long time... we are both 16 and she lives 11 hours from me so i have no way i can see her. but we really like each other. There's no way i could see her till i was at least 18. in that case i ... (72 words

What is the best way to forget an ex-boyfriend who doesn't like you?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok, my ex boyfriend broke up with me almost a year ago and im still very much in love with him. ive known him for about 2 years but we only went out for a month. i miss him alot and i tried to text him and talk to him but he never answers, when he does he says hey and whats up ... (103 words

After one week,, I have developed feelings for her, should I tell her?

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20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - I think i have developed feelings for this girl after only one week. we met at the park and started talking. We are into the exact same things we have both had the same problems in our life so we understand each other. So should i inform her on my feelings? ... (53 words

How do you work out what you want in a partner?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - How would you go about working out what you want in a partner? I thought I knew, but last night I was talking to my brother about it and some things he asked me made me realise I have no clue. Until the end of last year I'd been quite settled with my partner of 3 years - he ... (199 words

How do I let him know I am interested in him more than a little?

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - I went out with a friend to dinner and a local play (a romantic comedy) his friend was in. It wasn't billed as a date per se. We've only really hung out twice before and just as friends. But we ended up being together about six hours in all; it was a lot of fun and we ... (315 words

I am a tomboy and I have not had a boyfriend ever, I do wear make-up, do boys care if you are a tomboy?

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20 July 2009 (F age 26-29 - ummmm ok this is a weird question but like im a big tomboy most of my friends are guys and i luv tossing the football and wrestling and stuff like that but i still wear makeup and crap......do guys like that or care about that cuz i havnt hade an actuall bf for like ever and im ... (65 words

I have a lot of pain and burning when we have sex, what could be the problem?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok well iv benn having sex with my boyfriend for a while now atleats 16 times.. and its hurt me everytime its like a burning feeling around my vagina walls i hate it i havnt sed anything to my bf but it hurts SOO SOO bad i get to wear i wana cry... i kno sumthngs wrong can sum ... (73 words

Is it possible that a relationship can survive after one person cheats, please help?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - About a week ago I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. I wrote another post regarding this, but now I need so more help. During last week we had no contact at all. It was killing me inside, but I knew I had to be strong. I miss him every single day and every single sec... (289 words

The sex is great, but he has other issues, ADHD, for one, how do I keep his interest?

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20 July 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have met this guy who is 38.. (I am 36). He has been engaged several times--most recently, a few months ago. He says that he's 'a pleaser; and that he has 'ADHD.' (Yes, I know...red flags all around. We met a couple of weeks ago and immediately hit it off. We ended up ... (241 words

He keeps doing these stupid things!

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20 July 2009 (F age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for eleven years off and on.i was 14 he was 16 and we have been threw so much i guess u can say we've both hurt eachother.he is my bestfriend and i love him with all my heart.we just got back together after being apart for a year.one of my biggest ... (147 words

My BF wrote to the aunts about the things awful he's said to me, and now I am destroyed

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20 July 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi Aunts, I think my boyfriend wrote a few days ago (I saw something that was similar to what he said to me on his computer) about some things that he's said to me about our sex life (how "f*cking me is like f*cking a doll...I'm only good when I'm drunk...I'm a wh*re etc) and ... (522 words

My brain says no but my heart says .....

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20 July 2009 (M age 36-40 - Two days ago I had my first same sex sexual experience. I have been thinking about doing so for many years but was too scared to act upon it. I enjoyed it but now im very confused and I am not sure what I am. I have been feeling ill to the point I have nearly thrown up from the ... (190 words

Is she worried or cheating

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20 July 2009 (M age 41-50 - my girlfriend used to stay with me quite a bit, lately she has been giving me excuses on why she cant. one nite i went over and she and 3 others were partying and she got mad i was there and asked me to leave. she says she hasnt cheated and its cuz shes worried she hasnt ... (66 words

My boyfriend keeps calling me crazy

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost two years keeps telling me I am acting crazy because when we have problems all I want is to talk to him so we can work things out. He does not pick up the phone when I call. He does not reply back when I instant message him. I don't feel like he takes me ... (260 words

Stuck in a loop of humdrum and can't get out

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20 July 2009 (F age - I have planned a holiday with my partner but we are not travelling together but have arranged to meet upon occasions. I have not been intimate with him for over a year. I kinda went off him a bit as I did not feel our relationship was going aywhere. We have a 6 year old and... (129 words

Confused and Troubled: She's my best friend

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20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, im really confused and troubled as to what to do right now. I have feelings for this girl who I am best friends with. I want us to become closer and get into a relationship. We have talked about it somewhat and we are both somewhat afraid that if it doesnt work out ... (93 words

Is he leading me on again?

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20 July 2009 (? age 51-59 - Why would a guy tell you he still has feelings for you and wants to see you again, then comes over and hangs out for a while and hasnt contacted you again and it's been three days? Is it all lies or should I just wait to see what happens? If he's really not into me I would ... (67 words

I love my teacher and I accept that we can't be, but I've moved and I miss him too much

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - I know you've all heard this one a million times before, and I've searched this site for a possible answer to my worries, but I just can't seem to find one for me. I'm 15 years old and I live in the UK. Plus, I'm deeply in love with my teacher. I know what you'll say (it's... (514 words

The girl I like is moving away what should I do?

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20 July 2009 (M age 30-35 - hi some one please help me. well im in year 11 and leaving school now forever! but a thew months before a new teacher assistant started working in the school. the first time i saw her i new i was going to like her! she was different she wasnt like all the over teachers she was ... (159 words

If he loved me completely then why did he lie?

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20 July 2009 (M age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I fell deeply in love with a younger man, We were perfect for each other and I wanted to marry him. Then life got in the way and we parted. We got back together, and he promised me to make things better, IE: help me financially with what he helped mess up to begin... (117 words

I've tried to get away, but the harrassment continues ...

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20 July 2009 (M age 51-59 - Well, if you have followed my other posts, you will know that i had a married woman chasing me at work, tried to get away, finaly got away, had to cry "hostile work enviroment" to management, they changed my schedule, but it still overlaps hers 3-4 hours 3 out of 5 days. ... (399 words

How do I talk about us without scarring him off?

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20 July 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've started seeing a guy. We've been seeing each other for about a month and had lots of fun, we were kind of friends before and it's been great getting to know each other. The problem is that I'm going travelling in 2 months. He knows this and I don't think we planned to get ... (240 words

How do I get my teachers to like me?

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20 July 2009 (M age 26-29 - most of the teachers dont like me because of the grip i have on my class mates. ever since i did my stand-up people are all ways pressuring me to do new jokes, i just want to chat with friends. my stuff is loosely based on bill hicks' comedy. how do i get other students not to ... (87 words

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