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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If it's okay for men to meet visual and sexual needs through porn then surely its okay for married women to date and go on romantic outings with other men to have their romance 'needs' met?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I often hear men (and some women) claim that porn is ok for men within relationships because they are 'visual' and only seeking thrills....etc If this is the case and these people like to stereotype then the other side of this argument is that women are romance based. ... (183 words)

What could possibly be the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm only married over a year and already, to me I feel as if my marriage ruined my relationship. My husband and I are living with family until our own place is ready but we basically just share a bed. There are days we wake up pass each other, go to work, come back and go to ... (115 words)

Is it too soon to tell her how much I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I was on here a few days ago about a girl that wouldnt speak to me, anyway we talked it out and she's started speaking to me again, However is it too soon to tell her how much I like her? What's people opinions?... (45 words)

I'm so upset and hurt...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll never catch I'll be 33 years of age by ... (257 words)

I'm only 16 but I KNOW I want to marry my boyfriend. What can we do while we wait to be 18?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - We've been together for 9 months, and i know that doesn't seem like alot, and i know im too younge to think i know what love is. And i know many of you who are married or older are going to tell me i am naive and don't know what i'm getting into. But i have found the love of my ... (243 words)

What can I do about this girl who doesn't want friendship anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a problem which is starting to cause a good bit of depression in me. You see I had a friend who I talked to a lot, I considered her one of my best friends. We seemed to have fun with each other and talked a lot (An awful lot). However she's been ignoring me for a few ... (325 words)

What can I do to make my skin clearer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - i dont ahve the best skin.i get acne but i have creams for that but i want beautiful smooth soft skin like alot of girls have.what do you do?..like drink alot of water and stuff..and i bearely use any cream for my body,im too lazy.i need 2 fix myself this summer :) thanks.... (53 words)

Is it possible to stay friends when we love each other? We're both married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi if you are friends with a married man, you spend time alone together, and your friendship has quite obviously taken a turn towards being romantic; you've both admitted to each other that you want more and that you've fallen in love; he's told you that his relationship wit... (116 words)

Should I just tell her I don't want to be friends because of how shes changed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my friend have been really good friends for about 3 years now, you could say we are best friends. We've always had so much fun and have always talked about everything and it's been great. Lately however she has changed. She has become so self centered it's unbelievabl... (234 words)

Can tampons break my hymen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - can i break my hymen by inserting a tampon? i want to beak it. im a virgin and have never used tampons. but i dont know if its already broken...... (30 words)

Any ideas on how to afford the wedding of my dreams?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm a young women (22) who has in fact found the love of my life. I'm sitting here watching some wedding show. I have a single mother who lives off a fixed income. My love's parents aren't well off but have every thing they need. I have no idea how I could go about affording a ... (96 words)

Age Gap: Will she wake up one day and not be attracted to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 40 year old man with a beautiful 26 year old fiancee. We have ben together for over a year and everything is just great. Great sex life...we are very compatible in all ways. We just love being together. Although I try to ignore the age difference, it worries me. ... (127 words)

I'm so confident in everything except the bedroom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I’m really shy when it comes to sex, I usually have to know someone for quite a while before I’m comfortable sleeping with them. Only…I haven’t been with anyone in almost 5years now! – I haven’t so much as kissed a girl! I’m a fairly attractive and likable guy, I t... (354 words)

I cry because I miss my teacher so much! How can I take my mind of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey. I've recently posted about a crush on a teacher. Well. He has gone to India a while ago and I really miss him. I won't see him for another eight weeks because of summer holidays and the remanded of when he is in India. So I'll only see him again in September. I gue... (91 words)

Why can I not stop thinking about this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Why can I not stop thinking of this guy? Ok but lets call him Erik. So Erik is a really cute and nice guy. But has his moments where he is really mean. He is one of my close friends and I can talk to him whenever. But lately he has been a jerk. Like saying go away and no one ... (139 words)

He is emotionally as cold as ice. This seems to be a pattern for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need to write this stuff down otherwise ill go mad. 6 years ago i worked with my ex fiance and a guy i was very good friends with. my ex fiance and i met when i started the job. we got engaged and got a house together soon after that it went wrong. he never seemed to care... (361 words)

What can I do for my boyfriend that is special but doesn't cost much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have an amazing boyfriend and I want to do something special for him, we're going on vacation in a month so I don't have a bunch of money to spend. Any suggestions?... (33 words)

