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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can't let her go or move forward

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So the happiest day in my life came when the woman I have been in love with for 5 years decided she wanted to start a relationship with me as soon as I moved to the area. One month later, a week before I moved, she informed me that she had decided instead to start a ... (260 words)

Should I wait for him to want something real? Or be happy with casual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay I will try to make my story as short as possible. I went out with this guy for one year last year. We broke up in December so it's been about 6 months since the break up. He always texted me about twice a month asking me how I'm doing. Sometimes I would respond hoping it ... (603 words)

How am I going to find a BF if I can't talk to boys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 16, a virgin, and really lonley. Ive never had a boyfriend, yet all my friends have, and have had way more experience with guys than me. Lots of them aren't virgins, they are all more experienced than me, and can talk to guys really easily. I find it so difficult to... (90 words)

I'm completely unhappy, despite my nice life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am totally lost, i dont like talking to anyone, i mean everybody. i like to stay quiet and watch a movie or keep myself busy. i have a nice job, i have beautiful family, i have my second baby due soon. I am almost complete in my life, (but i am not happy, somehow i feel l... (190 words)

I treat him so badly. How do I stop it and tell him how sorry I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend about a year now but its suddenly hit me how bad i treat him. We are in a long distance relationship and see each other at the weekends but i have realised i take everything out on him and start stupid arguments for no reason at all. I don't ... (145 words)

I think my husband is having an imaginary affair!!! What to do?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - maybe he didn't hide this from me too well because it truly isn't a big deal? for the last year, my husband has been acting increasingly distant from me. it got to the point where i started to feel like he was maybe having an affair. i snooped around a bit (cell phone reco... (501 words)

Hairy? Or non hairy?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I happen to think women with at least a little bit of pubes down there is good..i mean no offense to anyone who shaves it completely off but who would want it completely bald..i mean i would feel like a little girl..and i kno it might make oral sex better but damn it would be ... (83 words)

Why did my girlfriend break up with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I had been dating Hannah for about two months, and I thought things were going pretty well. A few weeks into summer she went to her friend's cottage and she didn't tell me how long for. She got back and I tried messaging her and calling her, but she didn't answer and was never ... (155 words)

He wants to spice things up in our sex life should I go along with it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i am 16 and have been having sex with my boyfriend for ages but he wants to change it and try tying me up and adding spice to it but i feel like it means that normal sex with me is boring and thats why he want to spice it up. am i just being stupid ? should i do it ? ... (62 words)

I did something with my ex's friend that I really regret

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi im christina. i have a guy problem..ill make this short..me and my ex still liked each other very much..but i made a mistake one night and did sumthing with his friend even tho i was intoxicated it was still wrong.. no matter how i apologized he wouldnt forgive me and i... (117 words)

Who to date? And how to move on from the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey Everyone, I've got a dilemma. I've started the process of dating again, and while I've played the field, I've also become very close to two special guys. While one lives out of town (about 2 hours), and the other lives quite close, I can't help but feeling torn betw... (238 words)

I'm Pregnant! Do I marry this guy or not??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in the Army and have spent the last 11 months in training and in a holding status. I had been seeing a guy for the last 8 months and broke up with him a week ago. The next day I found out I was pregnant. It was an accident and I was told that I was not ovulating and ... (423 words)

Am I asking too much of this man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend of 6yrs split up last week. Due to his unreasonable behaviour and attitude toward our relationship. i have had my share of being a bitch and i have also regretted it. I have done everything possible to make him see im sorry and that i have learned a valuable ... (268 words)

My best friend's bf wants to date me! Does he mean it or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - okay, so my bestfriend is going out with one of my close guy friends that i've known for about 3 years. I never thought I had feelings for him, but these past days we've been talking on the phone alot about everything, mostly our relationships and hook ups, and for some reason ... (201 words)

Why doesn't he want to meet up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Trying desperately to forget about this guy I had an affair with, but I still eagerly await a text or call. We only slept together once and now it has been 3 weeks since we've been together.We text about every other day, but never discuss what we did-- only small talk. I know ... (185 words)

He doesn't really want me around him...so should I just lose contact or email him in a couple months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - there is this guy i have known for almost a year. we met at a place we both used to work (but don't anymore). anyway, we were mostly just friends although i think he liked me a bit and i started to like him too..we are both very free-spirited and like our freedom, also he is ... (485 words)

Found violent porn on husband's computer how do we talk about this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Short question: I have found lots of violent porn on my husbands computer. 1st time. Never knew he looked at the stuff. OK, so now I want to discuss this with him, but have no idea how to bring it up, without him knowing that I was on his computer... There was a... (247 words)

