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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Threesome question please - Advice on before, during and after

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, My Fiancee and i have been in a relationship for 12 years and still have amazing sex. First and foremost, i have always been curious about being with a woman but never tried it beyond kissing and fondling. However since i turned 40 three years ago, i cant get the t... (749 words)

I can't stop thinking that he stole money from me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my boyfriend may have stolen from me, but I can't prove it. Saturday night, I came home from my waitressing job and counted my earnings and put it all away very neatly in my wallet to take to the bank. The next day, a large bill was missing. I hadn't gone anywhere... (415 words)

Which are the best sex positions for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, I'm 20 years old and I have an amazing boyfriend. We started our sex life about 3 months ago and since then we've done it a few times and it's always been very enjoyable... but we have a bit of trouble with positions. We pretty much stick to the mis... (152 words)

This whole year with him has been trying! What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help with some advice from some wise people. The relationship im in now is going sour atleast from my view it is. Its almost been a year and In the beginning my bf wasn't as bad as he is now. He cared about how I felt when he acted a way I didn't like. For example, he ... (446 words)

Why are boys like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. He usually comes around mine and we will watch movies and play games. My siblings always seem to get in the way though. But whenever we are alone in a room, he will get on top of me and its like 2nd base. Intense kissing, the ... (212 words)

Good or bad idea to write him a letter explaining things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help! My boyfriend of six months and I broke up a month ago and I ahve been devastated. His mom told me a while ago that he was too. For the last month we have been in contact every day and even got back together. I pushed him about talking about his feelings ... (195 words)

Mr. Right, but not right now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for the past 10 months. He is a good guy, sweet and kind to me. He is also older than I am by about eight years, and I think he's ready to settle down (has asked me to move in with him before and so on.) These hints that he ... (304 words)

My blood boils with rage when a good looking young woman is present!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age - dear cupid, my life is ruined by insane jealousy. i cannot bear any man i have been with to even look at another woman, not even on television. my blood boils with rage when a good looking woman especially if they are young and sexy are present. i feel my men are making ... (65 words)

We think of the same words or what the other was thinking! Does this mean we're super close?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I somtimes say things at the exact same time and it will be the same word. Or we will say something that the other was thinking, it's like our minds are one or something. What is this? Does this mean we are super close??... (47 words)

What are the sings that your boyfriend is interested in his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the sings that your boyfriend is interested in his ex? WHat are the signs that hes jealous that his ex might have a new boyfriend?... (27 words)

Why does he always LAUGH at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my boyfriend laugh at some of the stupid things I say. I know I'm a bit ditzy but he makes it worse; it makes me feel more stupid and lowers my self-esteem. Especially when it gets serious it upsets me so much... ...like the time we were talking about having sex... (140 words)

Forced to raise a brat!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have lived with my bf for almost 6 years now. We have been thru a lot and I really love and care for him. The problem is he has a 14 year old bratty son who no one has ever diciplined and now the child's mother wants to give up custody and have us raise him. I don't want to ... (540 words)

Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK... Well for the past week now I've suffered (on and off) from feeling nautious and not being hungry, headaches and fatigue. Two people have said something about me being pregnant on my facebook. I've been thinking about babies a lot and took a baby name pick5 on faceboo... (146 words)

2 years on and I still haven't told him I kissed my ex. Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend 2 years nad love him dearly. When we were together 3 months I kissed my ex. It was a very brief kiss and I immediately knew it was a mistake. I didn't tell my boyfriend as I was petrified of losing him. He is amazing and I would never cheat again. I ... (93 words)

Problems with pornography!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I have got a problem. Last thing I would ever have expected, but there you go… Pornography. Yeah-yeah, you’ve heard it all before, right… But listen. About 6 month ago I find porn on my married-for-a-long-time husband's computer. I try not to over react. But I am basically dev... (395 words)

My ex's best friend is hitting on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So latest on my ex. I guess he is over me so im over him his friend who dated my friend (lets call her D).he had apologized for saying stuff about how my ex wants nothing to do with me. And said hes being an ass and than asked what i was doing for the night he wanted a coffie ... (118 words)

I feel sad he has done this to rub my face in it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My recently married ex from 6 years ago contacted me to be a facebook friend. I thought it was just to clear the air from our messy breakup - instead i went on his profile and it was covered in wedding pictures and the picture had been updated just after i accepted the ... (141 words)

How can I change the way things are with me and my girlfriend? We argue all the time now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help ok I have been in a serious relationship for 6 years on and off the girl I am with is a very nice caring person. That being said she has failed to have a job for the last two years that we have lived together she has nowhere else to go almost no family no money ... (207 words)