I'd like to ask my girlfriend for oral sex, but I don't want her to feel rushed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - ok well i am 14 and i want to ask my gf for a bj (blow job) idk i have give her some hints about it and stuff but idk i mean i love her and all i just kinda feel we can move on into more stuff then just kissing and hugging...idk am i rushing into stuff? i mean i dont want her ... (82 words)

My best guy friend likes me, but I'm scared to risk our friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 16; My best guy friend Ben who i've known for just over 2 years, told me the other day that he really likes me, and thinks that we could have something special. But im so worried to go any further with him incase it ruins our friendship, and can't go back to how we are now, ... (100 words)

Does she have feelings for me but maybe just doesn't feel ready to give them to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am sure my situation is common though not every part of it is common. I will try to keep this as short as possible. I have met several girls over the years on the internet. Not really ashamed of it though since I have had plenty of positive experiences. These days I m... (795 words)

He chased after me, then as soon as I got interested he seemed to quit. Why? What did I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I started Talking to this guy almost a year ago. We met in school but didn't see each other much and mainly talked on facebook. This past spring, I was really busy with school and wasn't too romantically interested in him so I never really answered his phone calls or messages ... (281 words)

He wants me to talk dirty...what do I say??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My man wants me to talk dirty to him - what do i say exactly?... (15 words)

I'd like to have a baby but I have some concerns...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I am 24 and would like to start trying for a baby in a year. I am in grad school currently, and will be very financially secure when I am done. My question is, how do I tell my boyfriend? He is 10 yrs older than I am, and had a baby while he was in hs, who now l... (184 words)

I've never had sex, but I've masturbated before and bled. Am I still a virgin or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, i was wondering about my virginity. I masturbated a lot when i was a teenager but not as often now. The reason i stopped was i bled a little when i inserted a handle into my vagina.then tonight i decided to try masturbating using ice. the thing is, the ice isnt all the way ... (140 words)

I have an enormous jealousy issue!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - long explanation but here it goes...childhood for me was not great. parents split when i was 5. was back and forth between the 2 till 11yrs old. i watched my mother marry ten times(yes i said 10) and my father i think 3 or 4. i said that to say this, i love this man i have bee... (253 words)

We're having oral sex problems...help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Kind of a weird problem, but I need help. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half, and this problem started about a month ago. We have sex every day and recently I haven't been able to give him oral, not at all, the thought of it actually makes me nearly ... (136 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to miss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I love my boyfriend very much. He also loves me. Actually he is a rude guy but very cute. He is my life and everything. We started our relation in 2007. So its 2 years that we are with each other. At the beginning he used to call me and talk to me for hours. He was very weak ... (365 words)

How can we make up and be friends again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I sent a text to my friend one afternoon to find out if she fancied meeting up that evening if we were both free. She was at work and so I didn't expect a reply, if any til she finished. At the same time, I was at my Mum's boyfriend's place, round the corner from her and ... (162 words)

Why is she saying it won't last forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I have been going out with this amazing girl from 4 months now and we have been doing stuff and had our up and downs but recently she has said we arnt going to last forever, we are both fifteen and i know we might not but i told her i still want to try, but i dont know why she ... (137 words)

Can homosexuals practice tantric sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Is tantric sex only for heterosexuals? can lesbians/gays practise tantric sex? any guidance? i dont wish to buy any books or videos....... (22 words)

Did I break his heart for no reason? I feel like a bad person...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Am I a BAD person ? I know this might look long but pls take the time to read it. I am currently 19yrs old and I got with my ex bf when I was 14yrs we went out for 4 yrs and although we did have problems in our relationships we were kinda okay. However, last sept I went to u... (272 words)

What can I do to sort out our friendship again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hello :)Okay, so recently a friend of mine said that he really liked me, I, unfortunately, didn't feel the same way back as I like another guy. He said he was okay with this, although pretty upset. I asked him if we could still stay such good friends and he agreed, although ... (132 words)

Should I call her or wait until she's done with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi lately i keep dreaming about my ex gf. We went out for almost 3 years and we broke up (I believe we were so much in love when we together). Btw I'm 25 and she is 22. First she tried to work things out between us but I didnt want it because I was being dumb to realize how ... (410 words)

My girlfriend is hanging out with a friend who is a bad influence! How can I stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Well Ive been together with this girl for almost a year and I love her a lot. I always am there for her I always make her nice dinners, and take care of her when she's sick and stuff. She always tells me she loves me and would always listen to me. I told her not to hangout with ... (213 words)