My habit really embarrasses me and I need help to stop doing it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ummm, ok, first, to get things straight, this is habit ALONE. Right, it's quite embarassing, because at school, guys tease me and say stuff about *it* (if you know what I mean...) I have a bad habit of shaking my legs up and down and up and down, really, really fast - teachers ... (173 words)

She is having cyber suggestions with her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been married nearly 2 years, together for over 4. We have always got along famously and with the exception of some normal (or abnormal) issues, always seem to be a great match. A few weeks ago she said she had some validation from her ex before me that he emailed her and ... (412 words)

I think my man is a pimp and I'm scared! What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - please tell me if you think this sounds like something to do with organized crime-okay,so a few years ago I knew this girl who I'm sure was a prostitute-she would go to different men's houses and come back with cash-one day she took me to this man's house and he raped me-later ... (786 words)

My ex fiance got married 5 months ago & I'm a mess

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is there anything i can do about this im devasted ive just heard my ex fiance got married about 5 months ago. i wasted so much time-he did want me back but due to circumstances i didnt do anything-what an idiot anyway now hes married-i feel like a lost cause. i know im ... (118 words)

We've moved and its small town and I'm feeling very discouraged

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have no friends, no relatives, no history what so ever in this new town that I've moved in with my parents. Now I just feel so sick and alone. I can't talk about anything personal to anyone. I've lost contact with all my old friends. I feel like I'm living alone in this world ... (121 words)

Help! my sister was raped and the police don't want to help us!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i seriously need some advice here. not even the police are helpful! it all started when my sister saw this ad in a local newspaper. this bar was looking for a waitress. so she called the bar and asked if she could come by and have an interview with the owner of the shop. so ... (588 words)

What can I do about this ongoing, troubled relationship with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey this is a long story but i need advice? i know this guy years i started to hangout with him when i was 15 we were great friends he had a girlfriend my bestfriend at the time and the three of us were inseperable well after a 14 months he finished it and kissed me. we hung ... (253 words)

300 cals, hour on the treadmill. Will this result in minus calories?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - will i lose weight if i burn off everything i eat? for example,i eat 300 cals then burn it off by walking an hour on the treadmill? will this mean i end the day with minus calories?... (37 words)

He was being all kissy with his friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, i got married 2 months ago. My husband has a female friend he's known since before we met. We recently all went out together with other friends and in the mini bus on the way home from the party my husband was stroking the leg and holding hands and being kissy with ... (173 words)

Guy is 27 and she is 15, is this really going to work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - one of my best friends is 15 and a guy that's 27 likes her, do you think she should go out with him ? yes or no and why ? help me by the way he has two kids. ... (40 words)

I'm insecure and paranoid that he still has her as a friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I used my husband's laptop the other day and I went on his Facebook and read his messages. He had received a message from a girl that he used to go to college with, they might have even dated in the past. She was basically saying to him "I can't believe you got married so ... (217 words)

Why do guys like you after you've moved on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - There is this guy named Andrew that I had a huge crush on. He never ever noticed or even spoke to me in class. I would even sit next to him on purpose or ask him a question about something just to get his attn. One time he completely ignored me and asked another girl if she ... (173 words)

I'm just not sure if he's the one or what I want!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with a guy who is completely in love with me and wants to be with me and I don't know what I want. Is there something wrong with me? I hear about all these girls who turn 30 and who are still single and can't find the right guy and here I am with a guy who is head over ... (144 words)

Why do I put up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. I have been dating a guy for 1 and a half year. Nearly broke up once before. He has a lot of baggage. When I met him, all was fine. He seemed mature and like he knew what he wanted in life. It has been a emotional rollercoaster ever since. I feel like I am ... (225 words)

How is someone ever going to touch my heart like she did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - i broke off with this girl because this relationship had no future...it was very necessary to break it off as it had many complications and her family involements and i have DECIDED not to go into that mess again cuz we have suffered a lot going back and forth and i treated her ... (231 words)

I'm training, he says if I go running he'll just masturbate and not want sex later

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This might sound silly...but I have been trying to train for a half marathon. My boyfriend smokes and has a hard time running. I am supportive of him quitting and being physically active together. However, he recently started to smoke again and has since stopped running ... (152 words)

Parents split up how do you comfort little sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - My dad and step mom just split up and my little sister (11) is taking it really hard, I want to comfort her but I don't know what to do. She's not a girly type and hates it when I give her a hug, I've been told just be there for her, but when I try to be there for her she just ... (110 words)