My husband thinks about freeloading to get anything or everything! What is going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've become concerned about my husband lately, he seems to have taken a rather different attitude to life lately, and thinks about freeloading to get anything or everything. No-one can freeload for everything anyway, can they? He won't say why he thinks it's good, but I'm... (66 words)

Help!!! How can I prove to people I'm not immature?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) Okay so long story short virtually everyone I know thinks I am immature. I admit, I can be a little silly at times. I laugh at things others don't find funny, for example parts of kung fu panda which I was practically weeing myself over whilst others didn't even cra... (255 words)

She wants to have sex with no strings but I'm not sure I can do that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl i met and have been talking to as friends wants to be my first time having sex but doesnt want a relationship and just wants to be friends with benefits at least for the time being. She has said she would possibly date me in the future but i wonder if she is just saying ... (177 words)

I want to accept that he likes looking at other women - but I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've never felt like this before and I don't know what to do. I am living with my partner. We have 2 children (one of 3 years and one of 9 weeks). When I was pregnant I discovered some premium rate phone calls on the phone bill. They were to the babe channels on Sky ... (421 words)

Confused and Frustrated in San Antonio

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in an relationship for 3 years and we finally moved in together and she has a 13 year old son. We all get along for the most part. MY concern is that our finances are starting to be a problem, she hasn't been paying her part and I'm having to front her the cash, now ... (99 words)

Why all the tension???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont quite get this. Ok theres a guy in my class and when we're alone we talk fine, we're along some morning if we;re there before the others. However when other people come in the room he goes quiet n doesnt talk to me like he used to. He will finish what hes saying to me ... (223 words)

How can I make amends with his mum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was at a party with my boyfriend a few days ago. I was really drunk and ended up saying some really harsh things to him. He says he's ok with it now and forgives me but I haven't seen his mum since. Apparently she's taken it badly and I think she now hates me for what I said ... (108 words)

Husband never wants me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married woman of 5 years, been with my husband for 6. I have noticed in the last like 3 months, maybe 4 that he has not been acting what I would call "normal". I dont know if its just me, or is there anything I should worry about? Typically he used to always call me, ... (358 words)

Do I let my son go and see his dad and hope he does not turn him away or do I let him and hope everything turns out ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Last night me and my son were talking and out of the blue he announced that he wanted to see his dad for whom he has had no contact with for 2 years, it was his dad's decision not to see him, my son was deeply hurt by this but never showed it and i think this was because he had ... (272 words)

I feel like if I have a threesome, the other person will fall in love with my man. Have you been in this situation before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a bisexual woman who is dating my soulmate. He is a great guy and has all of the qualities that I have dreamed about since I was a child. I love him so much. But I am bisexual and I do have my moments where I crave other women. But I have always been inecure about being ... (193 words)

How do I kindly break up with someone? I still love him and don't want to hurt him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know how to kindly dump someone you still love and don't want to hurt. I've tried it before, but he started balling and at one point hyper-ventilating. I don't think I can do that again. I couldn't stand to see him that way and took it all back right there. I ... (129 words)

We broke something that didn't need fixing...and now our relationship is over. Why do I feel so numb?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My relationship was not broken; it was good, with minor issues, such small issues they should have never been argued over. My boyfriend broke our relationship along with my heart. He was very angry and his nature is very stubborn. Unlike other times, I am not trying to fix it ... (118 words)

Would you give someone a chance, even if you didn't like them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok here it is... I really like this one guy that ive known for a long time.... Im pretty sure he has absolutly no idea that i like him!! Anyways the other day i decided i needed to face my fears and tell him that i like him... Except i didnt tell him i told him through emai... (133 words)

I get wet before having sex, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im in a sexual relationship and my fella always comments on how wet i am down below before we have sex. he always mentions it and has also mentioned that he has had to use lube with some of his exes and never with me so im starting to wonder if theres something wrong down ... (60 words)

Confused on what to do... does this sound more like 'just friends' to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old,i look very mature for my age. Not to sound concieted or anything im very attractive, and have a great body. i like this guy thats 18 years old he told me i was beautiful, and would try to dating if i was older. Even though i feel like he's constantly flirting ... (91 words)

Our relationship has changed but he doesn't even realise it! How can I fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now and it started out as the greatest thing I could ever want. He would do anything for me, and me for him. He would always tell me how much he loved me and couldn't believe he found someone like me. He is my best friend that I ... (432 words)

