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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Friends verses lovers...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy and we became extremely good friends especially since we had so many things in common. He was seeing a girl but it wasn't working out. The girl was jealous because we used to hang out a lot but we were just friends. Eventually we both realised that we had ... (375 words)

Friend is saying stuff behind my back, is this a good friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm not gonna mention real names so the friend I'm disliking will be "A" and the friend I like will be friend "B" and I'm "M" Okay so I sent my boyfriend a "naughty" picture and I know it was wrong, and illegal, but I don't want to hear that and don't worry I stopped ... (574 words)

If things don't go the way he wants it then he gets mad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I just need opinions! Heres what its about. Well i have a boyfriend and ive been going out with him for ten months now, but the big problem is that he treats me like his little B**ch. See he sais its all because his ex girlfriend cheated on him that he was so in love with her... (259 words)

I don't think he realises that these lies to his mother are starting to erode my trust in him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 2 years. He is in his mid thirties. He is currently working extremely hard to save enough money so that we can move in together. However, there is one problem that I don't know how to approach. When my partner goes out for a few drinks with ... (403 words)

I want to help my alcholic friend but don't know how! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who I believe is an alcoholic. She drinks when she gets up, she drinks every evening. She admits to she drinks too much. She told he she’s always had a problem, despite my best efforts I don’t know what to do, I’m not getting through. Her doctor is surprised ... (88 words)

I cant stop thinking about my ex-girl. Should I act on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my girlfriend after 3 years of ups and downs. I really loved her, but I felt it was the best thing to do given how she was treating me at the time. Funny thing is, I can't stop thinking about her. I tried to date other girls in the meantime, but can't stop ... (187 words)

My ethnicity seems to keep me from finding a girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i'm chinese and i live in the uk. I'm a gentleman and a nice lad but i can't seem to find a girlfriend as most girls don't seem to be interested in me due to my ethnicity and not my personality. i'm pretty outgoing and get on well with a lot of people. ... (54 words)

Found out he's going on holiday without me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age - I found out that my boyfriend may be going on holiday. He did not ak me or anything. Our relationship has been struggling. I called him pretending not to know and told him I was planning on going to the same place. He did not say anything. I called again a few days late... (150 words)

I'm loney and need to move on from my ex...Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im lonely, I still talk to my ex even though I shouldn't and he told me hes going to America for 2 weeks on holiday with his girlfriend and even though its been a year and half since he dumped me it felt like a kick in the guts. I want to meet another guy but I just don't go ... (95 words)

He says he "can't" love or care about me because of his past. How do I stop caring about this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing this guy for 9 months we have never been out on a date we just have sex, he tells all about his past relationships, I love him and don't want to love him because I don't believe he loves me because he has never said it neither does he shows it. He says it's ... (85 words)

How do I get over him when this is happening?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help. I have no idea what to do, or what to think, or what to feel. I met this guy a couple of months ago in a parking lot at a car shop that I was at with my best friend. The moment we saw each other across the way, there was this inexplicable connection. People a... (1122 words)

He really likes me and is telling my friends he wants to ask me out but I like someone else... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have got myself into a really awkward position. Basically this guy I went out with last year likes me again and was trying to find our from my friends if I like him, so when my friends asked me I told them to tell him that I think I like him, but I don't want to be in a ... (142 words)

He's now dating BOTH of us! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating my boyfriend 2 years ago and he told me he has a girlfriend but based on the girl's attitude he wants to breakup the relationship but all those times they had a quarell and i thought it will soon be over but the girl kept calling and texting to come back. ... (142 words)

What are the best ways to act when you know your crush is watching you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What are the best ways to act when you know your crush is watching you? I know that sometimes my crush watches me when we are in lessons or when we're in the same corridor and it might sound a little creepy to some but it's fine with me.... I just dont know how to act... c... (70 words)

My family relationships are falling apart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since my boyfriend moved back to my home town. I've been rebelling with my family. My family doesn't approve, so ever since then my mom has been trying to keep me on a leash, so I rebel even more. She changed my curfew an hour less, and always acts as if I am a little ki... (162 words)

When do you think I got pregant? Having trouble figuring out the conception date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, i just found out that i am pregnant. i went for a sonogram and the sonogram showed 6w6d and gave me a due date of feb 16 2010. and i figured that up and on or around the 12th is when i would have gotten pregnant. right? anyways i know that i had sex on the 26th of april ... (173 words)