Why is she being so on/off with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I've been going out with a girl for a week now, so before anybody says it, I know it's early days. I'm 20 and she is 21 and I've known her for just over 4 years now and we've always liked each other but we very, very rarely saw each other, mainly spoke through texts or... (348 words)

My situation with this boy has me depressed. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey :) i am quite depressed and very confused about what I should do here. Please help if you can thanks. I have never had a serious boyfriend except for a few months last year going out with a guy, but that was very minor and relaxed. I'm not a very confident person anyway, ... (374 words)

I'm going through a bad patch with my husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 31 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im going through a bad patch with my husband. we got married a some months ago and i had to move back home for the last 3 month as hes been getting the new place decorated. the problem is he says he doesnt want to see me until the flat is complete (he says he doesnt have any... (164 words)

How do I escape this silly routine and take the plunge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

My wife and I have too many disagreements! I feel like not having sex with her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, My wife and I have been married for almost 17 years. We have three great boys. The relationship has had arguments in between, but I think it is normal. Lately, I have not felt like making love to my wife. It's not that I am having an affair; it's just that I don't fe... (175 words)

I thought my husband was working in a call centre or factory...but he is a lap dancer in a gay club!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I found out off a long-time family friend (male) of ours, who's a taxi-driver, about my husband's nightshift job. We've been married for 3 months now. I am aware that my husband worked nights, he changed job to a nightshift one a year-and-a-half ago, being the n... (338 words)

She wants us to remain friends, I'd like to ask her for sex...but how will she react?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i love her but she want us to remain as best friends, she sleeps in my house and vice-versa, we do a lot of things together, we kiss, but i am afraid to ask her for sex because i don't know how she will react...what do i do? ... (48 words)

I'm worried incase he thinks I'm only interested in younger guys!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was divorced 4 years ago. I dated a guy afterwards for almost 3 years. Now, I have been alone for over a year. A man at work has been really nice to me and he is very attractive, but I think I might have given him the idea that I am only interested in younger guys. He is ... (230 words)

Ladies...regarding sex, how much is enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ladies How much sex is enough? Is more always better, time-wise or orgasm-wise, or do you get to a point where you're feeling "enough's enough, I need to get some sleep or I need to go shopping" .... let's assume for the sake of argument, that it is good sex. Obviousl... (79 words)

Dumped by my married lover...will I ever get over it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How long will it take me to get over being dumped by my married lover? I know it was wrong and I never should have got involved but I fell for all the old cliches. My wife and I only share a bed. I'm leaving next year. We are like brother and sister. You have changed my life ... (284 words)

Ejaculation Confusion?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i had dry sex with my boyfriend. he Ejaculate on my thong but he also had his boxers on. i am a few days late on my monthly period. am i pregnent?... (35 words)

His new gf doesn't want me around him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

- Thanks for all who help here. I just ran into my ex and his new girlfriend at breakfast when I was out for breakfast with my friend. He looked sheepish and she just kept shooting looks that could kill my way. She has always been that way with me...defiant and hostile and I have ... (129 words)

He loves me dearly now...but he said cheated on me a year ago!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age - So, ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years. the first few years were amazing, we were so inlove, everything was wonderful sunshine and lollipops. All of a sudden things started going down hill, i was having family problems, and i was feeling quite depressed and my boyfriend ... (673 words)

I need advice with my period

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - ok i have not satarted my period yet i am 13 but my chest are almost b cup and they are lopsided big time is this natrual... (27 words)

My life is a like a tv show!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - My life is like a t.v. show it all started 2 years ago wen my parents got a devorse and my dad won custody and my mom moved in with a gurl named doc (she is a lesbian) and i started thinking my mom was a lez then my dad found a new websit for dating china women and he went to ... (194 words)

He says he feels horrible and is all mixed up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - what does it mean when a man who feels really down and has a lot on his mind finishes with you. then texts and says he feels horrible, all mixed up and just feels low? please help im confused? x... (40 words)

How do I get my family to accept him?