I need tips on how to get over my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I donno what to do anymore, its been almost 5 yrs since ive had strong feelings for this guy, we started out as friends first, then we dated a lil then broke up cus he cheated on me, then i forgave him, and broke up with him cus i didnt wanna get hurt again and didnt trust him ... (311 words)

Is the guy I met on holiday playing games with me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) age 36-40 - met a guy on holiday, we got on brill. he did show signs of being insecure and a bit jealous. and i think he liked me to chase after him. since i got home i txt him the other week and he did not reply to me although my text did not require a response. he had gone funny on me 2 ... (220 words)

My partner won't have sex with me, what gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18 and have been with my partner for over a year now hes 32 and at the start we loved having sex.now he wont even touch me...he says he loves me but he knows i dont love him...im too young to be caught up with love but why wont he sleep with me.im an attractive fun and ... (70 words)

Should I stay in his life in the hope that he'll see me as his fiance again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiance and I broke up a few months ago after dating for a year. We broke up bc of mounting tensions that all started with our engagement. Things got out of hand and next thing I know he's breaking up with me. It's been 3 months yet we talk almost every day. I was allow... (199 words)

How long do you give a guy to get over his fear of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm going to try and make this a short story but apologize for length. Basically I'm a single mom and have been dating my boyfriend for 4.5 yrs and no committment. We don't see other people, we are monogamous. We broke up last April 2008 for 2 months because I told... (526 words)

I use the term 'make love' and he uses 'f*ck'! What are your views on this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - In need of some answers/advice my boyfriend and i have been together for more than two years . His made a few kinky suggestions b4 and we tried anal but never got any where as it really hurt and he promised not again will we try. Well just yesterday he said if i want him to... (232 words)

Is he for real or just bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi my "unofficial partner" is currently working away at the moment. I call him unofficial as he knows I love him and although we see each other from time to time I still don't feel like we are a proper couple! Anyway, we have been keeping in touch by post and telling each oth... (114 words)

Please help me choose between two men - my ex or my fiance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am in a very tricky situation. I broke up with my boyfriend 6 months ago (who I had been engaged to). Soon after I met another guy. They are both very different which was great in helping me forget my ex to a degree. However I have stayed in contact with my ex as we... (321 words)

I feel like my life sucks! I'm down about it and don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

28 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ugh! i dont know why but my life absolutely sucks from every angle! For some reason i always get the worst of everything.Nothing good ever happens to me and i feel that im worthless. im 14 and i've never had a girlfriend. I feel that im ugly, and everone else is so much bet... (147 words)

He left his ex and started dating me, then he left me to go back to his ex, now he wants me back - should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am an avid reader of DearCupid, and for once, I actually have a question to pose. Ten months ago a person who was in my graduating class in High school contacted me. He had been a quiet boy that was the definition of an outsider. I have always felt that children can be ... (1021 words)

My teacher tried to have sex with me. Please help... I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a teacher at my school who I have always got along well with, in a purely friend-like way. You know what it's like when you meet someone completely 'on your wavelength' e.g. same sense of humour, confindent in each others company, but this is not dodgy in any way, we ... (239 words)

Boyfriend's friend said he's cheating on me, but he insists his friend's lying. I don't know if I can trust him now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 3years now. But it has been a long distance..but since this year started he has been distancing me. And we i ask him he claims he had problem.this went on until this month. He started trying to get intouch with me and telling he wants me back.. ... (232 words)

My wife only wants to goes out with her male gay friends and always comes home falling down drunk.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 27, my wife is 26 and she's been going out partying all the time with her friends. Most of the time it's her gay male friends, very seldom she goes out with her girlfriends. She won't ever go out with anyone other than these gay male friends. Her girlfriends have... (520 words)

How can I inprove my social skills?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i brush up and improve my social skills? when studyin a-levels i didnt go out as much anymore and i lost quite a lot of friends. lately i have made friends. however because i am now somewhat insecure, if they do not call then i dont call either cuz i believe if ... (110 words)

He just wants to cuddle because of my age, but I want more.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this lad but i'm not sure if he likes me. He says he does but hes 18 and i am 14. He says if i was older he would defiantly date me. He says he doesn't want sex he just wants a loving relationship where he can just be with me cuddling me and just spending time with ... (74 words)

What does he mean by saying they have a great 'personality'?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone I would like to know: My husband (been married almost 10 y) always says the same thing... What does it mean?When he sees a naked woman, on TV or in the newspaper or in a magazine, he looks her up and down, and says: she looks like she has a GREAT personality, wha... (261 words)