He gives me false hope along with broken promises....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I hate the way i feel. Basically i have been in a relationship on/off 4 3yr years. I was madly in love with this man so much. But all i ever wanted was more time and attention from him! Im confused bout how he felt 4 me. We were so intense. So attracted to each other i never ... (421 words)

Do you really think they like me or are they just being jerks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i've been through a lot this summer and its hard to be happy with all the dramma. pertty much i was dumped by my bf and almost everyong(literally) on facebook hate me. i dont kno y, but lots of ppl tend to call me a transexual? these guys from my school(who r my age/grade and r ... (260 words)

Am I getting an orgasm? I can't even tell with the vibrator.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend so much, everything is amazing. there is one thing though, i don't seem to be able to get an orgasm.. atall. i've never had an orgasm through sex EVER. i've had three sleeping partners, one who i was with for 11 months and the guy i am with now i have ... (154 words)

I want to lose about a stone. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey ! :D i am a really insecure person and i know i need to loose weight but i dont know how ? i want to loose about a stone? is that possible but the things is i want to loose it fast?? no rude comments please just your feedback ! thanks :D... (64 words)

Orgasm, sexuality, and urine pain: can anyone help answer these questions I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i have this feeling where i need to go for a wee all the time but when i dont pass urine, but when i do it stings alot, so much!! what is it? im a woman, with a boyfriend of nearly 2 years who i am totally in love with, thing is, in sex, he doesnt make me orgasm u... (133 words)

Why do I want to throw up when I remember my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this problem..all my friends say i lost a lot of weight. I just got out of a relationship and I know that this is the reason. Its not that I don't have an appetite to eat. I do have!! The problem is when I start to eat, I remember my ex and I feel like vomiting. It's ... (308 words)

Boyfriend that drinks too much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am crazy about my boyfriend but he drinks too much. have told him I dont want to be around him when he drinks because he is really unpleasant and he always argues with me. we had a row a few days ago because he was drunk now he ignoring me and saying Im being unfair and will ... (72 words)

Can someone that cheats change their ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I'd like your advice/to hear from your experiences about whether someone who cheats can change their ways. My bf and I have been together 5 years, and I recently found out he's been texting random women explicit pics/messages (from an adult text dating ... (252 words)

Should I make appointments for relaxation for both of us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I make appointments for a day of relaxation for both of us? Or is it too much too soon? Okay, so I've been in a relationship with this great guy (6 months dating). Anyways, we planned a weekend get-away..and I just thought 'Hey, why not book appointments for... (180 words)

Should I go out with my BF and risk the social awkwardness or say no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has just invited me out to a "works night out". He has just started working at the place. This is the first time i have been invited to one, normally he doesn't bother asking. I would love to go but i am a bit worried about a couple of things. First is that ... (270 words)

I like him but he just wants to be friends, how can I get him off of my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i'm 16. i've like this guy so almost a year now. we almost went out but then decided to just stay friends. i really really like him, but he's not interested in me. anyway i tryed to get over him, but i can't, its just to hard. i can't stop thinking about him. i've even cryed ... (154 words)

Help me please - I haven't heard from him since yesterday! I'm so worried!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am currently in a long distace relationship with a guy in florida.. We have never met, Anyway yesterday he was at the theme park .. and he sent me a message saying "hey i can't text much but i am going home very soon and i will call you" and i sent one back saying ... (171 words)

Should I satisfy my desires or should I finally tell my husband about my cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a realationship for almost 8 yrs, I got married to this person just this yr and have been ok untill now. We have had our up's and down's throughout the relationship,my husband is a very possesive person and he is jealous of just about any guy that I talk to and ... (193 words)

Does he like me? I'm going crazy not knowing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I work in a mall in a popcorn stand and in the kiosk in front of me there is this really cute guy that i like. At the beginning I would stare and catch him turning to look at me then look away. I made the first move to start talking. Now if I'm looking his way he looks, smiles ... (139 words)

How can I take my mind off boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - heeey x Im 13 and I find myself thinking about boys alot. I really just want to be a normal girl. Im having mood swings lately but it doesn't mean i have gone off boys. Im always thinking about different boys and then i become obssessed and they are always on my mind. Then th... (180 words)