I work with them, he's living with her but bothering me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i was with this lad he had a girlfriend i broke up with my boyfriend and we shared great times together but i couldnt keep this up and asked him to finish he said no and got reall annoyed i have to work with him so its hard to see him every day they splitt up and he start seen ... (149 words)

My dream of being a model is shattered and I'm depressed!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

- ive just turned 26 and feel like im in a rut. I work at a hospital in administration and the job is well paid but very mundane although it has a lot of reponsibilities and is quite a respectful job. My dream though is to be a model. I have tried to get in to it by applying to ... (171 words)

Should I be bothered that he hasn't said those 3 words yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for going on four months now, and I couldn't be happier. We both have made the decision that this is it. We are for sure headed toward our "happily ever after" together. Now, I'm used to jumping right into relationships; whether it's moving in ... (138 words)

Is having chemistry important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I will start by saying that while I am open to the possibility of a relationship, I am very comfortable and happy being single. I have never been the type that has to have a boyfriend to feel secure and good about myself. And, often in the past, after a relationship has ... (247 words)

I can't orgasm from masturbation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ok well I started having sex with my boyfriend and he seems like he knows what he's doing we've had sex at least 15 times it feels good somtimes but I don't ever orgasm so I tryed masturbating and I still can't have an orgasm and when I do masurbate its just a bothered feeling ... (88 words)

She feels caged and trapped because I've tried to stop her from talking to all guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I been going around from past one and a half year, every thing was going very fine but every few days she would get a call from her ex-boyfriend. I would get annoyed and would ask her to avoid him. Many times we ended up in a fight, after a major fight she ... (484 words)

I want to get closure and say what's on my mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Things ended with my girlfriend on a bad note. For all we talked, we stopped communicating a long time ago and left too many things unsaid. The last time I saw her the pressure got to me and a lot of them came pouring out. I've tried apologizing, giving her space, talki... (257 words)

Did I read him wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - There's this guy at my work, he is 25 (5 years older than me) and i think he might like me. I can sense something in his body language. He can't help but smile when he looks at me. and he always notices me and says hello when i walk in. but maybe he is just being friendly? T... (181 words)

I like her until she likes me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I can totally be the one pursuing the girl, but when I find out she likes me back and she gets all attached to me, I don't like her anymore. Is that normal? or is that me finding things wrong with her because I'm not completely self assured? or is it because she was too easy to ... (103 words)

I don't enjoy the company of his family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advise. I have been dating a man for alomost 2 years. I have met his family and found that I have absolutely nothing in common with them. His family seem very nice but when ever he asks me to go to a function with them I get a nervous feeling in my stomach. I ... (261 words)

I love to pursue men, it's a part of my personality, yet I am afraid of how others think

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've got a guys (player's) mentality towards sex and relationships. I'm ashamed to say i sometimes have more than one guy on the scene at once. Just for sex. But i don't get much emotional attachment to them. I make them feel like princes treating them really well. Some a... (138 words)

My girlfriend wants to break up to ease off any difficulty in the future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - well i have been in a relationship for 2 years now and i love my girl friend alot!!and she loves me alot too.But our high school is about to get over and its time for college..:( We both might seperate in the coming future. she says we should break up within a couple of months... (87 words)

I cannot achieve penetration

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - i m 20yrs virgin and my girlfriend is 18 yrs too,i tried and fail to insert my penis 2 times in her because my cap is bigger than normal and she don't give me time to manage it,but she loves me and still believe me... (53 words)

I dream of babies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - HEy i'm 20 and a virgin! when i was younger i never wanted children always said i wouldn't i work at a solicitors and one of the girls at work had a baby and when i seen him omg! my heart melted and i knew then on i wanted to be a mother. well anyways i always get broody when ... (281 words)

Amazing "other" woman causing headache/distraction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - an old flame has return into my life, literally months after I got engaged. This old flame is amazing.. I mean she turns heads wherever she goes. My current/future wife is a great woman. She will be a great wife and mother (eventually). But I can't stop thinking about the othe... (111 words)

She asks me to trust her, but doesn't explain anything to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a new girlfriend whom i met online and she lives 100 miles away from me. Firstly, I was supposed to see her on saturday but something came up so she came to see me on friday, which I thought was sweet, however she came with her friend (her friend has a boyfriend ... (295 words)

Why would a guy look at a girl and not do anything else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hmm I was just wondering cause of this particular incident. i'm at university and there's this guy in my faculty that i used to see around once in a very long while. Anyway we are both in the same camps this time around and well, I noticed him noticing me at a previous camp. It ... (204 words)