She didn't tell me she had a boyfriend until after I fell in love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

28 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in love with this former classmate of mine.we met and exchanged numbers and got talking.she never told me she had a guy and i never asked and i also got the feeling that she was interested.when at last i told her of my feeling,she said she was confused beacuse things were ... (115 words)

What is this white crystal thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently been on my period for about 3-4 days now and while i was peeing white crystal kind of thing came out my vagina what is that? im really worried.... (32 words)

I'm being pursued by a married man! Not interested! Is it time for me to find another job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

- I work with a married man..nice guy but married so I am not interested. The problem is that he is interested in me...I think. He will talk about his wife all day long and then email me in the evening saying he is looking forward to seeing me the next day. Why is he acting like ... (66 words)

We're fighting and his birthday is this week...How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a fight right now, but his birthday is in two days. Should I still celebrate with him? Get him a gift? Or wait until we sort things out to celebrate?... (36 words)

I introduced him to my best friend now she's trying to break us up and steal him away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - k well i have a long distance relationship with this guy thats not to to far from me. he is 2 years older then me, im 14 and he is 16, and i realy love him and he realy loves me, well atleast that whats he tells me. we talk everyday for hours on the computer because on the ... (254 words)

Long distance love is killing me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey...i am 15 years old...and i am from greece...i am in love with this guy...he is perfect...i love him and he loves me very much...he means everything 2 me...we want to be together but we cant..theres a hudge problem...he lives in a different place...we both live in ... (150 words)

How do I ask him without sounding desperate or nosy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to find out if my friend took a date when he went to the movies. How do I ask without sounding desperate or nosy?... (27 words)

I've lied about trivial things, but he broke it off anyway. Will he ever take me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this taurus for a year now and unfortunately I've lied to him about trivial things about myself simply because I have low self confidence and I felt that I needed to zest myself up a bit to make me look interesting to him (I'm over that now but it's a b... (194 words)

Why is he still in contact with his ex when she clearly is after him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year. His ex won't stop texting him. They had an on /off relationship for 2 years where she cheated on him a lot and eventually got pregnant by somebody else. They split up nearly 8 months before we met. She texts him all the time... (235 words)

Help its my first time today!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay..today is the day i have sex with my boyfriend and i'm scared because i don't know what to do with him and he wants me to be on top and i don't know anything about sex and he does not want to be on top of me because he is going to be tried and i told him i don't know what ... (80 words)

He can't come!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - well my boy friend an i been togather for one month now an fron the time we net we been haveing sex every day an he never come not one time for the hold month we been have ing sex befor to be togather i have not had sex for tree years an he ... (205 words)

Was he into me and kinda ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is a little back round. I am a teen who works as a cashier and I get a lot of people who live on farms, esp young farm boys. This guy looked to be around my age and I thought he was REALLY cute. Also the fair is this week and the local 4h group does showing. Here... (415 words)

He says if I bring jenny into the situation he will end it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Urgent Advice Needed Please Hello everyone who helps people on Agony Aunt. I really need some advice regarding a long distance male I have had contact with for the last 6 months. He lives in Sydney. I live in Perth. To cut a long story short when I found him on Oasis I was... (830 words)

Am I fooling myself into believing that he loves me just as much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend are facing a bit of a problem in our relationship and I would like some advice on how to handle the situation. Let's start from the begining. I am Swedish and he is English. After 2 years travelling between our countries, trying to see each other as often... (665 words)

I think my boyfriend might have been sexually abused...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my boyfriend might have been sexually abused. In the past, he had a relationship with another guy but that's not my issue.. We also recently wanted to further our relationship and have sex but he was unable to keep an erection... He's an extremely shy and withdrawn boy ... (99 words)

How should I tackle things with my cheating hubby...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Readers Hi! I'm a 31 years married lady and mother of two young kids. I'm beautiful fair and my hubby and his family and friends thought him to be very lucy to wed me I'm married for past 7 years. I can't recall a single day when i could have felt love of my husband ... (346 words)

My ex wants to meet with me in the next few weeks but I'm not sure if I should or not. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Here is a run down of where I am at in life. I had this girlfriend for a little over 4 years. We broke up about 2 1/2 months ago. She stopped having sex with me 4 months ago. When she broke up with me she assured me everything would be fine, but it's not, I'm super depressed ... (236 words)

Do I let her go even though I love her or do I try to get her to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I am not sure where this should be posted, and I am unsure of why I am posting at all but I am completely confused by my feelings. I am in my mid 30's and technically single. I have not been in a "relationship" in 5 years, but I also am not the kind of guy who just goes out ... (460 words)

How do I tell my friend the truth without hurting her feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So my best friend *Nikki is obsessed with being gothic and *Mike. That's all she ever talks about. When we are on the phone or hanging out, every time she will say, "Life is just a waiting room for death." or something about death. Everytime. She's obsessed with being goth... (224 words)

I think my husband is having online affairs!