This is really creepy - my boyfriend and his friends are following me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi-I just want some opinions on a creepy situation-I have this boyfreind I've known for about 4 years,I don't see him very often and I've heard him talking on the phone to other women-baisically,he is definately seeing other people,I've known for ages and am not looking at the ... (289 words)

I'm pregnant and alone - he became a monster!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 years old and met my ex-boyfriend working. A few months after dating he became a monster i was living with him because i was going through some financial problems. He became very physical with me and i ended up leaving him going to Georgia with my aunt. He ended up ... (243 words)

Should I do unpaid, volunteer work to help my c.v.?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am a first year student, 21 years old and I am now off Uni for the Summer and looking for PART-TIME work i cant seem to find a job in my town. I have applied everywhere but they say although Im well educated I dont have retail experience (just 3 months work placement e... (152 words)

How can I find a good relationship counselor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in Western Australia and wondering how do you go about finding a relationship councillor for myself and my boyfriend? I contacted Relationships Australia but we can't see someone from there for many weeks and I really don't want to wait that long, or is there generally ... (83 words)

Why do guys only want me sexually?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Its kind of annoying, I am 22 years old and I just want to be in a relationship (one day that is). I do not have any experience when it comes to dating and its like...no one wants to take a look at my "resume" I am extremely quiet, shy, kind...but I do not open up to just ... (171 words)

They're only 3 days broken up, but I'm falling for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OKay a friend of a friend of mine, has just broken up with his girlfriend about 3 days ago, and me and the girl are really good mates, were proper close, anyway the problem is that even without flirting with each other there seems to be this huge atraction betweens us, it feels ... (142 words)

Stuck all day in the house doing housework and tending the baby! He gets stoned and plays video games

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i need someones advice on this,, me and my partner have been together for 4 years we have an 11 month old, my boyfriend doesnt work because he has stomach problems and he smokes cannabis daily, hes 26 and im 20 , thing is i like to keep my house tidy and i do alot of ... (240 words)

Should I stay friends or ask him about us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question to ask you, I am 22 years old and there is a certain someone at my school that I am into. He is confident, outgoing, nice to everyone and very talented. I really want to get to know this guy, the only way I can get in touch with him is through facebook. Du... (263 words)

I'm on the Pill but we don't use condoms, could I still get pregnant?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i'm sophie, 16 right so i've been on the pill for nearly 6 months now and everytime me and my fiancé have sex we don't use a condom. Can i still get pregnant? i'm slightly worried. please help.... (42 words)

He thinks a threesome will save our relationship, but will he lose respect for me instead?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of about a year wants a threesome. (If you have read my other post, you might laugh and think it is a crazy idea.) Last week he said he would like to have a threesome. Since we do not know anyone to do it with it is mostly all fantasy at this point. Initiall... (451 words)

How can I make the most out of this LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, Thank you for all the help you've given me for the past year or so, i truly thank you for reading and understanding. The situation is i'm currently with my girlfriend for almost 1 and a half years now. Something unfortunate came and I was forc... (273 words)

I lied and now I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Complicated situation and I need help. I had been seeing this girl for almost a year. We were in love. However, we had some rough moments lately and a month ago we hit rock bottom. She went out with her friends on a random thursday night and got really really drunk. T... (276 words)

He's had more partners and yet I'm the slut!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of about one year cannot cope with the fact that I have a sexual past, yet he tells he doesn't want a virgin. We love each other dearly and talk of a married future with children, but he cannot refrain from these outbursts which are verbally, emotionally, and as ... (345 words)

Bored with the relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for the last year and we get along fine, but lately I've been getting bored with the relationship. We were away from each over for 2 months and missed each other terribly, and I've been back for three weeks now, and things have suddenly become s... (245 words)

Any baby name ideas that go well with Gerrard?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I know you lot are a clever bunch so thinking you could help us out here :) i've been thinking of baby names, and would like to use my late grandfathers name as a middle name, which is Gerrard, but I want it to go with manson, which'll be the first middle name, ... (94 words)

Genital warts..how do I know I don't have the virus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 4 months told me he got genital warts and he thinks i gave it to him hes the only guy ive had unpertected sex with and im confused on how i could have gave it to him.... do i have hpv already? but i dont have any warts at all i havent had any signs of them ... (128 words)

I can please my gf but she can't please me, anyone else been in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - so my girlfriend i have sex everyday and after it we just lay in bed for a bit and then she will jerk me off and blow me the problem is its feels great but i don't burst for her and she gets upset and i feel really crappy about it i can please her but she cant please me at all ... (68 words)