I'm in love with a person that drives me insane, so I think

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm really confused on what to do... I just broke it off w/ my now ex-boyfriend of 8 months because of his creepy behavior. i.e. stealing my cell phone out of my pocket and biking away w/ it and deleting a ton of numbers causing me to call the cops on him for the 2nd ... (554 words)

I'm broken up and cannot see pass this misery

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - i need some help here... its been about a month and a half since my girl ended a 3year 8 month relationship with me. and im trying to give her space so that wen shes done "seeing if im the right guy for her" that shell come back to me. but in this month and ahalf that she has ... (182 words)

He won't go near me now - what can I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i work with this guy he is younger than me the moment i seen him i fell in love we got to be great friends told each other everything he was with sum1 and so was i but we didnt care and took our friendship to the next level, we were with each other months and he said to me ... (155 words)

Why won't my wife let me get her boobs out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone well i am just curious as my wife is very secretive and i am very open minded in all matters i talk openly about everything and what i did before i got married to her. i have come of an age that i love listening to her telling me some of her own stories of what she... (179 words)

Does it sound like this relationship has reached a dead-end?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now It's been a difficult year, suffering from depression and having serious surgery he's stuck through it all with me. But a couple of months ago he said something to me and ever since then, its like my feelings clicked and swi... (300 words)

How can we avoid all this anger towards each other? What can I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I do not know what to do and need advice. Been a very good friend with a guy for many years and we got on very well.we would talk and he always showed off and even showed me how too play music for the music events he did.used to drive him home.he would do anything - like the... (708 words)

I'm 17, she's 14, and I think her mum has the wrong idea about my motives for being with her!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 50 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - hey i just turned 17 and im going out with a 14 year old girl, have been for about a week, is that weird? 2 years 8 months difference. i really like her though, but shes grounded for a month and i cant have any contact with her even txting. she isnt grounded because im... (174 words)

Are relationships with younger guys doomed from the start?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im 28 and i always seem to attract younger guys. i am young looking myself but is it going to work ou with guys that ar 23 cause so far it hasnt. or is it the fact im in love with sumone already that is spoken for but yet i can see it in his eyes he want me and he is 23 or ... (93 words)

How can I make things different when I go down on him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My man wants to go down on me while sucking an ice cube, I love the idea but I want to return the favour and do something different when I go down on him. Any ideas?... (36 words)

I'm not sure whether to go on the pill or not. What do you think about it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - At the moment, me and my boyfriend use condoms and I have no problem with them, they just ruin the mood sometimes. So I'm thinking about going on the pill. The problem is, I've heard alot of different stories about the pill. Some say it's good, other don't agree. I've looked u... (132 words)

I think we'd be good together, but the age difference is getting in the way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - so here it is theres a guy i met on holiday last year an i swear the first time i met him my stomach was in knots but i didnt think he would look at me twice because he is 5 years older than me. but last year he did kiss me then whe i went back this year we spent almost the ... (161 words)

I'm so frustrated! I put a lot of effort in with this girl and it was a waste of time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

- I went out with this girl I met online. I really liked her and we went out three more times after that. She was really cold and despite going out with me a few times, it looked like she wasn’t interested. I was frustrated but each time I would think so, my friends would tell ... (378 words)

I think she still has deep feelings for her ex. Should I prepare for the worst?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I've been dating this wonderful girl for about a year and eight months. She used to screw around with another guy before we got together, even occasionally when she was in a relationship. When we started dating, she said that was over. So did he. At about a year, my ... (371 words)

I want to be there for him, but I don't know how if he won't tell me what's wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Please help,I don't know what to do. Me n my bf,have been together for nearly a year now, my parents broke up last night of a 13 year relationship and a 4 year marrage. Im 15, and its my mum and step dad are the ones who have broken up. My bf, has some family issues which he ... (285 words)

I helped my friend get over her ex, but now I like him and I feel like a hypocrite!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - OK, So there's this guy I know and I liked him loads at the beginning of the year until I found out he'd been with one of my best friends. I love my friend to bits but they're not seeing each other anymore and she now has a boyfriend, someone she's like since we were about 9 ... (210 words)

I've got a new boyfriend, but I still think and dream about my ex. Why can't I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, i keep dreamin and thinkin aut my ex. I think about him a lot more than i do my current boyfriend. I dont know why though, my ex treated me like shit and is a horibble person but iwas in love wit him. It ended about two months ago and i got wit my new boyfrien ... (120 words)