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - think he is at it again my husband was caught internet cheating 2 months or so ago and hes suppossedly was behaving but in the last 2 weeks or more hes deleting his internet stuff off the phone again (our only access to internet at home) im sure he gets on it at work. and ... (237 words)

I keep having fantasies about my cousin, what do I do?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - For the past 2 years, i keep thinking about my cousin. I like him soo much!! i have fantasies from dating to sex. He's my 3rd cousin and he was adopted. And everytime i see him, i get nervous and i always want to be around him. Sometimes, i catch him staring at me or just the ... (126 words)

Which should I believe, his action or words?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex insisted to see me recently and won't stop bugging me until I said yes, I will talk to him. On the phone he sounded like he was going to cry. When I saw him, he said he prayed so hard I would agree to see him which i did. He looked shy and was smiling. Then he began hi... (405 words)

Will he ever see me as the one?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated my ex-bf for a year. We're in our 30s. I pressured him to take the relationship to the next level which is when the problems started. Things started getting tense between us and we started having a lot of tiffs (not fights, just disagreements.) Before I know what's ... (165 words)

Do you know when a man is still in love with you?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I know when a man is in love with me? My man still says he loves me but has been distant lately and a bit cold at times. He says he's just stressed about work. He hasnt been there for me for the last few weeks. I'm not very good at relationships and can judge situat... (104 words)

His brother was all over me! Do I tell him?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok. I got my first boyfriend a month ago and we really really like each other. but one day we were gonna hang out after he went to the skate park. he said to just go to his house cause he'd be there in a couple minutea. so I got there and he wasn't back yet. it was just his 16 ... (171 words)

Do you ever find a good relationship again after a break up?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure if anyone can help but i'm just looking for a bit of hope. Ive recently found myself single again after a very hopeful relationship. I'm devastated, although we had our problems it was basically a v good relationship. This man was the only man I have ever really ... (94 words)

How do people move on when they still love each other?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just a quick question. How do I move on from a relationship when the person I love cant be with me? We were together for nearly 2 years and have always been very close although we have had arguments about our situation. Its breaking his heart too, I can see it in his eyes and... (134 words)

I like a slut!

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Im a teen boy. I also like my cousin's friend. she is very beutiful and nice and all but theres only one problebm,shes a slut. at aproximently 3:35 a.m tuesday morning i cought her in the bedroom giving head to one of my male cousins head. i played it off like it dident hurt. ... (86 words)

Is he lying about watching porn?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a while now, and think that i have caught him for the second time watching porn. The first time, i caught him in the action, however, the second time, i looked at his computer history and found some recent activity on a porn website. ... (159 words)

My husband cannot have children and suggested that I sleep with another man so I will get pregnant!

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband cannot have children and he has asked me to consider sleeping with another man to have children. Problem is i do not want to sleep with another man just to have children. Plus i feel it will have a bad effect on our relationship. i feel it will be strained. i got ... (68 words)

I just want someones view on what I've done and learnt from it : )

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I've been wanting to get this off my chest for a while as it keeps coming back to bite me. A few months ago i visited a brothel. The reason i did this is clear to me now as i was very lonely had not many good friends and was addicted to porn (watched it too much i t... (378 words)

How do I keep the fire between us burning once we are married?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,am getting married in 2 months and we are happy and in love with each other.my worry is that after marriage,we might get too used to each other and the fire between may vanish....how do i keep the fire between us burning?... (42 words)

Would your ex try and get you into bed even though he's with someone else?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If your ex was in a relationship with someone already who lived in another country who he had spent 2 weeks with and came back and was talking to you, wud he say anything to try and get you into his bed? for example, he said "while I was on my trip I was thinking of you half ... (91 words)

She said she's ok with us breaking up but her behaviour says otherwise!

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, hope your well. I split from my ex 4 and a bit weeks ago and as time goes on the feelings for her are going pretty quick really. We went out last week together for a few drinks which was good although i didnt particularly like the male attention she recieved. What i ... (223 words)

Do men think about their female friends when they masterbate?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this male friend who used to be a lover. Now we just hang out and occasionally kiss or touch each other. I pretty sure he used to masturbate thinking about me but it makes me curious if he still does. And I'm just curious in general if guys masturbate thinking about ... (56 words)

I want to send a girl I like this poem for her birthday. What do you think?