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I know that I am old enough to make my own decisions but having my family support me is a huge deal for me. I am 26 and just recently separated from by husband of 6 years. We hhave 2 children 31/2 and 18 months. When my youngest son was hositalized this past winter, we had a... (145 words)

I just want opinions....I'm in love with my teacher

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok. Quickly summed up. I am a 14 year old student and I have fallen in Love with a teacher at my school. He doesn't teach me for anything because he teaches Spanish and I do French. Although I go to badminton after school and he does that. At school it is common knowled... (302 words)

Should I keep her a secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Recently i just started getting into relationship with a girl i like. I Don't know if i should reveal it to my close group of friends. One reason is because my girlfriend ex-boyfriend is one of my friend also but this friend is not in my group of very close friends. What shou... (75 words)

We're both married but want to be with each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi there! i am 24 and i get married when i was 21 with a older man 12yrs age gap.now im working abroad i find this another guy which i fell in love and he is more than my husband.in responsibilities, caring for me and also in bed. he is also married. he wants to marry in prope... (131 words)

Husband has gym addiction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband told me I should get a sex buddy on the side because he's not into sex for now. He insisted sex would affect his ability to do well in the gym. I asked him why, and he said there's no-one else, he's just become TOO addicted to the gym, even taking days here an... (176 words)

Will my husband know I lost my virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i was 12 wen i lost my virginity..my periods had not started by that time...now i am 26 and worried that when i get married,will my husband come to know that i have lost my virginity?plz suggest.... (37 words)

I can't continue sleeping with someone who doesn't want a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been dating this guy for almost two years on and off. He has problems with smoking pot and used to promise he would eventually stop but it only has gotten worse. I even moved in with him under the condition that he would not smoke anymore. I was very hurt and dissapointed ... (178 words)

She says we are too close to be lovers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - there is this girl i have known for 3years, we have been good friends, we share everything, she know a lot about me and i know a lot about her too. she always tell me that i am her best friend. i love her but i never told her until recently, i want to go beyond just friends, ... (121 words)

My 12 year old stepson is constantly touching me and my husband says to "ignore it"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a stepson, 12, who is constantly touching me, rubbing against me and begging to kiss my feet. We don't live together, but this is very disturbing, even on weekends. I alerted his father about this, but he is living in denial, thinking that this is just a phase. The boy ... (256 words)

I don't want to make things awkward but I like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok, ready for a novel? Well about 2 1/2 years ago a I met a girl. We became really close throughout time spent talking, basically telling each other anything with complete trust. We became best friends but i kept having feelings for her Unfortunately I kept them to myself. She ... (400 words)

How do I deel with a manipulative mother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi all! :) I've got a few issues revolving around my mother and I, and I would appreciate any advice given to me, because I don't know how long I can continue living like this. I am 19 this year, and my mother is driving me nuts. I cannot tell you how many times she has sa... (1446 words)

White discharge and my mom doesn't know what it is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - OK i am a virgen and i have not started my period yet but i am having some discharge down in my privets i don't know wut it is it is white no smell idk wut it is i asked my mom she has no clue and my best friend she has it to we don't know wut it is (she has started) i am 13 79 ... (82 words)

I think I still like him but not sure if he likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i'm confused and i really need help please someone help me out.this guy used to like me and he asked me out and i said yes but after a few weeks i told him that were are more like friends cuz we never kissed or went out so i told him that and he said i broke up wit him and past ... (521 words)

How long does it take for hormone level to return to normal after pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Have a quetion that's not really a relationship question but would like answers please! I was wondering if anyone knows how long it take for your hormon leavel to get back to normal after having a baby? The reason is my daughter is 2 1/2 months old, I took a pregnancy test a ... (138 words)

I've been single for 8 months and I hate it!

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive been single for 8 months now and i havent had sex. I dont do one nite stands neuer had one never will. Ive only ever had longterm relationships.of 5 years and 3 year im 26 I dont want a one nite stand because that is not me having random sex with a stranger! Im am getting ... (239 words)

I'm trying to be friends with him first but I really fancy him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - There's this boy in my form I really fancy. Aparently, he used to have a massive crush on me too. Unfortunately, I don't know if he still feels the same way. I'd ask him out if I had the confidence. He's not quite good-looking or anything, but he's pretty amazing, and funny. ... (75 words)

Ex keeps contacting me and he was a real jerk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i just cant explain how i feel at the moment. My ex finished with me 4months ago over a txt but has been trying to get bk with me since. Hes quite abusive, for example calling me names such as a slut and punching walls, kicking bins over, when i was just laffing with this ... (363 words)

What do girls think of a man who cries?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - alright hi girls this for you: what do you think of man who cries ( emotional person) can you be with him, do you think he is weak I can't be with such a person or ... tell me, what if he cries for you, beg u ... ... (50 words)

He says I've cheated because "it doesn't fit right anymore"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a sex question. Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 years, he is the only person I've ever slept with- about 6 months ago when he have sex my vagina started making a "farting" noise- used to it would only do this in doggie style. For one, is this normal? And two, ... (111 words)