Would it make things more complicated if we have sex? Surely there's no harm, right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, an ex-girlfriend's mother is currently staying with me. I split up with her daughter years ago and she has since moved to Australia. It wasn't a bad split or anything, we were just young. Her mother and I kept running in to each other because she is a frequent ... (270 words)

He visits chat rooms and dating sites, yet he accuses me of hiding things!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bloke for 3 years. for the last two he has developed a habit of visiting chat rooms and dating sites. we broke up time and time again. i get denial,aggressive behaviour,or blame. he says things like how do i know you dont go on them? i`ll just have to take ... (187 words)

I was doing fine until my ex asked to see me. Now I am so confused and can't stop texting him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am really confused of what's going on right now... Recently, I met with my ex as he terrorized me with texts saying he wanted to see me so badly he has something to say. He kept calling until I agreed to see him. When i saw him, all he said was how much he missed me. ... (523 words)

I'm 13 and sex is on my mind! I have so many questions!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 13 years old, and I'm having the urges to have sex. What do I do? I know, I am Way to young. and I want to wait for the right guy, and be a saint. but, The orgasims. It very tempting. And the boys my age, Offer it all the time. Its my bettr judgement that stops the... (287 words)

I get really jealous, how do I stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm a super jealous person when it comes to my boyfriend. How do I stop? I'm extremely upset my boyfriend is talking to his ex-girlfriends little sister. We all went to the same high school. It's hurting me.... (38 words)

Whenever I try to tell her how I feel she changes the subject!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - So, there's this girl I've been friends with for about six or seven years now and she's starting to drive me a little bit crazy. When we first met, I didn't see her in a romantic way at all, but I always thought she was really nice and always got this feeling that she... (341 words)

Will it go back to its normal shape after the first time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - My vulva does not look the same each time I look at it. Sometimes it just looks like a fold of skin where the two sides meet. After touching it for a bit it seems to open up and the inside shows. Is this normal? Will it go back to its normal shape after the "first time"?... (57 words)

Guys: What actions would make you give your ex girl another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - To our guys here: Granted that you still love your ex girlfriend, in your opinion, what actions from her will convince you to go back to her once more? Should she be apologetic and sincere? Indifferent and has moved on? Or if she is with someone else? If there are ot... (85 words)

Rumors are swirling around at work about us and we aren't together!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi hope someone can maybe shed some light on what could be going on here. A few months ago a new guy joined my work and we seemed to get on ok. Over the last 2 - 3 months or so he has been talking to me more and we seemed to have a connection. my friend and a few other people ... (256 words)

One night stand with someone I know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - 3 months ago I got out of a 5 year relationship and he was my first and only. The other night I went out and saw a guy who I had gone on a date with once to a resturant. I will name this guy, guy B. Guy B had wanted to continue going out with me but I turned him down to pursue ... (601 words)

He said he only stayed with me for six years because he felt obligated to, after everything I had done for him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - When I was 19 I fell in love with my best friend and him and I started dating and I lost my virginity to him. He was the first and only guy I had ever fallen in love with. It wasn't an easy journey because he was addicted to meth but I did everything I could to help him get ... (401 words)

We were together for 3 and a half years. Why did he break up with me out of the blue?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend broke up with me randomly out of the blue 2 days ago. I came home from work and I was going to spend some quality time with him. He made me some tea and took it upstairs, i followed and once i was upstairs he told me he didn't love me like he used to. I asked him ... (450 words)

My girlfriend wants to give me a handjob, and I'm a bit unsure of what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey, I've been seeing this girl for not too long now. we've just been kissing and thats about it. I've been out with loads of girls before, but have not done anything but kissing and rubbing. She said she is going to give me a handjob next week. But im kind of nervous. She has ... (81 words)

I've never had a problem with moving on from a breakup before, but this time it feels different

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi All, this is pretty alien to me and the first time i have done this. Basically just over 2 weeks ago myself and my girlfriend split up. Now we were only together for 3 months but in that 3 months apart from during work times etc used to spend all our time together and had an ... (403 words)

Am I being paranoid to suspect he's cheating or do I have a genuine reason to be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i think my partner having an affair. iv thought this for a year now after he asked me to wax my bits after 7 yrs of relationship an never botherd bfore this and just recently he found a spot on is man bits showed me then tried to blame me. iv never been unfaithfull ever an ... (91 words)

My friend and boss crossed a line with me and fired me, and yet I miss him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so dreadful. I worked for this man for 6 months. Before I went to work for him, we were close friends. He’s been married for almost 12 years, and I’ve been in a common law relationship for 7 years. We both had struggles in our relationships, and we shared those with ... (637 words)