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Theres this girl that i really like, but after we hit things off, things haven't been the same. But anyways i do still like her alot! and was wondering if it would be a good idea to send her this poem i wrote, her B-Day, is wed. It's not in hopes that she will come running to ... (305 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant and wants to end our relationship. But I don't want to lose her and our baby

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and i have been together for 14months and we are not married. she is pregnant with our first child and says she wants out of the relationship because i have been neglecting her, and she suspects i'm having an affair with one of my female friends. Things have not... (136 words)

How do I tell my mum I am pregnant?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i got pregnant with my first child by 18 i am now 20 and pregnant with my second child by a different father and im scared to tell my mum she is a very harsh and scary lady and i dont want the conflict when i tell him.has anyone got any ideas of how i can tell her gently she ... (79 words)

My boyfriend told me he needs a break. What does this mean relationship-wise?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My Boyfriend said to me last night i need a break.. i was shocked at his behaviour..and i still am. i kept saying to him... it means you dont love me anymore, and also i said you have your eye on someone else. you see i have been with this guy for 1 year and 6 months..(we a... (90 words)

He loves me with all of his heart and soul, and has waited 12 years for me...but I still don't want to be with him

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - should a woman decide to marry a man who loves her with all his heart and soul(and waited for the last 12 years) but she still doesn’t ? ... (30 words)

I feel too shy to tell him what I like during sex!

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi There, While love making, I feel more eroused when he touches my pussy, fingers it. But most of the time he just does the intercourse and finishes off. This does not satisfy me at all. Now the problem is, I feel shy telling him what I like. And may be he does nt like to ... (67 words)

I'm too scared to make out with my boyfriend, but I want to! What can I do?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 15 and i get nervous very easily around my boyfriend... hes had sex and has basicaly done everything i havent. but to get to the point im terrified of making out with him x_x i really want to dont get me wrong but i havent before so im afraid ill be horrible at it and s... (101 words)

We had an affair, then became just good friends. But his wife found out, so now he has stopped contacting me, and I am left heartbroken...

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive just been told its over by my best friend/ex lover. Me and this married guy had an affair about 2 years ago. It lasted for a year and then we stopped seeing each other like that. But we remained in touch. Gradually we built up a friendship, a close one, we would text and ... (312 words)

There has been some serious flirting between me and my new doctor! Now should I expect him to call or not?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After seversal visits to my new doctor and some serious chemisrty and flirting on both sides, such as you are so pretty your probably used to men hitting on you. How do you enjoy living alone now yeah I love it too! Wow you look really beautiful in blue it really brings out ... (236 words)

What is a womans perspective on a threesome? Why does my girlfriend want one?

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - What is my girlfriend looking for in a threesome? My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year. We are very close, and have a really good relationship. My girlfriend asked me if we could try a threesome with another guy (no gay stuff). She told me it would be... (184 words)

Bad things always seem to happen to me. Where is my dawn after the darkness? Will I ever find love?

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - After all this time im almost 19 and ive still never had a real girlfriend, every attempt has been littered with problems and complications that have only led me to pain. All girls have done is given large amounts of grief and emotional pain, thus i have a major amount of ... (466 words)

How do I avoid putting myself in a vulnerable position?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am anxious about sex and don't know what to do about it. I've always been nervous about it, because my family is somewhat strait-laced. Then, when I was a teenager, an old man once grabbed me in the market and kissed my cheek. That completely freaked me out, not so much ... (378 words)

He constantly makes up lies! Do you think he's cheating?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age - I am in a long distance relashionship.I am a registered nurse with two children, uprooting my life is complicated.The person I am in the relashionship with lives at home with his Grandmother,works but is not really successful.When I first met him he was a bouncer in a night ... (120 words)

Despite seeing another girl my ex says he wants to be friends...Is he being genuine?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ex lover what does he want? A long distance ex lover who i was seeing for about a year and is older than me. We split mainly due to my nervousness around getting too close and the fact i wasnt able to see him much. So i told him best we went our separate ways as i didnt see o... (213 words)

How can I fulfill my boyfriend's fantasy for him? It's not really my thing!