I think I have limerence and want to get over him, what can I do?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dealing with limerence. I have already posted 2 questions and this extends on from them. After listening to the agony aunts so far, I believe I have limerence, which is like an extreme love over someone, another boy. If you check wikipedia, for the symptoms, I match all... (183 words)

Am I rushing the relationship too quick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) age 51-59 - been with my feller for 5 mths hes been going home cuming bk to see me, we are living apart at the momment wants me to live up north.I have got 2 tennagers im looking after its not fair to leave school has the only got couple more years before they leave school. Do u think hes ... (92 words)

My boyfriend is too big, but we can't not have a sex life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im gay and I love my boyfriend so much, but sex is extremely painful! iv been with other guys before, and iv never had a problem, but his HOOHAA is too big for me to take in....... I love him way too much, but we cant not have a sex life? how do i solve this? what can i do?... (61 words)

Someone please help! I don't know what to do about my ex-boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I broke up with my boyfriend that I have been seeing on and off for the past 4 years he treated me terrible not just terrible but how noone should ever be treated! he sprayed me in the face with pepper spray, he slit all my tires, he called me all the names in the book and i ... (203 words)

Am I just a jealous mess, or do I have a good reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so basically i don't know if i'm just a jealous mess, or whether i have reasons or not? i love my boyfriend to bits, but he always seems to have one better than me, he goes on about how unlucky he is when he goes on a holiday every single year, ive been on two. he al... (375 words)

I hurt her by fooling around on SMS, help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i love my lecturer and she loves me too... we are more than sisiter and brother both are non separable but i hurt her by fooling through sms she is upset but she is not expressing it how shall i convince her??? please for god sake help me. i love her a lottttt more than ... (62 words)

For him: oral sex while he watches porn. For me: 3 minutes, no kissing, no passion. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I live with a guy for almost a year we have had are share of troubles. At first he said he didnt love me but he has grow to love me but we never have sex maybe once a month but he always wants me to give him oral sex everyday while he watchs porn. I have needs and when I tell ... (82 words)

I really like her, and I hope someone can tell me what is going on inside her head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - yesterday i poseted "did i scare her away" and it seemed like no she came over to my place again last night with the origanl crowd that was there from previous night however, last night wen she got there she wouldnt even look me in the eyes and then began texting and calling ... (184 words)

What is my cousin's wife trying to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a situation some years ago, I really loved this guy before and he kept lying to me that he was forced into a marriage but he really loved me, and I was stupid to believe him... So at the time my cousin and his wife were not married then..they were having problems ... (669 words)

Why won't she let us move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My question is complex, but here goes, me and my girlfriend of 12 years always argue and break up, our relationship is not a happy one, she doesnt admit it but I know shes not happy. Why does she keep working her way back into my life even though we are both unhappy? She just ... (61 words)

I felt the time was right to lose my virginity, but then it wouldn't fit!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Background info im 16 and still a virgin ive been with my bf for quite a while and we both felt that it was right. but when it came to it. it wouldnt fit we used lube aswell but still no change, i tried to relax as best as i could but it didnt work. i am extreeemley emb... (160 words)

He seems to be selfish and spoiled but still I like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am writing because i need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend nearly 14 months now and love him but his mum and dad (mum in particular) are quite old fashioned and 1950s in the way that his mum is a housewife and dotes on him. She makes him his butties EVERY ... (579 words)

What's going on here? Is she lying to make me jealous? Does he still like me? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok im really confused right now. im 13 and so 'was' my bf. wut i mean by this is he broke up with me(twice?) well we were dating for a very short time and when he first asked me out, the next day everyone knows about it? but this isnt wat the problem is. the preblem is, my ... (732 words)

Just a bump? Or is it over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a girl for about 2 months now. Just last week I did something that brought up a flag. She misunderstood care for trying to be controlling. When I last spoke to her about 5 days ago she said we are over, twice, but she agreed to meet and talk with me on ... (303 words)

We're trying to plan a wedding around 2 relatives and its not working!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone! Firstly, sorry this is so long, but please read on. I would be really grateful for some advice here. My fiance and I have been planning to get married next summer, however I recently found out that my grandfather is seriously ill, and doesn't have long to live ... (475 words)