I am scared of hurting my girlfriend, but I don't want this to be my last relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I am at a very crucial point. I have been with my gf for about 15 months and I love her very much. She is very much in love with me as well (possibly more so than I am with her) and has often said that she doesn't feel like she'll ever meet another man better than me. We b... (367 words)

I'm in love with my ex-girlfriend's sister, and she might feel the same way.... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So... here goes. I've been in a really abusive relationship with my girlfriend (call her Sarah) for about five years now, and I haven't had the balls to call it off until very recently. Here's the hard part: Sarah's younger sister (call her Becky) has been living with us f... (593 words)

Is he being friendly, or is it something more? I don't want to risk rejection

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there. I feel that im in a confused state. I got to know this guy, age 29 back in 2008. FYI: im 22. We officially became a couple in jan,2009. But we broke up a month later because i was still having flings with my ex bf and he couldnt accept the way i was. I know i was ... (259 words)

He wants to be with me, but he doesn't want to leave his wife and kids

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i am hoping you can help with my dilemma. about 15 months aho i started seeing my boss from work. we had only been seeing each other fr a week when we left our partners, the click that we felt as that strong. anyway, he only managed to stay the evening before deciding to go ... (835 words)

Help! My girlfriend's transforming into a sack of lard!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Alright, I've been going out with my girlfriend for about five years now, since we were sophomores in high school. We've survived the transition to a long distance relationship in different universities and are completely committed to each other. I love her to death, we match ... (192 words)

I think he doesn't love me anymore, and his comments about my weight hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been with my botfriend now for almost 3 years. we have been through alot of bad times, but good times as well. i have stayed with him all summer long so far..things are great..but i feel like he isnt showing me enough attention anmore. he plays guitar and LOVES playing ... (156 words)

My boyfriend's breath smells really bad! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - ight, so me and my bf was talking and i could tell from about arm length he had bad breath, well i didnt think anything about it. Well when we was kissing and making out i thought i was gonna die! it smelled that bad. I even lied to him and said "my tongue hurts i cant mak... (125 words)

My best friends BF has been cracking onto me, what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) age 16-17 - I love my boyfriend. I love my bff as well, but her boyfriend kissed me. He also flirts with me when my bff and my boyfriend aren't around. He's always touching me and trying to hug me. I want to tell my boyfriend, but I'm too afraid that he'll break it off with me. I want to ... (108 words)

Will it seem desperate if I ask him to hang out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been dating someone for a couple of months, and a few days after our first date I asked him to have lunch with me that day - he couldn't, he was away for work that day. Then a couple of days after that I asked him to do something that weekend. Again he was busy. After that ... (161 words)

What is going on between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I met this guy ONE WEEK ago, but he has a gf. He's like no one I've met. We can just sit and talk for literally hours, the past week we've texted when we woke up and before we've gone to bed. We hung out almost every day last week, and the 2 days we didn't he was hanging out ... (221 words)

Premature break up forced by her parents, how do I deal with it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi guys, I'm in a deep situation where me and my gf have been pretty much forced to break up... I need any ADVICE or MOTIVATION to get over this please... I've been thru break ups where the feeling is mutual or one of us does not want to be with one another. BUT this is clearly ... (509 words)

I'm thinking of giving my boyfriend a hand job...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Im thinking of giving my boyfriend a hand job or head can i get pregnat from this? And if i were to have sex with him and we use protection how big of a chance is it that i could get pregnat?... (42 words)

What is stopping me from moving on? My jealous ex or my FWB?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I was seeing a guy - sort of like a very close friends with benefits thing - until I moved to a different state a few months ago. We shared an intense connection but it couldn't go anywhere because of me moving and him not being ready for a commitment after his ex badly hurt ... (368 words)

I don't feeling comfortable exposing my breasts to my BF

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am very paranoid about exposing my breasts, I'm not sure why. My boyfriend is very respectful of it and never asks me too but I can tell it is beginning to hurt his feelings like I'm not comfortable around him or something...any confidence boosters?? Or should I go with the ... (58 words)

Should a virgins first time be with a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, this question has been floating around a lot and I wanted to know what your guys opinion is about it. Most people imagine their first time to be special and wonderful, but can it still be special and wonderful if the guy or girl your having sex with has already done it ... (169 words)

My GF wants me to move with her, I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

- Okay so I've been friends with my girlfriend for 2 years and we have been dating for 4 months. Well she is originally from the Bahamas and has recently decided that she wanted to move back. She wants me to move with her when she goes back and I can't decide if I should go o... (109 words)