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner told me the other day what his fantacy is. His been wanting to tell me for ages now, but couldn't find the guts to tell me.. He told me his fantacy is to role play.. that part I don't mind, but when he told me what he wants us to be is another thing I didn't know how... (141 words)

How do we tell our families that I'm pregnant?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I'm fifteen years old and pregnant. I just found out today. My boyfriend is sixteen years old and we have a pretty rocky relationship - but all is well for the most part. My question is I don't know how to tell my family and especially my mom I'm pregnant. My mom... (212 words)

I found out I have Herpes... is there anyone that's going to accept me now?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out I have herpes...got it from the last guy I was with and am not very happy. Been in bed all day depressed, crying. I feel like my life is over and nobody will ever accept me. I was already having a hard time dating and I feel like now it's going to be even ... (76 words)

Please help me find a way to get over my ex!

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28 July 2009 (F)

age - okay...so my ex has been horrible to me...and then things finally stoped...and it got soo bad my mom had to get involved...and so i miss him...and its been almost 2 yrs and im not completly over him or us...and i dont get what i miss about him...he was really mean to me. like ... (177 words)

He said he couldn't balance a relationship whilst getting his life on track. Should I wait for him until he does?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A year ago I got out of a long term relationship and finally found a guy that made me happy. He was everything I wanted so I let all my barriers down and threw myself out there. We dated only for a couple weeks, spending every night together. I thought everything was perfect ... (166 words)

How can I move forward with my russian girlfriend... My ex won't stop harassing me!

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex-partner and I lived together for about 14 months. We had a foster child who I got along with very well and my partner showed signs of jeolousy. My partner began to become a control freak and eventually the foster child escaped. My partner then started getting angry with ... (518 words)

Why do I still miss my ex-fiance? It's been 7 months since the split and I have a new boyfriend!

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i miss my ex fiance. i dated him 3 years, in the beginning of coarse, the relationship is all good. i hear bout him sometimes, i seem like i dont care, but i care so much bout him. the last thing i heard is that hes on drugs, and hes being dumb. i think about it and blame ... (304 words)

I'm torn between two people...and my fiance said he'd commit suicide if I left! How can I tell him I'm having second thoughts?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I were planning to get married this year, but for now he's far from from me( he's working in a far place). And i met a guy on my previous job and we had a mutual understanding, I found something in this guy that I never found from my boyfriend, he's caring and ... (186 words)

The man I was dating has been cheating on me. What should I do if he contacts me?

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28 July 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I'm so sad tonight. I have been dating this guy for 4 mths. we have met families. talk everyday. He actss like a boyfriend. Things didnt add up so I surprised him tonight by showing up at his house because this morning he texted saying he would call and never did. He came to ... (145 words)

I'm fed up with my boyfriend's childish behaviour, but I don't want to end things. What can I do?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. In the past the problems we had were because I was obsessive and tended to get upset about a lot of things when I could have just let them go and been fine. My boyfriend has told me that I've gotten a lot better at ... (947 words)

What are these pains?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - is their anyone who is medically able to answer this question? i have been having pains for a long time the started just like in my ovarie area sometimes on the left sometimes on the right, for now those went away now its awful shooting pains in my vagina or at least it feels ... (121 words)

Will sex feel okay? My boyfriend has a curved penis. What will it feel like?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has a curved penis and I am wondering if the sex will be ok? It is curved downwards, and am concerned it might hurt or feel different during sex. If any ladies have been with a guy with a curved penis and can relate please do. and any guys with a curved penis if ... (81 words)

I always feel depressed and insecure without my boyfriend around. How can I become more independent?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am always feeling depressed when I am not with my boyfriend, and I already know i am insecure about myself. What can I do to become more confident and dependent of myself?... (33 words)

I've met a great man, but I suffer from uncontrollable flatulence. How do I tell him? Or should I just pass up the chance?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and have been a sufferer of uncontrollable flatulence for five years now. It has crushed me many times over for the past few years. For a while, I was ok being single. I could imagine myself spending the rest of my life alone. But recently I went on a date with this inc... (232 words)

It seems like my boyfriend only wants sex, but I don't. How do I handle this?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm 15 and I'm still a virgin and I have a boyfriend that keeps asking for sex and Im not ready for that yet...I mean like I'm ready but I just want him to wait...because the longer he wait the better my reputation be at the end.I mean I like him alot and he's only 19 yeah ... (134 words)

We were practically dating, and he told me he loved me. Now have those feelings just gone?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so heart broken. my best friend and I have always acted like we were dating. we practically were, we've just never ask each other out. he and I have been "together" since last september. I mean at first we both knew just never said our feelings. and if we hooked up with ... (335 words)

Anxiety issues - how do I find new ways of coping?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i hate this I used to be a self injurer and used to cut myself. I've been a year cut free now though. But I developed another issue dealing with self biting and technically pulling off the skin of my fingers, it's disgusting and a horrible habit. Ive had it for maybe no... (135 words)

Why no reply to my birthday text?

