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writes:Why do exes ignore you and avoid you at all costs after they have said we can be mates? . .. My ex has recently got together with a chick it broke my heart knowing he's moved on but it hurts a lot more that he's out of my life ..after we broke up he wanted to sleep with me.. he used to text me and everything but since hes gotten with her he avoids me and if he does see me he doesnt say anything and just turns the other way. The mpost annoying part was when he saw my family he asks how I am and if I'm still liking my work but yet he can't face me and ask me himself. I texted him a weeek ago but he never replied but when he saw my sister he brought it up. Why is he doing it? Is it because he knows how much he has hurt me or is he really just a gutless weiner? Also 2 months ago he wanted to sleep with me even when he had a girlfriend but he told me she was his world. I refused because I hate cheaters. Ever since then he's given me the cold shoulder and I dont exist and why would he always update his facebook status saying how much he was looking forward to seeing her and stuff like that. Is he doing it to spite me or is he just an idiot? Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): If he is giving you the cold shoulder because you refused to have sex with him...well, I think there is your answer. It sounds to me like he wants to keep you somewhere in his life incase he feels like asking you for sex. But he doesn't want an emotional connection with you, or a relationship, which is why he ignores and avoids you.
I think he is being selfish here, and you can do a lot better than him. He is asking you for sex even though he has a girlfriend? That in itself says he can't be trusted.
You deserve to be treated better than this, so I would advise you to try and forget about him and move on. x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (30 July 2009):
 I wouldn't waste any more time wondering about this guy. Time to focus on you and your life. Most people can't remain friends with their ex's especially after a painful breakup. It's over.
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