I want my ex back he doesn't want to commit

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age - We are divorced because of alhohol and a bad woman. My husband used to mastribate in his drunken states in front of the kids and he tried to rape my best friend underaged daughter. I left him to give my kids a better life. Now after 6 years I realized that I still love him. ... (158 words)

Brother's friend..wants phone sex but is that all he wants from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need someone else's perspective on my situation. I met my brother's friend 4 years ago at a bar. Nothing happened but I was attracted. As they both are in the army, our paths crossed briefly over the years but nothing went further than just friendly encounters......... (205 words)

I want him back and to send eveyone else away and yet I'm afraid to do so!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am torn in my relationship with three men. I have my ex of seven years who I have a beautiful daughter with. A relationship with a much younger man who I have been seeing after i broke up with my ex a year ago. A relationship that has begun to sour because he seems... (164 words)

During sex all I do is think about the size

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! k i'll try keep this short. I was with my ex for six years and we split b34 xmas. I dated and slept with two of the guys, its was nice but they didn't last long! Anyway, i've met a guy recently, and he's different to anyone i've been out with, but i like him. However, we ... (248 words)

Should I take a break from sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey there all ive had sex like every week sometimes like 5 times this has been happening for about 3 weeks straight when my chick comes over ... then after that I watched porn for about a week and masturbated like everyday when she was menstruating .... now after that ... (120 words)

She flirted outrageously made me ill, next day says she doesn't remember! It hurts!

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2 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a male 21, she is a female 19. Please note we are not together but she treats me emotionally like a boyfriend, we just haven't had any physical intimacy. I want things to develop naturally to ensure a strong emotional bond. After an absence of about a month from... (323 words)

Just found out he's married and unsure of what to do. I don't want to be his bit on the side!

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having an affair with a married man, although not for the usual reasons. Before people criticise me, I didn't know he was married at all - not one bit. In fact I didn't even know until now, as on Sunday night we were at the pub drinking and eating, and his fri... (270 words)

After I masturbated, it felt wrong, but I want to do it again. What do you think?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been really missing my boyfriend recently because weve both been away and had alot of stuff on. I havent had sex with him for about a month and tbh i really want to and really am missing it. When i talked to this to my best friend she suggested i could try masturbation... (196 words)

Do I try to get back with him in the hope he'll give 100%, or try to move on completely?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - The last year i was dating a man that he didn't give a lot of importance to our relationship so i don't call him any more. He doesn't call me either although in the past he used to call me once in a while. Although i don't want to continue with him if nothing would change - and ... (146 words)

Our parents are going out, now people are saying I'm dating my 'sister', what do I do?

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2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right here goes, I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and we introduced our parents about 2 months ago and they are both single... About a week ago they both told us that they are together!! I don;t know how to explain it but it's hard, me and my girlfriend k... (118 words)

Why am I so insecure? I don't feel good enough for them

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have problems getting close to people. Like there are these two girls one I've been friends with for 11 years and weve always helped each other out, the other for 6 years, same scenario. But when they tell me they love me and that we are best friends I never know how to ... (214 words)

My boyfriend is going overseas soon and I'm worried. Should I be?

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2 July 2009 (F)

- My bf is going overseas for 6 weeks soon and I am really quite worried. He said he would love for me to come but he planned the trip way in advance before we even met, so by the time we met it was too late for me to go as I woudlnt be able to save up in time etc. I guess I... (307 words)

What can I get for my boyfriend's moms birthday?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, it will soon in a days time be my boyfriends mom's birthday, i really dont know what to get her, i have asked her but she has not said anything, just like what he does, they always say they want nothing but i cant found nothing.... Lol... What can i get a old lady of ... (57 words)

How can I get my wife to want ME? I feel so undesired

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2 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 19 years and my wife has to fantasize about other people in sexual situations in order to recieive pleasure. This means she usually shuts me off by closing her eyes and not wanting any talk during love making. It takes her out of her fantasy. ... (295 words)

My wife is having an affair, she refuses to attend counselling...help?

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2 July 2009 (M)

age - About a week ago I found out my wife was having an affair. We had been married for 24 years and had lived together prior to this for a further 3 years since we were 19. I found out from txts on her phone, she admitted it straight away but said she loved him more than me but ... (533 words)

I think my uncle was getting sexy with me!