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - an ex spends loads of time playing little games to get my attention, she cheated on me i walked away. It was hard but i never gave her any trouble. she suddenly thinks im seeing someone else (but im not)we eneded 18 month ago. Anyway i aim to be civil etc. but she starts to ... (118 words)

Why is she distancing herself? What did I do wrong?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well, i am a girl..and i have this friend who is also a girl..we've been friends for a while now (close friends) she said i could tell her anything..in january i told that i thought i was bi,and she said it is just a phase. and then in march i said that i think i'm lesbian and ... (140 words)

Why not let me see the message? Why lie?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 27. Before we got together he used to cheat on a girl he was seeing but changed when we got together. We have been together for just under a year and he hs never cheated on me and we have a really good relationship. But the other night ... (260 words)

How can I prove that I won't do the things he did?

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl that i met on a online dating site, who originally approached me online first likes me a lot and I MEAN A LOT, probably the most a girl has ever liked me, and i like her as a person and her looks. Ive seen hundreds of pics of her and she has seen a lot of me as well, and ... (350 words)

Can I really say I love him if I have these doubts and insecurities at times?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We've been on and off for different reasons. I'm the one who called it off most of the time... Anywho, he changed so much this year (2009) that he's like a different person. He says I have changed as well. He loves me ... (155 words)

Please help, missing pieces!

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'ved dated this guy for seven years, he is the first and last person I've ever have to asked if I need or wanted something however, he has cheated twice that I know over and we've been seperated for over six months and I've began to sleep with some one he knows not out of ... (88 words)

He swears he has no feelings for me but then he says "I luv you"

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - PLEASE TRY TO READ THE WHOLE STORY. I KNOW ITS BORING BUT PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE:( here’s a guy and we are together since 2.5 yrz. our relationship was just fine before the last few months that we started to argue and quarrel A LOT nearly every other day. there we... (523 words)

I think he's still logging into his online dating profile! Help!

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend (6 months). Things are going good!! Anyways, we met online and still have our profiles up. In the beginning he had mentioned..'yeah, I should delete this profile that I hardly log into.' And as time went by I never mentioned it again nor did... (196 words)

What is it she wants from me?

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28 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a question. My ex-girlfriend had contacted me through facebook out of the blue. We haven't spoke in good terms for about 9 months. When she contacted me, I read on her facebook that she is arguing with a guy and told him that she just wants to be friends with him. ... (90 words)

I don't know what to do to stop missing him!

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28 July 2009 (F)

- I miss my ex. We were together for 3 and a half years and have been broken up for over 4 months now and haven't talked at all since we broke up. I have dated people and am seeing someone right now who just wants to date casually or whatever and I am okay with that. But of late ... (159 words)

Should I tell him I lost the necklace and earrings he gave me?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and this guy dated like 4 years ago. we dated 8xs.[we were young and dumb] the last time we broke up it was for good. i didnt get jealous when he had his first serious girlfriend, that didnt bother me at all.[i took his virginty]. and the was in 2007. then in january ... (119 words)

Should I confront him about the pictures of him partying with other girls?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 23 I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years. My sister was logged on to her facebook showing my mom pictures of my boyfriend. When we looked through them I realized there were a few incriminating photos and a video (him hanging out and partying with girls I ... (113 words)

Will I ever get over the fear of being intamate? I can't kiss

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i dont know whats wrong with me! I hate getting close to dudes, like being in a relationship. I cant stand the thought of having to be intimate with another person. Like ye sex looks good, but i can never imagine myself doing that kind of stuff you know!? Like even kissing ... (146 words)

What excercises can I do to tone my body?

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everyone, so i'm 5'3, weigh 120 pounds and i'm 15. personally, i think i need to tone up from my thighs, arms, and especially my stomach. my question is what excercises can i do to tone up your thighs, get rid of fat from under your arms, and to get a flat stomach ?? also ... (73 words)

If I don't move out I'm homeless! I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is looking at porn and cheating!

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28 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i need some help, im very scared :( me and my bf hav been together a year, im 19 and pregnant with his baby, he's lied to me in the past about where he was going, he's given me 3stds, im proper possessive over him as i suspect hes bin cheatin on me, he deletes msgs frm girl... (303 words)