I'm 16, she's just 14 and I'm falling hard!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey i just turned 16. i went to a party a few nights ago and met a very nice girl. very mature acting just being part of the crowd. little did i know she is only 13 and turning 14. she suprised everyone at the bonfire with her age, i mean nobody guessed she was that age. we ... (139 words)

Wife left and after 2 months, she still isn't home

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I seem to have a massive problem with my wife. She left after the death of a pet. She is living with a family member and doesn't want me visiting the house. There is no reason for this as far as I can see other than we recently had a pet pass away. The death was an ugl... (847 words)

We keep calling each other for stupid things but aren't getting back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - To start off, let me tell you I am sending this from my cell phone. So I apologize for mispunctuation LOL. I'm going to make this to the point the best I can. December of 07 I start seeing a girl, never knowing she will end up being the girl I never want to live without. ... (446 words)

Friend is super annoying and I don't want to be her friend anymore

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay, so my friend is SO annoying! She was so nice last year, and now she acts like shes trying to fit in. -she acts like she knows everybody and that shes everybodys friend. and lots of the people she talks to dont even like/talk about her. -she takes EVERYTHING serious... (329 words)

Is she afraid of comitment again?

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4 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I've dated a girl for 3 years, we recently broke up in January of 09, we haven't talked for 4 months, and I messaged on her on myspace, because I really saw that she was down, with no intentions of getting back with her, as we talked we got a little serious and started to see ... (226 words)

Father doesn't want crush to date me!

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i'm currently crushing on my older brother's best friend, who also likes me. my big brother is completley ok with it the only problem is my step father. he is also friends with my crush. as far as my step parent knows my crush and i are merely friends but i know he suspects ... (89 words)

I'm scared I'm going to wind up just like my sister did!

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - k so i just turned 18 and just had a grad party and the night of my grad party my boyfriend and i had protected sex. i had my period the day before we did anything but im still really scared. i havent had my period since then and my mom found out and is really scaring me and ... (151 words)

Isn't there a rule about friends not dating each other's ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - so i had this boyfriend a two years ago. we dated for a year, before i knew he had cheated on me with his co worker, i found out n broke up with him.. at the time his dad had passt away n mom was not very well, i gave my condoleses n told him he coulnt play games and has to ... (485 words)

I want to use a vibrator but it hurts so much!

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay so im a virgin and i dont masterbait very often and when i do i just use my hands but today i disided to see how big my hole was (idk it was a random thaught). So i started to slide the vibrator in but about an inch in it began to hurt worse than anything i have ever ... (90 words)

I'm pregnant, but I don't want him to get in trouble.

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I am 15 and I'm pregnant with my boyfriend that is four years older than me i need help i don't want him to go to jail i live in florida he wants to be there for me and the baby and he plans to marry me i love him to death is there anything i can do? My parents always pressure ... (95 words)

How can I move on?

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4 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My gf has recently dumped me, i reali loved her.. but theres no point going back, trying to get bak is only straining things further, Ill stay friends with her because before we started dating, there was a strong foundation in commonality in personality. How do i move on wit... (145 words)

We had a fight over a little game, Is it over?

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4 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - i'm 22 and my girl is 19. we had a fight few hours ago. it's because of 1 silly thing, a game... she's a moody person, she changed too fast from nice and lovely to nasty and bad. i don't even know if i said bad or wrong words to her. as far as i know i just wrote im sorry fo... (446 words)

Is her new guy a bandaid or is she playing mindgames with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So, my girlfriend and I of two years broke up. the last year we were living together. We got into a fight and she left the house didn't come home that night. first time she ever did that in a fight. everything was going good the weeks before. I found out she cheated on me. she ... (733 words)

Brother molested me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - when i was 5 years old my parents went out for a couple of hours so my oldest brother who is 14 was baby sitting me and my 6 year old brother, we were all in my parents room watching tv and my oldest brother told my younger brother to go down stairs for a while, sadly he did. ... (951 words)

Irregularities with my period make me worry I might be pregnant after unprotected sex, what should I do?