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this has been on my mind for the last few years and I thought I would see what you guys think. My Aunty who lives over 8 hours drive away from us (so you can guess that we don't see her very often!!!) Got married when I was about 10 (I am now 16) and the guy she marr... (505 words)

I really love him even though he's been really mean to me

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2 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - First of all I'd like to say that I'm gay, so my boyfriend and I we had a fight a few weeks ago when we hung out to a club, he behaved really rude and he admitted that he hooked up with another guy, we argued a lot that night and he said we were done, I was gonna sleep over his ... (365 words)

B/f becoming very possessive and controlling..its scaring me

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, where do I start? I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. He's ten years older than me (I'm 18). I really don't know how that applies, but maybe that will help you in helping me? I'm getting ready to start college, plus I'm moving out of my parents house. When I sa... (232 words)

He ignores me and I'm so unhappy, what should I do?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old and I'm with a man who is 42 and we're about to have a baby. And the past couple months have been horrid! He doesent talk to me or even realize that I'm talking completely ignores me all the time. We don't even make love anymore and I'm starting to wonder if I ... (109 words)

I'm pregnant, my b/f says he needs space, I miss him so what do I do?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 weeks pregnant. I thought everythin was goin fine with my boyfriend. We had our aruegments but who doesnt. he said he needed space.. some time to think. I miss him so much. Hes my everything. I'm goin crazy. what do i do? i need help ... (47 words)

Should I follow my heart and try to rescue what me and this woman had or try to work it out with my wife?

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2 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello all, need ur help. About 3 months ago I left my wife cause of infedality issues with her (not me). I work at a hospital and there was this one woman who i had taken a liking to. We started seeing eachother and it turned into more than I had wanted at the time. Now I am ... (210 words)

What do boys think when they see a girl with curves and extra weight in a bikini??

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2 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - What do guys think when they see a girl with curves, but a bit of extra weight in a bikini? Which is more important, the hourglass, or that she's chubby?... (30 words)

What's the sexiest lingerie a girl can wear?

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2 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - What's the sexiest lingerie a girl can wear (while wearing it)? Bra colors? Specific cuts/fits? Thanks... (18 words)

Could he not like me because I'm "too good" for him?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyyyzz i have one simple question im not trying to sound snotty but could i possibly be too "good" for a guy?? Could he not like me because im pretty or because i wear make up or am " high matinence" if you will...... Just wondering........... (47 words)

What made my b/f think he had the RIGHT to cheat on ME? Why do cheaters think they can get away with it?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What I would like to know is what makes people think they have the right to cheat on their partners and think they can get away with it...i mean where the hell do they get off!!!! My boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me and gave me an STD the dirty, rotten, lying, scum bag! All... (242 words)

How long should I wait until first sex in my LDR?

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2 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm 23, and i've been with my girlfriend for almost two years now, only that it's been mostly a long distance relationship. but we've been pretty good in communicating with each other about our feelings and usually we get to spend a weekend maybe every three week... (174 words)

We danced, he asked for my phone number but I didn't want to give it out

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyy I was at this dance on friday and i was with my bffl she knows alot of people so when we were hanging out with a group of people a slow song came on somehow everybody ended up dancing with someone except me and thiss one guy i had never met before... So he asked me to da... (261 words)

Is the gay/lesbian "eye lock" always an indicator of attraction??

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 40-something female. It's been my experience that when another female is attracted to me (and we both do NOT know the other is gay), there is a connection through the eyes. For instance, our eyes lock when we talk. We stare into each others eyes, and they eyes lock with ... (168 words)

I'm worried that I'm the only one in love in this relationship!

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2 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ealier today my girlfriend and I took our daughters swimming. One of the girls is mine, one hers. Things have been confusing to me because a couple of months ago we broke up (we were engaged) and she moved out. We got back together, but do not live together. I was excited to ... (570 words)

I want my boyfriend back, but how?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I want him back! We haven't spoken in a week, and I've been strong and not called/emailed/or texted since he broke up with me. i wrote a previous question about this, in which i thought the best thing to do would be to ignore him hoping he will come back. now, i can't st... (112 words)

He says he loves me but I don't know because he cheated on his girlfriend with me...