I'm a 19 year old virgin, is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 19 and I am still a virgin. Is this normal? All of my friends have had sex. there is one girl I like but she is 14. Should I wait for her or just go for it?... (39 words)

What causes a man to constantly criticise the woman he's with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - What causes a man to constantly criticise a girl that he's seeing? My boyfriend does this a lot. At first id laugh about it,because he always says it jokingly. But now I'm really starting to feel hurt by some of the things he says. For example,if I'm having a bad hair day or ... (277 words)

His mom keeps telling him to break up with me and meet new people! Should we ignore her, or do as she says?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi! okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years now and I am in love with him. I have had many boyfriends before and have experienced a lot and so has he. I feel that he has every quality that I am looking for in a guy and he is the one for me and he feels ... (180 words)

He is having trouble finding a job, is this why he doesn't want to pursue a relationship with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I met this guy a few weeks ago and we hungout a couple of times and had this amazing chemistry and connection. The third time we hungout I invited him over for dinner because my roomie is also seeing his friend so we all had dinner together. I thought the night was going ... (211 words)

My brother planned a party that I didn't want. He said it was for a joke, but I feel like I was the joke!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - This last weekend was my birthday, and few months ago I had mentioned to my older brother that I would like a meal that just included the immediate family (2 sis, 1 other bro, and mom)A year ago my dad passed away 2 days after my birthday so I told my brother that I really ... (409 words)

There is no proof he is attracted to her, but I don't like her being in his life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been broke up but went back out. The first time we broke up, one of the reasons was another girl in the picture. He didn't cheat. They were becoming good friends as were getting worse. It annoyed me to the point I couldn't take it anymore. After ... (1438 words)

How do men feel about a girl that doesn't drink or smoke?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have been wondering this for a while now, and I just want to hear peoples opinions on it. Do men find it attractive when a girl doesn't drink or smoke, or not? Despite the fact that I'm under-age, I personally don't drink or smoke, never have, and never will, but it's l... (111 words)

Two kids, no time...Am I wrong to expect a little passion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My wife and I have 2 small children, so it's hard for us to make time for sex. But when we do have sex, it feels like she's not really into it. We've fought about this before, and I know she's tired. But even at my worst, I'll still perform like a pro and do anything to bring ... (69 words)

Should he have told me we could both see other people?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Would you be concerned if another female called a guy babe? A guy that you've been seeing for nearly 6 months? We aren't committed I guess,we've never really had the talk...we just see each other often and do couples type things together. Even took a vacation together, and are ... (173 words)

He cheated, we haven't discussed it, he hasn't called.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I recently discovered that my boyfriend cheated on me. I found last night and me and him haven't really discussed it yet. I can't help but wonder if we ever will. I'm hurt and completely disgusted that he would do this to me. This is the lowest of the lows and I feel sick ... (231 words)

Vaginal pimples?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi.I'm just wondering if any female on here has experienced vaginal pimples.I think that's what I have.They're small bumps on my vulva,not on my lips or anywhere else.I know I don't have an std or anything because I've never been sexually active.Could what I have just be ... (63 words)

I can't figure out if he's gay or not

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello, I'm a 19 year old gay male. I'm still closeted to all but one person and guess what? I've got the perennial gay problem -- I like someone and I don't know if they're gay or not. I know that this is asked a lot, but I'm looking to see what other people think before I try ... (589 words)

Was he trying to make me feel better? Or is he insanely picky?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my fairly new boyfriend (ie there's a lot we still don't know about each other yet) were watching a movie last night starring one of his fave female celebrities. I mean, she's absolutely gorgeous and I've got no problem with him thinking that too - I'm completely happy ... (130 words)

I was drunk out of my head and got involved in an orgy

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Something happend to me last Saturday and I am trying to process it in my head. I am still in shock. I went to a very good friends birthday party. Because it was a house party and I planned to stay in their spare bedroom for the night, I got really drunk thinking I would ... (480 words)

He texts me and invites me out, is he interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - So I am just trying to figure out if this guy that I kind of like, is interested in me. I haven't known him for too long really. But some days he will text me and say "Hey What's up?" And he'll always ask me how my day has been. He's invited me to some parties, but ... (176 words)

He's going out the country will he ask me to be exclusive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been dating a guy for the past 2 months, and next week he's going overseas for 2 months for work...so I'm wondering if, assuming he's really interested in me, he's likely to ask me to be exclusive before he goes? I don't want to ask him because I don't want to rush any ... (109 words)