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I had unprotected sex on May 25, 2009 and I got my period expectedly on June 18, 2009. But it wasn't normal; it was very light and all of the blood was brown. Now it is July 3, 2009 and I just got my period again but now my period is normal. I'm afraid I might be pregnate and ... (85 words)

Do girls prefer the scruffy hair look or the clean cut short hair look, which do they think is sexier?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - do girls prefer scruffy hair look, or clean, cut short hair in guys? what is it they find sexy about it? im fairly short (174cm) and oval shaped head, blonde hair.. ... (35 words)

I need some guidance to win him back

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hey guys, i feel like shit to put it bluntly, and by shit i mean real low, and ive felt like this on and off since valentines day, i had a boyfriend of 8month and we split up the day after valentines day. we were on and off and both lost are virginities to each other. At first... (466 words)

My heart is broken in pieces I really need help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend broke up with me this week and it's being so hard to get over the whole situation for me because it ended up in really hurtful terms, he seemed like he didn't care hurting my feelings, he broke my heart in pieces, but after all that he calmed down and he told me he ... (304 words)

My Voyeuristic Boyfriend

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been friends for a few years, and have been dating for a few months, and he confessed something to me that I'm not sure how to respond to and not sure what to think about. He told me about his voyeuristic tendencies and that in the past he has spie... (98 words)

Does my guy friend like me?

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I need some advice about my guy friend.I need to know if he likes me. My guy friend is really nice to me only.Well,we met through my brother at first i didnt think he liked me but he knew i liked him.So he tried to aviod me.After a few years later he started to get closer to ... (107 words)

I miss my teacher very much, he moved to Chicago, what can I do to stop crying?

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4 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I miss my favorite teacher. It is summer and I cry at night thinking about him. I always said bye to him after school. I had one dream about him,but I am not gay. He moved to Chicago I always wonder if he is okay. I need help because I feel like I can't live without seenig him. ... (75 words)

Should I meet her anyway or can I win her back?

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4 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey...I was in or at least hoping still in a long distance relationship. My girl and i have been in a long distance relationship for 7 months now and lately she been losing her feelings for me. She said that she found another guy. I'm coming back in a week to see her (we ... (93 words)

I don't want to lose my friend

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4 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, this is appu. i m best friend of a girl, since 3 years. she had a bf since 8 years.frm the very last year, she is not giving time to me, earlier we talk on net and on phone regularly , but now since 6 months she looks to change now she talks 2 me once or twice in a week.... (118 words)

I feel so ashamed of what I did...what is wrong with me?

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - While I was broken up with my current boyfriend, I panicked and called one of my ex boyfriends to see if he can take me back. At that time, I was not sure whether I really love my current boyfriend and thought that my attraction to him was immature, purely physical, or I w... (182 words)

I'm not sure if I am ready...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I just started dating this guy i have liked for 3 years and he lives 30 min. away fro me and so we can't see eachothe as often as we like and we are going to hange out on mon. and i am 13 and all my friends are having sex but not me and he asked if we could make love but i am ... (88 words)

I'm 21 and asked her out then found out she's 26!!! Will this be a problem?

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4 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I met this girl thats really nice and funny, and after a couple times of talking i asked her to get dinner and she said yes, so we set up a date for tommorow and all seems well but i found out today that she is 26 years old, I am only 21, is this a major problem? Granted i... (173 words)

Was this really nothing, or is she the most ridiculous person ever? Why is she like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I don't know if this is a bigger deal that it should be? My girlfriend is kind of shy, but also kind of picky. People tease her about both these things sometimes, even I do. I think she might have a complex, but I honestly don't understand why she is like this. I don't be... (731 words)

Can a selfish person change at all??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

4 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I have been seeing a woman for the last 7 months. This woman has a had a hard life with her family, having been thrown out of home by her mother at 18 and forced to pay for her studies, finding a place to live and making a career for herself without help. I ... (1077 words)

Age gap... can it REALLY work?

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4 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I met a girl.... I'm not yet emotionally overcommitted but i seek your wisdom.. before i begin to allow those sorts of things to build I'm separated.... and most women ive dated have been my age, almost all of them. I have had a few flings with some gals aged 30/32 ... (492 words)

How do I use tampons?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hey im a girl and im a virgin. never even used tampons. i want to but im scared i'll faint cause i read that somewhere. im so afraid of passing out! so any pointers on inserting tampons? also how do i masturbate? like what do i do? what feels really good? possibe orgasm? ... (56 words)

What can I do to cum sooner?

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4 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - What can I do to cum sooner? I'm 52 gf is 34 I take cialus and still most times can't cum in her she has a great pussy, help me if maybe I don't jack off or have sex for 3 months I might cum in a few min but otherwise no! Help!... (55 words)

Is this normal... or not?

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4 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Tell me if this is normal or not. I am a 14 year old girl who occasioally likes watching sex scenes from movies... Not real dirty ones just ones that make me " hot" if you will. Some of you may know how it feels ... How good it feels when you are watching tv and people are ... (101 words)