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I don't know what to do, this guy I'm in love with(lets call him ed) is always texting me and he says he loves me too but I don't know because he had a girlfriend and cheated on her with me. and they broke up and he promised we would be together but it's been a Month ... (220 words)

Break up with him? Even though I love him?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I have been with my boyfriend for about a yr now. Things were going great he had a job so did I, we were renting a trailer together and expecting a baby...then he lost his job, and my part time job was just not enough to keep us afloat, so we lost the trailer, were pretty ... (391 words)

Putting love on hold

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2 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - No I don't believe this, but I've been seeing a girl recently that somewhat does. Now of course I'm not going to lie down for this and I have told her no person can decide when they fall in love or not. But from experience from myself and friends, it seems some women do ... (85 words)

This baby was planned, I just need help finding a clinic or a shelter.

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im 17 and i am 5 weeks pregnant. I cant tell my mom and im afraid she might kick me out. This was planned and im not getting rid of my baby. I just need help. Do any1 know a place i can go 2 get check ups w/o an adult or a shelter i can go 2 in the new york area?... (64 words)

Is this a crush or an obsession? And is it my fault? Or is it all her?

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2 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok now this may sound really selfish on my behalf but its driving me crazy. first off i think you should know some things about me, i not exactly what you would call social, if i can i will never leave the house i really hate the outside world, from this however my main ... (973 words)

Is he telling the truth about this trip? Does he really HAVE to go with her or is he just using me?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I have had a crush on this guy I have worked with for 8 years. I was married and he was in a long term relationship for those 8 years but I always had these feelings I couldn't ignore, but being married, I did ignore them and quite honestly I didn't think he saw me that way. ... (346 words)

It's too soon for us to be exclusive, so how can I turn him down gently?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am meeting a guy for coffee today and I've got a strong feeling he's going to ask me to be his exclusive girlfriend. We've been seeing each other for a month or so and I like him, but I guess I'd like to get to know him some more before rushing into anything. Normally my ... (109 words)

Can in-laws date, if both are divorced?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age - Can in-laws date, if both are divorced? As in mother of the bride and father of the groom.... (18 words)

On and off...?

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2 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - A girl I really liked went out with me and all her closest and my closest friends were like messengers. Everyone told me that she really liked me and I really liked her. I asked her if she did and she was like you first. So I said I think I can grow old with you and she said ... (143 words)

I'm wondering if my boyfriend is having an emotional affair.

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for 12 years. I'm wondering if my boyfriend is having an emotional affair. he has a friend of the opposite sex. he tells me about her. i've met her but, she won't speak to me. she said she gets along better with guys. he speaks with her about our ... (146 words)

He has stopped talking to me and I don't know why... What should I do? I still like him.

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a really long question... Especially from a kentucky girl like me.. But please answer becuase I am soo heart broken over this :-( Ok, so here it goes - I met this one girl named Dawn and she introduced me to her guy friend, Beckson. When I first met Beckson, I was i... (590 words)

Do you think she's still stalking me?

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2 July 2009 (M) age 41-50 - 10 years ago, my first girlfriend and I broke up after going out for a very short while. We lost our virginity to each other. She is the one who broke up with me because she was a little older than me and graduating high school that year, and more importantly, she felt that I ... (671 words)

I'll never get over him if I have to see him constantly!

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with this guy from age 17 until 24 we broke up 6 months ago when he left me for another girl. We have a kid together also, now his new girlfriend is pregnant - ugh. Anyway she left her husband, the father of 1 of her 2 kids for him. Their relationship is bad, theyve been ... (214 words)

Sex: Lust and Caution

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - In today's modern world, we as people have to be cautious and informed when making decisions. I think this is especially true when it comes to sex. STDs are at a high in the US across the age spectrum. How can you really have safe sex? You could potentially contract a ... (180 words)

I wish this guy I was dating was black.

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, well im 14 and ive always dated black boys. im white and recently im dating a white boy, we're "in love" but i dont love him a lot because he is white but when i date a black boy i always love them so much but they play me. I don't know what to do i always wish that thi... (93 words)

Do these comments seem like another woman is flirting with me???

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am female, 40 years old, and on a neighborhood tennis team. I am madly attracted to the female coach who is about my age. Sometimes I think she is attracted to me. But sometimes I don't think so and that it's all in my head. Take this conversation for example: (I am a... (207 words)

Is severing myself from his family the only way I can get over this?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So a while ago i posted a question about my best friend (of 7 years) *parker* (it has all the back ground info so maybe it would help to read it) basically its been over 2 months since parker and i last spoke and its really eating away at me. The only way i can think of dealing ... (279 words)