He called the police on me because I wouldn't shut up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 20 years old then me and set in his way along with being a cross-dresser. he broke up with me said he is tried of me and I have been seeing him for 15 years. I've always known about his uniqueness and love him so much. He said he only wants to be friends I dont ... (88 words)

How can I get my online GF to lose weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I'm 13, I have a 12 year old girlfriend. She's wonderful. I love her very very much. The strange thing is she's a bit (not a lot), a bit overweight. I'm not a shallow boy that'll dump her because of this, but is there any way I could get her to lose some weight without looking ... (101 words)

We really click, but he doesn't 'do' relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am really good friends with a guy I used to work with. We speak loads during the week and get along really well when we are together. Previously we have kissed and most recently we had sex! Which has been on the cards after months of flirting around the situation and sc... (237 words)

He says he wants to meet me but never says when

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive met someone who is a family friend of my partners family -last year we got close and he would tell me how attractive I was - he was all over me, we would arrange to meet up(which wasnt often) - we did not sleep together but would cuddle up and he was really really turned ... (372 words)

Would you appear on the show Bachelor or Bachelorette?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is something I wanted to float out there to all the Aunties and Uncles. It may seem stupid, but I have just thought I would ask. Right now, between working on my sites, and looking up at the television, I just ran into this trainwreck of a show called The Bachelorette... (400 words)

He wants me to break up with my b/f but he won't commit to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello! Im am slightly confussed about this guy that I have a thing for online ... Okay, I'll tell you a few details; We've been chatting online for over a year now - I'm a student + I work weekends and he is a manager on a cruise ship which he has to go away for work every 3... (959 words)

Why is sleeping with a lot of people viewed as bad? Isnt just experience?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Why is it a bad thing to sleep with a lot of people? Some people say it's sluttish behaviour. But i think it just makes you experienced. It makes you know what you like and dislike. Surely isn't this a good thing? (Lets say, for arguments sake, you use protection ALWAY... (104 words)

Is it that he's really NOT in love with me or am I too needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about two months, but there are a few things that concern me. He doesn't have a car or a phone that are his so he can't call me or drive over to visit me. I have to come to him and pick him up.. this makes me feel like he is using me ... (274 words)

It took me all night to get the truth out of him and now I'm wondering if there's more!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Fiance came home an hour late from work.He told me he had to work late. I didn't believe him and questioned him all night. THe next day he told me a co-worker just broke up with bf and didn't have anyone to talk to so he stayed late to talk to her about it. He lied to me ... (100 words)

Stripper problem

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Iv been seeing a stripier for a long time at a club i really like her but im not sure it see likes me.Do you think shes just in it for the money and do you think she likes me also she treats me bad when i ask her stuff like how long you gonna be working her and also when are ... (103 words)

What are these?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I got a bump on the edge inside my outter lip of my vagina and im not sure what it was. i squeezed it and stuff came out and it went away. kinda like acne. well i just got two more like by the crack of my thigh and where my vag lip starts ones bigger than the other and they ... (133 words)

Am I pushing him away by texting too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i r kinda havin problems. we havnt been talkin that much and i havnt really seen him that much. is it possible that i hav been pushing him away the more i text him? should i just not try to text him?... (45 words)

Chatting online with his ex....Do you think that's ok?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think it is okay for your fiance to be chatting to an ex on msn??Don't know what they were chatting about but he tells me they don't talk anymore?? ... (33 words)

I'm really jealous about my best mate's girlfriend..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi guys, My best friend has just recently fallen head over heels for this girl who we met at a party a while ago. I was really apprehensive about her, as she was just generally rude (mainly to me, not to him obviously!) when we met her, though I do appreciate that she's ch... (177 words)

Having some unusual bleeding and too afraid to talk to my mother about it..Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm having problems with random bleeding, and i'm too embrassed to talk to my mum about it or the doctor. Whenever my boyfriend fingers me, i'll bleed, normally a few hours later for about 6 hours, really light, but last night, when he was fingering me i started to bleed al... (135 words)

Afraid I'll go too fast during sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi, Well, i am 17 years old virgin.(Healthy-Water Polo Player) Anyways well, for the past couple of months i've been masturbating alot. So now i am a bit scared to have sex. Cuz i am bit scared that i get them so fast. Should i be worried or is it ok or what? Please any h... (62 words)

Regain respect from girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am in a long distance relationship and I feel like I've lost her respect and I want to know if its possible to regain it or should I just cut my losses... Here are the reasons I feel there is no respect: -She talks to me in the imperative rather than asking -She doesnt... (256 words)